Sad Mother's Day

Boots888

To the contrary of the other thread I miss my Mum. It's been 6 years now since her death and I'm only just able to mention it.

So I'd like to send hugs to all those that "joined the gang" and lost their Mum specifically if you are on your own.

marleyboy

Your Mum hasn't gone, she is just up the stairs. Be sure to close your eyes and wish her a Happy Mothers day and smile as she says "Thank You."

Boots888

marleyboy wrote: »

Your Mum hasn't gone, she is just up the stairs. Be sure to close your eyes and wish her a Happy Mothers day and smile as she says "Thank You."

Thank you MarleyBoy - you're reply bought a tear to my eye - only a little one mind!!

But it's a first as I still can't cry - Still in denial I think.

I was given 2 bits of advice when she died (I was in complete shock, deniel and full of adreneline)

1. Always think of and remember your Mum
2. You don't have to confront "everything" in life.

I think I took the latter through no control of my own I'll add.

Maybe she is up there looking out for me or:-

maybe I'm just a hard b*tch with no feelings anymore.

Anyhow, she'd have had half the neighbourhood round yesterday for soup, wine and to watch the Rugby - a real Irish star!!:T

McKneff

My mum has been gone 30 years and I still shed a tear every now and again.

Today, of all days, what I tend to remind myself of is that she is only ever a thought away.

Hugs to all who have lost their mums, hugs to all who can't be mums and those who choose not to be mums too.
xx
Annie

SmallL

My OH who is now 20 lost him mum to cancer less than two years ago, its still very raw.
no one should lose a parent this young

Boots888

"Hugs to all who have lost their mums, hugs to all who can't be mums and those who choose not to be mums too.
xx
Annie"

& we should hug Step Mums' too x

& maybe a little one for Step-Step Mums??!!:cool:

castleton

It's the other way around for me. This is my second one without my darling daughter ( aged 30) and I will always miss her.She was my best friend. We had time to say good bye and talk about lots of things.She told me that she had a wonderful childhood and a wonderful grown up hood She said she would always be there and would haunt me so that I would never be lonely. I often feel that she is near me.
Happy Mother's Day to all.

love Pam

webitha

hugs to those who lost theirs
im sad too coz my lot have with the help of my ex made me feel like crap
"its his day" so he is having them.....no cards nothing
so im getting drunk lol

Boots888

webitha wrote: »

hugs to those who lost theirs
im sad too coz my lot have with the help of my ex made me feel like crap
"its his day" so he is having them.....no cards nothing
so im getting drunk lol

Ah! They'll be back with you though won't they!!

I'm trying to get drunk, feel incredibly sober though:mad:

laurad85

Today is my first mothers day as a mum myself but the second without my mum, it's a strange bitter sweet day...

cloudy-day

First Mother's Day without my Mum.

Beem tough but the hardest thing is friends and family thinking that 4 months after she died I'm 'over it'.

I'm not.

Hugs to all