Facebook has popped my crazy vain!

coinxoperated

I have to say, I have no concerns about them being gothic, as I am myself. I don't mind (and quite enjoy) watching !!!!!! with him and looking at tattooed women. I'm bisexual myself, so I enjoy it as much as he does! (I'm an !!! person, he's boobs xD), but the only concern I had was the storing of names, which I just found odd. Especially as we seem to be so open about what we like.

Thank you all for showing me things from a different perspective, and I think I shall hold my tongue and not mention it too him. As you've all said, It's just virtual pictures, no biggy as long as no contact is made.

Thanks a lot all, and I should focus on my insecurities and shake thm out of me!

If he leaves me for a dita von tease lookalike you lot will have a lot to answer for :rotfl:

RedBern

I'd be more worried about his short term memory if he has to write down these names.

74jax

I don't think it helps you finding out what WE feel about it.

How do you feel and what are you going to do. Analyising on here won't solve anything.

I'm guessing your friends on FB, ask why he has 'liked' so many sites, he might have booked tattoos he like, we don't know. Until you ask we can guess till the cows comes home.

You don't want to ask because you know how you found out was wrong, but you can't change that. This started out with you 'kinda' not trusting him for something he may or may not have been doing. If you come clean it will end in him nog trusting you because of some you DID do.

duchy

I think your past is haunting you a bit

It sounds like he messages himself reminders of names so he can go back and look at later -if you have no problem with him looking at them -then honestly I don't think you have anything to worry about in finding his list. He's not even fixating on one or two but a selection -hence the need to make note of the various names.