un-hinged!

mary_hinge

stripes wrote: »

I'm no lady I spit

Love the video soooooo cute. :T

The King is better but not school ready he is having lots of naked time so his skin can heal :cool:

I just spat my cuppa everywhere :eek:

please-let-me-be-lucky

It means sperm in Newcastle too :rotfl:.

Had a good giggle reading this thread to tonight. Hope everyone is well.

Ps, all the toffee type sweets are my favourites!

mary_hinge

I nearly forgot.... I bought our turkey crown today :j YS of course, 1.8kg reduced to £6 from £15 :T

liltdiddylilt

Well I also spat this evening. I am definitely no lady! You had me crying with laughter... :rotfl: 'jizz' means the same thing here as it appears to do everywhere but your household Mrs H!!

Nice one on the turkey crown! I need to eat more freezer food before I contemplate any Christmas fodder :eek:

I love the orange and strawberry sweeties me. You can get green triangle bars, and giant green triangles, and giant purple ones incidentally... There is also a box of just strawberry ones!!!

stripes

liltdiddylilt wrote: »

Well I also spat this evening

:rotfl:

It's a school night so I'm not spitting tonight :beer:

mary_hinge

stripes wrote: »

:rotfl:

It's a school night so I'm not spitting tonight :beer:

:eek::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

mary_hinge

I'm sulking, Daddy Hinge has really upset me, I shouldn't be surprised he just needs to open his mouth and attempt to talk to me and he manages to make me cry. I have tried for the last 8 years to have some kind of relationship with him but I'm slowly realising it is like flogging a dead horse and maybe time to call it a day. We are like strangers, he doesn't know me and doesn't make any attempt to, when he rings all I get is how wonderful his new extended family are. When invited to visit he always has an excuse of being too busy.... too busy with his new family and adopted children and grandchildren and insists on telling me all the lovely details of their big family get together's. It's like a smack in the mouth every time he rings and Missy Hinge is really starting to notice that he isn't around and shows no interest in us :(

Grumble grumble grumble

liltdiddylilt

What you need to look at Mrs H is; what does Daddy Hinge bring to your life? If the answer is sad feelings, a lack of care and issues that the kids are picking up on, maybe it is time to call it a day there. If he can't visit, and he is so wrapped up in his new family, I personally (vindictive and possibly a bit cuting my own nose off) would ask him not to bother calling any more as broken promises are starting to be noticed and you are looking after your own real families interests and not those who only call to brag.

Big hugs to you... xx

maddiemay

Gentle hugs Mrs Hinge, I am with liltdiddylilt on this one.
If the parent is having a negative effect on your health and well being and dear Missy Hinge too, I would just back away, I know that is easy for me to say, but as you wrote after the funeral of your dear sister, in spite of the dis function around you through your growing up years and beyond you have created a wonderful loving family unit of your own, what was it your ex-SM said "well done kid"?, you have done good and you are worth more than Daddy H is prepared to give you:A:A. Try and take strength and love from all the good people in your life and just let all the others get on with being selfish, un-caring, self-centred or whatever endearing (not) character traits they have.

I hope that you manage to muster some spoons together and have a very happy Christmas.
MM xx

mary_hinge

liltdiddylilt wrote: »

What you need to look at Mrs H is; what does Daddy Hinge bring to your life? If the answer is sad feelings, a lack of care and issues that the kids are picking up on, maybe it is time to call it a day there. If he can't visit, and he is so wrapped up in his new family, I personally (vindictive and possibly a bit cuting my own nose off) would ask him not to bother calling any more as broken promises are starting to be noticed and you are looking after your own real families interests and not those who only call to brag.

Big hugs to you... xx

After his last call ended rather abruptly (he asked how I was then suddenly had to dash of the seconded I mentioned I was struggling with grief and juggling exhaustion and all the little Hinge's needs) I text him a long message explaining how I was very angry and felt let down by him along with a few home truths (done nicely I may add....) it took him no less than 8 whole days to ring and see if I was ok. I dodged his call in order to avoid more tears and making a iPhone shaped dent in my living room wall.

I always said I won't have my children feeling the way I did growing up and unfortunately it seems Missy Hinge is feeling just the same as I did all them years ago. I shouldn't be surprised and I shouldn't really expected anything else from him, but maybe just maybe I though he could be the father and grandfather I believe we deserve.

I wont play second best or be an after thought anymore(more like third or fourth best in all reality).

I can see 2015 to be the year I pull my big girl pants on again

Thankyou Lilt x