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MSE Pregnancy Club 24

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  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Morning all,

    I've tried to read back but I'm tired and can remember very little.

    I'm sure there were two ladies asking to join? Sorry I can't remember who it was now? :o Would you both like adding to the list?

    Re: bath Rups, yes they are fine, just don't have them too hot and if your bathroom is one that gets really warm maybe just open the window. I never fill the bath above my bump as I like the water quite warm. You will find as you get further on baths are lovely (I want the all the time at the moment) but they do get increasingly difficult to get out of :p
    Massages, I was told when I went to a spa when I was 5 weeks that they don't do any massages or anything that involves pressure points until 14 weeks, after that there isn't a problem, you just need to make sure they are aware you are pregnant as some essential oils shouldn't be used in pregnancy or can only be used after 36/37 weeks.

    I'm in Shrewsbury and staying at PIL's house. When we got her Friday evening it was 16 degrees outside and they had the heating on :eek: it's just so bloody hot in here that combined with the fact that we have to sleep in a queen sized bed means I haven't slept much this weekend and I have been on the sofa early both mornings.

    Oh well enough moaning from me. Sorry I haven't been around much lately I will try to get on more this week.

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    EDD
    1. Cheetara - 24th June 2012 :female:
    2. fluffnutter - 27th June 2012?
    3. SaliMali - 30th June 2022 :female:
    4. elj2287 - 6th July 2012 ? Going for a supriseo
    5. silly moo - 12th July 2012 :male:
    6. Robyn - 20th July 2012 :male:
    7. Clarissa62 - 20th July 2012 :male:
    8. AMC1979- 20th July 2012 :male:
    9. Rebekah - 23rd July 2012 :female:
    10. stephimoon - 27th July 2012
    11. jediquigley - 30th July 2012 ?
    12. divorcingjack - 2nd August 2012 ?
    13. MrsExcited - 3rd August 2012 ?
    14. the3musketeers - 3rd August 2012 :male:
    15. Gillybean - 5th August 2012 :female:
    16. GRIGGSY - 7th August 2012 :female:
    17. Agscully-11th August 2012 ?
    18. GemmaE-11th August 2012 ?
    19. Chrissy1981-11th August 2012 ?
    20. jen77 - 14th August 2012 ?
    21. rjh090384 - 15th August 2012 :male:
    22. i luv freebies - 15th August 2012 :male:
    23. betty101 - 16th August 2012 ?
    24. tashmartin - 21st August 2012 ?
    25. Student_Mrs - 22nd August 2012 :male:
    26. happy8178 - 27th August 2012 :female:
    27. shell_girl - 30th August 2012 ?
    28. ferrety- 3rd September 2012 :female:
    29. Bellola - 7th September 2012 ?
    30. Elelyn - 8th September 2012 :male:
    31. Breast Cancer Survivor - 8th September 2012 :male:
    32. twinklie - 10th September 2012 :male:
    33. emsbet - 11th September 2012 :male:
    34. The Next Verse - 12th September 2012 ?
    35. MissMonkeyMoo - 12th September 2012 ?
    36. Little miss moneysaver - 14th September 2012 :male:
    37. kittycat1977 - 16th September 2012 :male:
    38. Kitten_Pie - 16th September 2012 :female:
    39. MummyOfTwo - 17th September 2012
    40. NBirdy - 17th September 2012 :male:
    41. Mishkanorman - 19th September 2012 :male:
    42. SamW - 21st September 2012 ?
    43. sexymouse - 23rd September 2012 :male:
    44. milliebob - 24th September 2012 :male:
    45. tigerwhite - 26th September 2012 ?
    46. fozpot - 27th September 2012 ?
    47. ikkle87 - 3rd October 2012 :male:
    48. moneypuddle - 4th October 2012 :male:
    49. snowbean - 6th October 2012 ?
    50. KatyLiz - 6th October 2012 :female:
    51. Snowyz81 - 13th October 2012 ?
    52. bikelesschick - 19th October 2012 ?
    53. scottishchick27 - 27th October 2012 :male:
    54. Twinkle - 31st October 2012 ?
    55. vic_rich - 4th November 2012 ?
    56. Dribblekitten 5th November 2012 ?
    57. punkpink - 8th November 2012 :female:
    58. Maddie - 12th November 2012 :male:
    59. catbag - 12th November 2012 ?? (twins)
    60. LittleMoog - 13th November 2012 ?
    61. Kimmilew - 14th November 2012 ?
    62. dizsiebubba - 17th November 2012 :male:
    63. Cake4brains - 18th November 2012 :female: :female:(twins)
    64. kavics17 - 23rd November 2012 ?
    65. savageHK - 26th November 2012 ?
    66. missbunbury - 26th November 2012 ?
    67. Sa-ra-ra-ra - 30th November 2012 ?
    68. Myatt - 1st December 2012 ?
    69. jonno7 - 3rd December 2012 ?
    70. colli - 4th December 2012 ?
    71. got-to-spend-it - 6th December 2012 ?
    72. LadyMorticia - 7th December 2012 ?
    73. CL - 10th December 2012 ?
    74. mlbarrett - 10th December 2012 ?
    75. Rups32 - 24th December 2012 ?
    76. Aida - 28th December 2012 ?
    77. maddnessandmayhem- 10th January 2013 ?
    78. Missus Aka- 15th January 2013 ?
    79. cali77 - 19th January 2013 ?
    Hospital Bag list here

    Supplement list and dosage here

    BIRTH LIST

    :female: Nutella - 11th May 2012 - 8lbs 6oz
    :female: alizee - 12th May 2012 - Isabel 8lbs 7oz
    :female: gtothec - 14th May 2012, 11:15pm - 8lbs
    :female: hannah27 - 18th May 2012, 12:17am
    :male: Thrifty-gal26 - 15th May 2012
    :female: Miss_Money - 22nd May 2012, 15:45 - Mabel Lucy-Rose, 8lbs 4oz
    :male: Kabie - 23rd May 2012, 03:15 - 8lbs 6oz
    :female: Teerah - 25th May 2012, Eabha, 8lbs 1oz
    :female: MrsH...2B - 29th May 2012, 03:55 - Olivia Faye, 6lbs 4oz
    :male: monks - 1st June 2012, 09:51 - Oliver Daniel, 7lbs 10oz
    :female: Norabatty - 4th June 2012, 08:30
    :male: turtlemoose - 4th June 2012, 09:28 - Reuben Michael, 8lbs
    :male: Jovichick123 - 6th June 2012, 09:52 - Max Hedley John, 3lbs 12oz
    :male: rakkibeth - 12th June 2012, 07:59am - Oscar, 6lbs 9oz
    :male: whowants2brich- 14th June 2012, 22:21- Ryan Jacob 5lbs 7oz
    :male: ladylegs - 15th June 2012, 10:09am - Joel Thomas, 9lbs 1oz
    :male: MrsManda - 15th June 2012 - Alexander, 7lbs 5oz
    :female: SallyCinnamon - 16th June 2012, 12:52am - Josie, 8lb 7oz
    :male: Triangle - 16th June 2012, 5:50pm - Joseph Arthur, 7lbs 8oz
    :male: BB1984 - 18th June 2012, 2:54am - William, 8lbs 3oz
    :male: museumworker - 18th June 2012, 2:58am - 7lbs 9oz
    :female: choclover - 19th June 2012, 21:52 - Emily, 7lbs 10oz
    :male: kelda_shelton - 22nd June 2012, 10:08am - 9lbs 10.5oz
    :male:MrsBryan - 25th June 2012, 2:14pm - Teddy Michael, 8lbs 14oz
    :male: nikkikayj - 2nd July 2012

    PROBABLY GIVEN
    BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list


    Magicboo-18th May 2012 (twins!) ? ?
    Doodlebug86-19th May 2012 ?
    Princess Fairy Sparkle - 21st May 2012 ?
    LegalBlonde - 22nd May 2012 ?
    Wiccanlou - 26th May 2012 ?(waiting for dating scan)
    Pistachio - 26th May 2012AmyP1985 - 14th June 2012 ?
    Weekendpants - 14th June 2012 ?

    jordanchaos - 17th June 2012
    :female:

    Lixi - 20th June 2012 :male:

    CONTRACTION MASTER TIMER


    Please post your birth stories here when you
    have time/energy


    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • snowyz81
    snowyz81 Posts: 213 Forumite
    I'm the same KatyLiz, constantly having bad nights sleep. People keep saying its just getting you used to the baby arriving. I have a had a baby before and slept fine that time. As much as i appreciate some comments, but some people trying to go on about how bad it will be this time with 2, really starting to annoy me now. All babies are different and just cause they have had issues with both of theres doesnt mean i will be the same (sorry for the rant)

    I seem to have had a good night last night, went sleep about 10.30 and woke up about 7 cause DD put her telly on (least she didnt come and wake me up)

    OH is on his brother stag do in newcastle all weekend so had the bed to myself its been amazing. I think i might tell him to sleep on the sofa so i can get my sleep:rotfl:

    We are having a girlie weekend as such, we went out for a meal for my brother birthday yesterday with my mum and today we are off to Ikea to get her a new lamp (she loves Ikea) then monday i'm off work so we are going to the legoland place at the trafford centre and then for dinner and then to get some bathbombs (She loves Lush as well)

    My belly button is still an inny, it was the same with DD it didnt pop out at all, and boobs are getting massive now as well.

    Sorry i've had a bit of a waffle.
    Mummy to Isabella - March 2008 and Daisie - September 2012
    :A - November 2011 (mc)
  • KatyLiz
    KatyLiz Posts: 407 Forumite
    snowyz81 I've never slept badly in pregnancy before either, I think the experience is different each time. Re peoples comments, I just ignore everything I'm told, if people don't have something positive to say then I really wish they wouldn't bother!

    I feel for you in that heat emsbet. I'm sweltering at the best of times, just the thought of having the heating on is making me feel hot!
    Cross Stitch Cafe member no.80
  • Dunners
    Dunners Posts: 1,034 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    Hi ladies, have popped a pretty good nursing bra offer on the grabbit board if anyone's interested:

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4060491

    x
    Some people create their own storms....then get upset when it rains!
  • LittleMoog
    LittleMoog Posts: 2,392 Forumite
    Morning ladies :)

    My tummy/bump have been really sore for the last few days, feel like I've done too many sit ups or something :o I guess it's just everything stretching, but was thinking about one of those bump support bands - anyone tried one?
    Little monkey born November 2012:j
    Froglet due March 2016 :D
  • Hello

    I've missed a couple of birthdays there (can't even remember who it was, baby brain :mad:) but I hope you had a lovely time!

    Re: benefits I know we've had a few responses already and someone kindly clarified that even child benefit is dependent on income. I can't remember who it was, but are you sure?? I'm in a similar position as moneypuddle and when I looked into entitlements, I was left under the impression that everyone got child benefit. I've just checked on direct.gov.uk and got this for entitlement to child benefit (there's nothing about how much you earn!).
    Who is eligible?

    You may be able to get Child Benefit if your child is:
    • aged under 16
    • over 16 but under 20 - and is in education or training that counts for Child Benefit
    • under 18 and has recently left education or training - but they must have registered for work, education or training with a careers service, Connexions, Ministry of Defence or similar
    (I haven't yet used the benefit calculater LadyMorticia gave us - thanks by the way!)

    Moneypuddle - loving the bump, wardrobe and the scrapbook! Where do you find the time for the scrapbook?? I'm struggling to keep a diary!

    Thanks for the link to the book MissMonkeyMoo, could you give us some feedback once you get it to let us know if it's really worth it? I know it's only £3 but I'm tight!

    RebekahR - thanks for the info on the Jojo offer, no shops nearby :(

    LittleMoog - it can be like that sometimes. I've not tried the bands myself but found that the stretching came in waves so I just put up with it as I knew it'd be gone in a few days. At 25+2 I still get these but not as often and not as bad.

    AFM, I had my 25wk mw appointment on Thursday and had a bit of a scare. To cut a long story short, I've been getting it for at least a couple of weeks now and the mw sent me to hospital straight from appointment for testing as apparently we're not supposed to get as much so soon:eek: ended up that all is well and they'll contact me if anything shows up on exams.

    On a different note, I know some of you mentioned that your DH/OHs are helping out with housework, etc but I'm finding that mine doesn't get the gist of the tiredness and still expects me to do everything I normally do (which is everything but dusting and hoovering). Is anyone else on this boat? I've tried to get him to understand that things have changed but he doesn't seem to understand. Any ideas of how to get him to understand??

    Sorry for long post:o
    :jBaby girl born 3rd October 2012:j
  • Maddie
    Maddie Posts: 859 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi all,

    Thanks for the heads up on the little lamb sale (sorry can't remember who it was - have been keeping up on daily emails).

    I liked the page and they are about to post up a link to the deals now
    Proud to be a moneysaver! :cool:
  • Maddie
    Maddie Posts: 859 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    http://www.littlelambnappies.com/fb

    Help - how many do i need? lol
    Proud to be a moneysaver! :cool:
  • Kitten_Pie
    Kitten_Pie Posts: 1,961 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Overdraft = £1000 Emergency fund = £2500
    Competition wins 2015 = £1400
    :ANathan Henry & Lincoln Marcus born 19th October 2011 :A
    :D Naomi Lily born 28th August 2012 :D Lachlan Georg born 4th October 2013 :D
    :D Rowena Hazel born 5th October 2015 :D
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