Need more sex! Your views please!

victory

Lovelyjoolz wrote: »

Did I say tea?


I'm generally not a spitter......

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

gonzo127

males and communication is always a difficult thing,

mainly because we know what ever we say we are more than likely going to be in the wrong, look at one of the other threads today, "is he useless or am i being unreasonable" (or something like that) anyways nice example in there, woman gets stressed that guy wont talk and tell her whats wrong, when guy finally tells her whats wrong with him, she gets upset about the subject thats wrong with him (sexual activities in this case), in a sort of HOW DARE HE BE BOTHERED ABOUT THAT, I HAVE SO MANY MORE THINGS TO BE WORRIED ABOUT!!!!!!! sort of way

ok given the lady in question is 38 weeks pregnant does add a different slant to the issues, but its a good example of why guys will not always be so open and honest about whats actually on their mind

make_me_wise

There is nothing more off putting with sex than feeling like you have to perform to order. Only having a weekend together probably intensifies the feeling of having a limited time to be passionate in. Without allowing for spontaneity it kind of makes sex another thing to fit into a tight schedule. God that sentence doesn't sound quite right on a thread about sex .

How are things when you two have more time together? Have you been on holiday, had time to relax and be in each others company for more than a weekend? Is your sex life more how you want it to be then?

Some frank talking is needed really. This is obviously important to you and getting you down. Even if your boyfriend doesn't share your views its not great than he just laughs off something that is so important to you. If this continues you will end up resenting him.

wherediditallgothen

Lovelyjoolz wrote: »

I'm generally not a spitter......

How you doin?

Sublime_2

Who cares, use Lovehoney if you're that bothered.

VestanPance

scheming_gypsy wrote: »

if he'd rather watch men in lycra then you've got bigger problems.

Nothing wrong with watching cycling! :cool2:

make_me_wise

scheming_gypsy wrote: »

Cook him a nice meal and give him a blow job to get him in the mood.

What you women don't realise is that we find it difficult to get turned on while watching the crap you lot want to watch. So don't be too surprised if you're not getting your knickers torn off after an evening of soaps and Sex in the City.

What you men dont seem to realise, is that only women who aren't particularly turned on by their partners, would rather watch soaps and sex in the city than be having wild, passionate sex themselves

Those of us who want our knickers torn off get them torn off.

Peater

make_me_wise wrote: »

What you men dont seem to realise, is that only women who aren't particularly turned on by their partners, would rather watch soaps and sex in the city than be having wild, passionate sex themselves

Those of us who want our knickers torn off get them torn off.

I don't know if that statement is more degrading to men or to women.....

pinkduvetdiva

frustratedinlove wrote: »

Yeah but its just not the same as the real thing and anyway the rate I'm going the batteries will be gone in 2 days!!! :);););)

You can get rechargable "gadgets" these days..... I'll PM you.

candygirl

scheming_gypsy wrote: »

Cook him a nice meal and give him a blow job to get him in the mood.

What you women don't realise is that we find it difficult to get turned on while watching the crap you lot want to watch. So don't be too surprised if you're not getting your knickers torn off after an evening of soaps and Sex in the City.

How about Corrie St though?Surely that does it for you :eek::eek:;):rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: