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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 4

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  • So very sorry for your loss Susan, I have followed your story which has made me laugh and cry. I hope the wonderful memories you have will help you through the tough days ahead xx

    Rest in Peace Alan :A
  • Magicowen
    Magicowen Posts: 962 Forumite
    I've been logging on to the internet whilst on hols purely just to keep up to date with how Alan and you were doing.
    I'm sat here in tears crying over two people I have never even met, but feel so privileged to have read about and "known" through this forum, even though the outcome wasn't what anyone had wanted.

    You are both an inspiration in the way you've dealt with things and I really do believe you have opened my eyes and taught me a few things.

    Susan, You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers, I wish I had the words....

    RIP Alan xxx
  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Just another one to add my thoughts and love. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. You are an amazing couple, I hope I can look back after 31 years of marriage and have the same wonderful memories and love of a lifetime shared.

    RIP Alan x
    :A
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  • SaverSavvy123
    SaverSavvy123 Posts: 1,335 Forumite
    I have only just heard the news today and wanted to post on this thread to say that I am so sorry Susan. Thank you for letting all of us share your life and what has been a very difficult time. You are in my thoughts, love to you and your family. xxxx
    If it wasn't for blinds it'd be curtains for all of us:dance:
  • RootedNomad
    RootedNomad Posts: 3,514 Forumite
    Sitting watching the most beautiful sun-down. You are in my thoughts xx
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,562 Ambassador
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    Hope you are managing to get things organised today.
    Take care xxxx
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  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    Oh Susan I am so very sorry to hear your sad news.

    Words never feel enough in such sad times, but I would like to add my condolences to the many others you have received from all over the country from your MSE friends.
    Your lives have touched many other people's, including many who never met either of you.

    Take care and be gentle with yourself over the coming days and weeks in particular.

    X
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • janed8987
    janed8987 Posts: 125 Forumite
    dont post often but do follow the mse 11 elite thread.......and to have known and shared unconditional true love what most people can only dream of......you and alan had it.....so i raise a glass to you both.......xxxxx
  • solventsoon
    solventsoon Posts: 17,363 Forumite
    Hi hun

    Just popping in to send you some more very gentle (((hugs))).

    Be kind to yourself:A

    Thinking about you

    Much love
    spoon xxx
    :) The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time :)
  • JayJay14
    JayJay14 Posts: 1,918 Forumite
    Morning Susan, hope you are OK - is your brother there with you now? Hope so, you need some company to see you through the arrangements,

    Hugs heading your way as always (and I'm a big girl so they are big squishy hugs :D) and hope you manage to get everything arranged for Alan's send off to his liking.

    Don't forget to take a little time for yourself, we are all here if you need anything.
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