"I've just had a w**k....."

C_Mababejive

Peater wrote: »

I had a long distance (Well, 80miles, enough to stop you seeing each other during the week) relationship and it was quite a normal subject of telephone conversation. 'What have you been up to this evening? - 'Oh, y'know. Gym, Dinner, washing up, quick w**k. The usual.'

Some people get funny about it, i call them prudes. Besides, for chaps, it's just a 'process', a means to an end.

I am just wondering if you are male or female...and was your partner of the opposite gender?

foreign_correspondent

.. and what was the 'experts' verdict on this?

the most odd thing I think is not him mentioning this to his partner, but that people want to do so on tv - and tell the world that they aren't getting any!

C_Mababejive

foreign_correspondent wrote: »

.. and what was the 'experts' verdict on this?

the most odd thing I think is not him mentioning this to his partner, but that people want to do so on tv - and tell the world that they aren't getting any!

I tend to agree..ok its slightly more cerebral than Jeremy Kyle but it is of the same genre.

I'm afraid i cant update you on the result. The main distraction was Ms Cox and I flicked before the end of the proggy. It might be on iplayer or similar although come to think of it,i think it was on he reality channel.

Peater

C_Mababejive wrote: »

I am just wondering if you are male or female...and was your partner of the opposite gender?

I'm male, she was/is female. She was/is a prolific w**ker in more ways than one.

burnoutbabe

i may record the show, so cheers for the heads up.

yes, my boyfriend would tell me, and we live together. don't see it as any issue. now doing it when being filmed seems stranger.

thegirlintheattic

Whilst I don't think the OH would do it on camera, we're very open and it might come up in conversation. As for why was he pleasuring himself while she was out shopping, would it be so wrong if she was doing it whilst he was out working or fixing the car?

The basis for a happy, healthy relationship and sex life is communication and openness.

Gavin83

I'd tell my girlfriend if I'd just had a !!!!, don't see what the issue is to be honest.

Alikay

thegirlintheattic wrote: »

As for why was he pleasuring himself while she was out shopping, would it be so wrong if she was doing it whilst he was out working or fixing the car?

Depends how despised the non-wnking task was: Doing the weekly supermarket shop, particularly with kids in tow, is one I especially detest. So yeah, DH loafing around watching !!!!!! and cracking one off like a 15 year old on half-term break would kinda pee me off!

Carl31

We do it
'what did you do this morning?'
'sorted the car insurance, watched TV, knocked one out'
its normal, people do it. The one person you should be able to talk like that with is your partner surely? I think its weird that people are not comfortable enough to talk openly with their partner

System

I'd be really upset/peed off if i knew my man was doing it when he had me to have sex with. Whats a hand got that i havent? LOL!