Am I worrying unnecessarily ?

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

Yes. After 15 days of getting up, going there and having to learn to get along with 15 other mini tyrants, the majority of toddlers/preschoolers/infants turn round and wail that they don't want to go to school again.

I wouldn't be blaming one teacher for what almost every single kid has done at some point in their life when they realise that this new, fun thing called school actually happens every day and it means they can't sit in front of CBeebies in their PJs eating Cheerios from the box when they feel like it.

jamespir

This thread disgusted me but then why am i suprised the press these days make evryone think that all men are pedo's especially if they work with kids


your child is perhaps tired ,finds it hard to be away from you , dont like other kids

as for the idea of going in to kind of spy on the people that's without being honest would make you suspect

Big_Alf

Bronnie wrote: »

Big_Alf wrote: »

I'm a kindergarten principle QUOTE]

Are you really? Do you mean Kindergarten Principal?

If you are going to be a !!!!!! then at least learn how to use the quote function properly. When trolling message boards in the early hours of the morning for spelling mistakes, at least get the basics right.

faerie~spangles

Just some background I normally only take him on my day off so today was unusual for him.

So the OP changes her kid's routine, probably stresses the kid out.

Then has the brass neck to blame it on a ... (Feel free to fill in the blanks)

Then she has the temerity to say she's going to volunteer at the nursery in order to spy on the staff.



I wouldn't let anyone of her ilk near my great, great, great grandchildren:cool:

TheEffect

I'm a 21 year old male and have previously worked with young kids and am starting my teaching application this year for secondary teaching. Does that make me a child abuser?

OP, you and your obscene remarks are the exact reason I decided against going into primary teaching.

What proof do you have this man is sexually abusing your child? Absolutely none. You more than likely came to this conclusion because you don't want to believe your child could be having a bad day.

Most likely you'll be the one to complain that your child has no male teachers throughout their nursery and primary education and as a result, your child finds it hard to associate males as teachers when they enter secondary education, when in reality, you're entirely the reason for that.

gravitytolls

lostinrates wrote: »

Op is getting a bit of a bashing and i can see why, but don't think its the best way to reassure her and encourage a healthieroutlook.

Op, if you are still reading, something to reflect on is that there is potential to do more harm to your child by seeing bogeymen and risks everywhere. Of course you need to be alert to risk but you also need to not be a risk yourself of creating an environment where mistrust and guardedness reign....those attitudes will certaunly cause harm.

I hope you really do feel reassured by parents ' advice from here. Incidentally my friends son sometimes cries when she leaves him at nursery or woth me, or when he is collected. As soon as she is out of sight he is giggling and happy. I think its a fairly normal attempt at getting her to stay.

Yay sensible post. :j

cheepskate_2

op, i have not read all the posts, but to just put this into prespective.

It is a fact , that people abusing the children are usually well know to them and usually family/close circle members........so in that case, it would more likely be your father, brother, uncle......or even your best friends husband, who is also the god parent of your child,iykwim.