Dragon's Road to Rio

ellie99

The_Dragon wrote: »

Wondering about leaving MSE, spent most of the night in tears after a PM from someone

Dragon, I stumbled on this thread by accident whilst browsing "new posts".
I have no idea what other threads you post on, or what the PM which upset you so much was about, but I do know that if someone wrote something bad enough to upset you to that extent, then they are not someone whose opinion you should be concerning yourself with.
Good people do not go out of their way to upset other people.

I like to read quotes on the internet, and one I keep remembering is "what other people think of me is none of my business".

Don't leave! Who else would keep us all in line on the weight loss thread

Sending you hugs :grouphug:

The_Dragon

DreamerHelen wrote: »

Oh hun.....I'm so sorry to hear that....You are a VERY valued member of MSE and I personally would be very sad to see you go....

I know it's hard but try not to listen to other people if you can help it....I tend to do that and take it all on board and then think I'm a terrible person....But in the end we are all doing the best we can do and that simply has to be enough....

I'm here if you want to PM me....and I promise to send a nice PM back to you xxx Chin up hun xxx

ellie99 wrote: »

Dragon, I stumbled on this thread by accident whilst browsing "new posts".
I have no idea what other threads you post on, or what the PM which upset you so much was about, but I do know that if someone wrote something bad enough to upset you to that extent, then they are not someone whose opinion you should be concerning yourself with.
Good people do not go out of their way to upset other people.

I like to read quotes on the internet, and one I keep remembering is "what other people think of me is none of my business".

Don't leave! Who else would keep us all in line on the weight loss thread

Sending you hugs :grouphug:

Thanks folks *sniff*, Dr Dragon has been saying the same thing, I think with my disabilities and not seeing/talking to many people I take things to heart very easily.

Mara_uk7

Hi dragon .

Im sorry that some numpty has had a crap day and taken it out on you. Remembr that theyre the one with the problem and you're a far better person.

Dont let their unkind words get you down, dont you dare leave, im only just getting settled about being on the same i-pad as a dragon ! :rotfl:

taxi73

Am sorry that somebody has really upset you..don't you dare leave because of them.If it is really bad report them to MSE then they can get banned.You can also put them on ignore...you've been here a long time and have every right to be on here

Buffythedebtslayer

Report them, you don't know who else they are sending crappy messages to and it sounds awfully like bullying.

don't leave because of one person's opinion. Your opinion is what counts here and you are a great part of MSE, lots of friends important on the weight loss thread etc.

one person's opinion cannot change that. You stay.

xx

The_Dragon

Apparently I upset people on other thread and that was why she PM'd me - Dr Dragon looked at my posts and couldn't see anything wrong - I left the thread and am sticking with the ones I feel safe in.

The_Dragon

Well I checked the thread, the person has lurked on here, changed one of her posts to make herself look good and quoted from this thread. I no longer feel secure using this account and so it is going.

*Robin*

Dear Dragon, :hello:

Not seen the other thread where someone has given you grief, but isn't it worth taking the problem to the Mods before deciding to withdraw?

You would be sorely missed on MSE, so please don't leave!

((hugs))

Rx

Piquant_2

Morning dear Dragon

An old friend here Please don't go. I don't know anyone else who goes eep so eloquently

You'd be sorely missed. Just put the offender on your ignore list and make a rude sign at them, some people have nothing better to do with their time than be mean. You are much better than them

Piq x