Does any have, or have had, au pairs?

missk_ensington

HariboJunkie wrote:

But you said in post 215 that you looked after him all weekend.

Apologies, slight error I dont look after him ALL of saturday and sunday from 7am, I start on Saturday at 10am.

sarahlouise210

missk_ensington wrote:

I get DLA because it enables me to live independently with a chronic condition

And just how would your life be different in terms of independance if you did not get DLA ...you drive ..your work ..you go to uni ...you go on nights out...etc etc - DLA does not enable you to live independanty because of a chronic illnes - it just gives you more money. Id you really needed someone with you ALL the time then you would know whta not being independant is.

Zara33

missk_ensington wrote:

I would spend more time with my son, however I have to work and go to uni to support us. All the disability money put together only covers my mortgage and travel costs. My wage is the main income.

Dont forget of my monthly income, most is from my WORKING WAGES because I have a good salary because I have a good job and have worked hard is not a crime. If you have less than me and you both work full time all I can say is you should have studied harder at school :T

MONEY actually is not everything, although you believe it is the be all and the end all.

Personally i would rather be skint all the time and watch my child grow up

brazilianwax

Are your (wind up) posts really a forerunner to the most imaginative (and heartbreaking) work of fiction ever?

I presume you are planning to do something with that English Lit degree of yours.

Edinburghlass_2

missk_ensington wrote:

Apologies, slight error I dont look after him ALL of saturday and sunday from 7am, I start on Saturday at 10am.

and doesn't this post just say it all... you start on Sunday from 7.00 am, woe betide the poor little boy should he wake up before mummy starts her w/end work :rolleyes:

Rachie_B

missk_ensington wrote:

I would spend more time with my son, however I have to work and go to uni to support us. All the disability money put together only covers my mortgage and travel costs. My wage is the main income.

you openly admit you wouldnt do so as it would give you migraines ,bore you senseless etc
:rolleyes:

so which is it ??? you WANT to spend more time with him but cant as you need to work ( which isnt a crime)

OR

DONT want to spend time with him and actually spend as little as possible with him as you dont like being a mum

it wouldnt be so bad if the [STRIKE]lies[/STRIKE] reasons on this thread were consistant

they are anything but .......

HariboJunkie

missk_ensington wrote:

Apologies, slight error I dont look after him ALL of saturday and sunday from 7am, I start on Saturday at 10am.

I should have been a detective:D
Shame I didn't study harder at school:rotfl:

ooobedoo

To be honest, before MSG was mentioned I thought there might have been a MSB..not any more

brazilianwax

missk_ensington wrote:

Dont forget of my monthly income, most is from my WORKING WAGES because I have a good salary because I have a good job and have worked hard is not a crime. If you have less than me and you both work full time all I can say is you should have studied harder at school :T

Shame you missed sex education.

HariboJunkie

ooobedoo wrote:

To be honest, before MSG was mentioned I thought there might have been a MSB..not any more

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: Careful or you'll be made to stand in the corner
.....or worse.....banished to the green and ethical money saving forum.:p