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LBM in 2003.. What have I been doing since??!

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  • brizzledfw
    brizzledfw Posts: 7,302 Forumite
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    I know Ig and that's why your/Gandhi's words in your sig are definitely needed now, she needs us to act. Don't wait but do something now.

    I have just given substantial donations (sod the budget on this point) to UNHCR and also a campaign by the Joint Council for the Welfare of Immigrants for their I Am An Immigrant campaign.. Recognising the positive contributions they and their families make to our countries.

    Not very much but I wanted to do something fairly immediately, however small.,

    About to make about 6 beds now. That'll put me in a fine mood!! (Not!)
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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,082 Forumite
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    brizzledfw wrote: »
    PF..I couldn't see it. Could you try and find the thread for me? It'd be a huge help.

    Feel v low today. A woman doing her job, with such a strong moral compass died in a horrific senseless way yesterday...feel so so sad. Juxtaposed with Farage's 'poster' just makes me feel sick.

    So...what will I do today..

    - hug my husband and kids just that little bit more often and tightly
    - up my contribution to charities working in Syria/the refugee areas nearby and further afield
    - clean my house so I feel calm and like I have achieved something and then that picks up item 5. from my 'to do' list yesterday

    Hugs to everyone...we are a powerful group on here of strength and positivity...lets keep it that way and be a force for good

    Xx

    I'm also feeling low and also helpless in the face of such a waste of a purposeful life, so I shall steal your ideas. Thanks for giving the name of a Syrian organisation. I too shall make a contribution. A little one, but we can only do what we can do. Off to do some cleaning too....Thank you :)
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  • poohbear59
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    feeling so very sad for the terrible loss of such a good woman. It has spurred me on to go and do some sorting of all the donations that we have for Calais. Another load leaving here very soon. And I will follow your lead and give more to the 'I am an immigrant campaign'. I wonder how many of us are descended from immigrants. I am, and proud of it.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,813 Ambassador
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    Just so dire.
    Not a good day at all.
    Cant stop thinking of her littlies.
    That is why we must try to make everyday count.
    It starts with us & it starts from now.
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  • brizzledfw
    brizzledfw Posts: 7,302 Forumite
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    edited 17 June 2016 at 3:38PM
    Thanks all. She'd be proud of ordinary people getting on and making a difference and standing up for our strength in our diversity. Pooh - that's great. The conditions in Calais and the other camps still seem dire. DiA - thanks so much. I intend to add those organisations to my regular contributions from now on. I was intending to 'tithe' more anyway. Keen to get to 2% of my gross household income anyway (following the Muslim pillar) and this is a kick in the pants to do it.

    Beanie - I know and although mine are so much older I think that's one of the reasons it's so completely devastating is that she was a working woman in her 40s living simply on a boat (which is tricky even without littlies!) trying to make the world a better place. Anyone's life is important of course but some folks are real role models and she was one of them. I will be talking about her with my girls this weekend.

    Onto more minor matters:

    - can't be doing with the Soapnuts so they are on Freecycle and I went and bought 1/2 price Ar?el. Giving in? Yes possibly but OH was desperate at the state of his white shirts!
    - 6 IKEA synthetic filled pillows on wall ready for collection.. We have so many and I only like feather filled so as they don't give me joy they are gone. Must update sig.
    - OH spent about an hour mending a freezer compartment door.. Probably saved us over £30 in not getting a spare. Clever man :T
    MFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal :D
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  • brizzledfw
    brizzledfw Posts: 7,302 Forumite
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    And airline has just paid me (twice, think it's a mistake) for the flight cancellation. Thanks :money: for the advice on here to keep pushing. I am taking OH out to dinner tonight to say thank you for all he does. Fathers Day is low key in our house so he'll like this idea
    MFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal :D
    Winter 17/18 Savings Rate Goal: 25% [October 30%] :T
    Declutter 60 items before 31.03.18 9/60 ** LSDs Target 10 for March 03/10 **AFDs 10/15 ** Sales/TCB Target 2018 £25/£500 NSDs Target 10 for March 02/10 Trying to be a Frugalista:rotfl::T
  • brizzledfw
    brizzledfw Posts: 7,302 Forumite
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    Just seen the fund set up in Jo Cox's memory - raising money for

    - the Royal Voluntary Society- to combat loneliness - especially in her constituency
    - White Helmets - civilians who rescue the injured and dead in Syria - so absolutely in the thick of the carnage
    - Hope Not Hate - battling extremism here in UK

    Worthy causes. Have also just made a pledge to a grassroots initiative here in my city too. It's the day for it. Has to be.
    MFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal :D
    Winter 17/18 Savings Rate Goal: 25% [October 30%] :T
    Declutter 60 items before 31.03.18 9/60 ** LSDs Target 10 for March 03/10 **AFDs 10/15 ** Sales/TCB Target 2018 £25/£500 NSDs Target 10 for March 02/10 Trying to be a Frugalista:rotfl::T
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,813 Ambassador
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    Wish I was nearer to you for pillows and soap nuts.
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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • brizzledfw
    brizzledfw Posts: 7,302 Forumite
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    Hey - can post Soapnuts. Pillows more difficult :p;) Will DM you as they haven't been taken yet :)
    MFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal :D
    Winter 17/18 Savings Rate Goal: 25% [October 30%] :T
    Declutter 60 items before 31.03.18 9/60 ** LSDs Target 10 for March 03/10 **AFDs 10/15 ** Sales/TCB Target 2018 £25/£500 NSDs Target 10 for March 02/10 Trying to be a Frugalista:rotfl::T
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,813 Ambassador
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    That would be ace.
    Can I send you some stamps to cover the cost of the postage?
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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