Need more sex! Your views please!

londonsurrey

Do you know what turns him on?
Does he have a particular preference for busts, bottoms, legs or something more specialist, like feet?
Does he like being stroked, kissed, etc?
Does he like you dressing up in lingerie or playacting stuff?

On a less happy note, just in case, has he started having a problem with getting excited enough?

Mips

Sounds like he is knackered from working - only doleites can sh@g all day happily!

mandi

scheming_gypsy wrote: »

What you women don't realise is that we find it difficult to get turned on while watching crap.

Thats usually because men have the remote well & truly super glued to their hand ... :whistle:

Mips

jamespir wrote: »

get some sexy underwear always does the trick

Certainly does, 20 minutes shopping for me in Ann Summers turns into at least an hour in the bedroom :rotfl:

annie12

frustratedinlove wrote: »

Yeah but its just not the same as the real thing and anyway the rate I'm going the batteries will be gone in 2 days!!! :);););)

Get an hitachi wand. You'll never look back.

scheming_gypsy

mandi wrote: »

Thats usually because men have the remote well & truly super glued to their hand ... :whistle:

that's because we don't want to watch Sex in the City and Eastenders and then not get our leg over

Lincoln_Imp

Wonders how many PM`s you have had of offers to help out

TimBear

See we have the opposite problem - my OH would do it multiple times a day if he could, whereas I could go weeks and not miss it.

We are close - we cuddle and kiss but our sex life isn't amazing. I enjoy it when we do do it just wish I was in the mood more often, it's really starting to put a strain on our relationship.

Foodhoarder

Hi Frustratedinlove
I found myself in a very similar situation in a relationship about 18 months ago. I was very attracted to the guy and he said he felt the same, but rarely commented on my attractiveness/paid compliments etc. He would allow me to do whatever I wanted to him, but he rarely reciprocated my affection.
Time went by and I got more and more frustrated... introduced a little 'spice' to see how he would react- that didn't go down very well (and neither did he! lol!)
I spent weeks questioning if I was a rampant nympho like he said- came to the conclusion that was not true.

Someone once told me "To feel loved a man needs to have sex, to have sex a woman needs to feel loved"... Sometimes I wondered if our sex drives had some how got mixed up lol!

Anyway, long story short... got rid of him... he came crawling back for... wait for it... the sex! Anyway, decided that if he felt he had to force himself to be intimate with me I should find a new guy. I have done that and I am VERY happy (and tired out in love!) in my new relationship.

The most important thing I would say is communication... talk to him about your needs, tell him that you love HIM and want HIM to fulfil your desires... open your heart and he might surprise you!

Lotus-eater

Angelic wrote: »

I think that's a good enough reason to dump him really as a man who doesn't enjoy "eating out" is is probably going to be dull in bed.

Are we allowed to say then, that women who don't enjoy giving blow jobs, aren't worth dating, as they are going to be dull in bed?