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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • peterbunny
    peterbunny Posts: 51 Forumite
    edited 16 January 2012 at 10:53PM
    Hi Shaggydoo, another good Sunday, roast pork, dauphinoise potatoes,
    ( got a mandolin for christmas, had to try it out.) STILL NO WINE.
    The kids r being very supportive.:D:D

    5 nights AF
    Target 20 AF

    First week without my partner of 4 yrs, so I think i'm doing very well, but realyl need the support of the thread. I'ts so easy to give in to temptation.
    Off for another swim.:A
    Be back online tomorrow.

    Goodluck to everyone trying for anothe AF day.
    Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of my life!
    No buying unnecessary clothes even if they are reduced.
  • another AF day for me please Shaggy!

    i had a few drinks saturday night but DH got wasted and was horrifically hungover the day after so put him off for sunday night so had no pressure on me being AF.
  • Hellooooo everyone *waves*
    I have returned from Nottingham and my work training weekend. I wasnt AF but on Friday I had 2 glasses of wine, then on Saturday a bit more and I woke up Sunday morning, ooked at my colleague I was sharing a room with and said "Thank God we're going home today, so I dont feel obligated to drink!" ALso I found for the first time EVER the anxiety that drinking usually (pretends) to take away that night was way worse as I was trying to get to sleep! poundy heart, anxiety thoughts etc. Usually that waits til 5am or the next day. Was quite scary! I then got home and realised this morning it hadnt even entered my mind to have a drink when I got in! SO I was AF yesterday :) am more than happy to be AF this week so 3 for the SNC please- hopefully 4 but a margin for error there ;)
    What has happened? Ive always been a drinker. is it age? or am I just sick to the back teeth of living half a life cos Im always slightly fuzzy and hungover??? I LOVE this new feling of control
    Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.

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  • beckseven
    beckseven Posts: 877 Forumite
    Hi 8 afds for me please shaggy and 4 for the snc please bearacus. My birthday celebrations are over now so back to the straight and narrow for me until my holiday.
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  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,784 Forumite
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    What has happened? Ive always been a drinker. is it age? or am I just sick to the back teeth of living half a life cos Im always slightly fuzzy and hungover??? I LOVE this new feeling of control

    That's my favourite bit idris, and the money saved and the calories saved and the feeling of smugness and the lack of hangovers and not looking like a bag lady and..........:rotfl:
  • bearacus
    bearacus Posts: 824 Forumite
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  • bearacus
    bearacus Posts: 824 Forumite
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    Welcome Lizzyb:wave:

    Peterbunny-you are doing really well :T

    MissP-Welcome back xx sorry to hear all the bad news that has happened to you :grouphug: Hoping piglet is ok too :)

    Flateric- Do you want me to count Sun - thurs or mon to fri for your 5days ? x Thanks :)

    Gien-Welcome back :wave: xx

    Glad Im finally back home and Sat against the radiator getting warm :rotfl: don't think I'm going to move all night xx

    bearacus x

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  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    Hi everyone
    12 AF please Shaggy
    Had a glass of wine with Sunday roast and then had another small glass in the eve, so very moderate drinking for me. No alcohol for me today. Im off on holiday all week and usually this is a trigger point for me to drink every eve, but im going to try and treat it like a normal week and resist the temptation. A day at a time.

    Hope your mum doing ok Bearacus x

    Peterbunny ~ i made those potatoes for first time on sun, delish. I have a mandolin on order from amazon, hope you are heeding the warnings about keeping your fingers far away from the slicer:eek:
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,784 Forumite
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    I'm calling in really early tonight. I'm off out to my dancing class and am looking forward to my mug of tea when I get back. [EMAIL="I@m"]I@m[/EMAIL] really proud of myself, time was I could never call in until I was on my way to bed!

    Have a good evening all, hope the bells are quiet for you all and anyway a hot drink is probably much better with the weather the way it is!

    8AFDs for January and 1 for the SNC please.
  • *Mari*
    *Mari* Posts: 473 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Hi everyone :D

    I have had a fab day, work was great (I know odd eh), came home went for a 4 mile run, then shower, PJ's and lush tea :).
    Have I any alcohol in the house...no, have I even given it a thought (in a I need a drink way)...no, am I feeling calm, happy, full of beans and relaxed all at once...yes,yes, YES!!!!!

    Sorry just had to get that off my chest :j
    Ohh and can I declare AFD no 9 and 1 for the SNC please.

    Peterbunny - you are doing so well, so glad the kids are being supportive. The first few weeks can be a stressful time, good for you making sure you are putting your energy into positive activities :T.

    Right off to read my book,

    Night all,

    Mari xx
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