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Advice needed - ex-husband being unreasonable about maintenance
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Why the assumption that OP would get tax credits (or at least enough to offset the cost of childcare?)
My ex was without a job for many months, didn't pay a penny in maintenance (not even the £5 a week), I had to pay everything but for food when he was with him. I worked full-time and paid morning and afternoon clubs. I did ask him once if he would consider having them some mornings/afternoons but he refused because the school was a 30 minutes walk....
I didn't insist because I didn't trust he would manage to get the kids to school on time or that he wouldn't tell me with no notice that he wouldn't do it any longer, even without a job. They could have enjoyed regular quality time with his children (something he always moaned he wasn't getting....) and it would have been good exercise for them. Instead, i had to pay over £300 a month childcare whilst only entitled to £45 a month tax credits.
It is an assumption, the OP may be earning over the limit for these or not enough hours etc.
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