The "Cripes, Christmas is almost here" December NSD thread

Hiddenidenity

Thank you for your replies xx

Hoping today is NSD 10, not going anyway to spend anything, spending the day doing not alot :rotfl:

donna_dynamo

Hi all NSD 4 today. No where to go but plenty to do at home. Loads of cooking, cleaning, Ironing to do and only a short amount of time t do it all so must get on.

bottleofred

Good afternoon folks,

BDNI, fantastic news on the Tenant and hope it helps you have a better Christmas as things are now sorted:T.

Hiddenidentity, I'm so sorry to hear of the theft at the grave. Some people really can be horrible and thoughtless regarding there actions:mad:.

I'm not going out today, so am going to spend the day wrapping presents, cooking and watching a bit of football, so I'm declaring NSD8 for today please:beer:

IF

Afternoon all :hello:

solventsoon

butdoineedit? wrote: »

Flying visit, as am on the old slow laptop at my dad's so will catch up & round up tomorrow, but i had to come on as i wanted you guys to be the first to hear my news.........

I HAVE A TENANT!!!!!!!

So happy it's unbelieveable, & thanks everyone for all your support, advice & listening to me whinge xxxxx

Back tomorrow!

:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j
woohooooo...

I'm so pleased for you BDINI, what fab news
xxxxxx

solventsoon

Hiddenidenity wrote: »

NSD number 9 :j

Went down to the grave as planned, and not impressed all out little keepsakes on there have been stolen :mad: how low can people go

Hoping tomorrow will be NSD number 10 for us I plan on goign no where and staying in feeling sorry for myself

What a horrible thing to happen Hiddenidenity, I'm so sorry to hear that.

People can be so cruel and thoughtless sometimes

Sending you lots of ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) and thoughts.
spoon xxx

solventsoon

Love the cartoon, If, and you Christmas avatar :T:T

marmiterulesok

I've managed no.6 today.A quiet day spent doing housework and wrapping presents.I've had a walk and plan to write my Christmas cards tonight-something that I keep putting off....

bdini-great news,pleased for you!

Frodobaggins

Need to get myself together. All I've done for days is Spend, Spend and Spend.

IF

Hi lovely NSD gang:A
As you can see there is lots of activity on this challenge at the moment and it's difficult sometimes to see how many NSDs you're all declaring on posts.
Could I ask you to highlight your number of NSDs in a colour and in bold so that I can see them easily when I whizz through the posts - red would be best but I don't really mind as long as I can see the numbers easily.

Some helpful suggestions and ideas to follow below from our sponsor and godmother, BigMummaF :A

NO SPEND CHALLENGE.

1. Have a good, long think about what YOU want to include in your Spend & Excluded categories.
Some of us count everything from Direct Debits & school expenses, while others do not include things like essential Bills or emergency medical costs. If you plan what is or is not a Spend for you now, it will help you decide on a realistic Target.
2. It is NOT a race!
We all have very different demands on our time & bank balance, so please do not think you have to buy everything on 1st January & make it last till 31st December! A few of us have been following this Challenge for a long...long...LONG time so have developed plans & ploys to help us along the way
3. Most important of all, WE..DO..NOT..FAIL!
Sometimes we can't quite reach our Target, but that is fine Everyone knows how Life will try to trip us up, & that is when you will find us here to help you back on to your feet.

OK, an idea of how some of us do things.
1. What you will or will not include as a 'Spend'.
Some people are doing other Challenges too, & don't include the money spent on those for this one.
Some will try to shop for other bits on the days their direct debits etc go out of their bank accounts; they're the real hard core of the bunch & have been l-o-n-g time Nsders so don't panic
Some won't count those annoying last minute demands from school & collections as you can't plan for them in advance, likewise emergency prescriptions or visits to the vet
Personally speaking & providing I don't buy anything else, I don't count parking for hospital appointments.(..but then I usually do my shopping because I'm already out :whistle:)
General thoughts on €bay sales is the buyer has paid P&P so no cost to you
2. It takes Time to reach mega-numbers!
The First suggestion is the first, because a bit of planning will work wonders on your road to your Target. Have a look at Solvent's (aka Spoon:rotfl:) first posts each month for a hefty list of other Threads that may be of help. For example, there's a few giving ideas for packed lunches so you can avoid standing in the queue at the bakers for 45mins of your lunch hour! A good incentive to tweak your healthy eating & the pounds you save will show in your bank balance AND your waistline
It helps to have various 'money pots' for the different costs that happen like Scouts, dinner money, yoga, window cleaner etc etc. The idea is you "spend" all that money in one hit by..:think:..let's say **putting the week's bus fares into the pretty coffee jar, Jo's tumble tots SIZE=2]Weds mornings[/SIZE in the cracked teapot & Ben's £1 coin for the gym locker SIZE=2]Friday lunch[/SIZE in the pocket of the changing bag, on Tuesdays every week when you've got some change from doing the food shop, so an already spendy day. At least four 'spending days' condensed into one (**mine's jam jars for windows, milkman & a bit towards the bills!)
3. Any day the money stays in your pocket is a bonus!
If you look at it as a day you beat the system, you can't help but :j so don't fret it--ENJOY! If nothing else in here, we do manage find something to make us smile

We have virtual outings to wonderful places that never cost us a bean :rotfl:New York, Edinburgh & Brighton have been a couple & Spoon usually pilots the Tardis but you can use your own transport; my personal favourite has been a sit-on lawn mower borrowed from the cricket club The only thing to be aware of is Hubert the donkey who is partial to anything remotely edible but is not yet house-trained

And Remember;
there are no silly questions, so don't be afraid to ask us anything!