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At What Age Did You Move Out Of Mummy And Daddys?

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  • DietIrnBru
    DietIrnBru Posts: 185 Forumite
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    18-25
    My "Moving Out" was traumatic. The finger nail marks are still in the door frame.
  • 18-25
    reweird wrote: »
    As stated before, do the parents not deserve the enjoyment of their own time, space, and money, without some selfish self-entitled wet baby still pulling at the apron strings after near 30 years?

    You are assuming that parents don't want to live with their adult children. Some do.
    ...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.
  • kabayiri
    kabayiri Posts: 22,740 Forumite
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    18-25
    reweird wrote: »
    These posters coming up with their imaginary friends who live in the garages and mud huts of their parents are simply trying to justify to themselves that it really is acceptable for someone past 25 years old to still be living under the rules, roof, and finances of their parents. Fact is it is not acceptable. Especially as pointed out by others that you can easily rent a shared flat. It's about growing up, being responsible for yourself, and, yes dare I say it, growing some balls.

    Why do you care so much ? Obviously you do to post a thread about it.

    Ever thought it's none of your business? :)
  • Percy1983
    Percy1983 Posts: 5,244 Forumite
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    Yet again to clear the point of being subsidised by parents as mentioned before my parents are actually better off as I am still here.

    As fort still being a child, I have made the adult decision about how I will be better off in the long term by staying here a little longer.

    I will agree there may be adults who are still acting like children but not all of us are.

    As for going getting a flat share, how will that help me? it will just cost me more and the way my life is currently run I am basically in a flat share with people I know very well... my parents.
    Have my first business premises (+4th business) 01/11/2017
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  • bramble1
    bramble1 Posts: 3,096 Forumite
    StevieJ wrote: »
    You must be Joe King?

    Nope - I love having my own home, it's mine, and my priorities changed when i moved out. I'm totally happy to spend a weekend in with a bottle of wine and some good movies than go down the pub and spend £100/200 on a weekend like i used to. It's my home, i can have my friends round whenever i want - couldn't do that at my mums! Therefore, i have no need to go out so much anymore!
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  • J_i_m
    J_i_m Posts: 1,342 Forumite
    25-30
    kabayiri wrote: »
    Why do you care so much ? Obviously you do to post a thread about it.

    Ever thought it's none of your business? :)

    Probably because he's 50 years old and is yet to move out of his parents house ;)
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  • geoffky
    geoffky Posts: 6,835 Forumite
    Cleaver the guy worked offshore and then found the delights of Thailand and spunked the lot literally..Now gets a few days here and there doing floor laying in big dept stores using diamond head cutter...£45 a day and working away from home,has had a good run last few weeks as he has been away for three weeks but then it could be a month before next job comes in...head wrecking i would imagine.
    It is nice to see the value of your house going up'' Why ?
    Unless you are planning to sell up and not live anywhere, I can;t see the advantage.
    If you are planning to upsize the new house will cost more.
    If you are planning to downsize your new house will cost more than it should
    If you are trying to buy your first house its almost impossible.
  • Jimmy_31
    Jimmy_31 Posts: 2,170 Forumite
    reweird wrote: »
    These posters coming up with their imaginary friends who live in the garages and mud huts of their parents are simply trying to justify to themselves that it really is acceptable for someone past 25 years old to still be living under the rules, roof, and finances of their parents. Fact is it is not acceptable. Especially as pointed out by others that you can easily rent a shared flat. It's about growing up, being responsible for yourself, and, yes dare I say it, growing some balls.

    Hows the imaginary life going weirdo, sounds like you have got plenty of balls..........in a jar by your bed:rotfl:
  • Jimmy_31
    Jimmy_31 Posts: 2,170 Forumite
    Cleaver wrote: »
    I'm not saying it doesn't happen. But how much does it cost in most towns to rent a room in a 2-bed flat or house with someone? Maybe £400 including bills? So if you're earning £16,000 or more you should be cool with that. Seems better than living in your son's garage.

    How much does your imaginary friend earn for the purposes of this particular debate?

    He currently brings home just over a grand a month, the job he has now is site labourer and the site he is on is due to be handed over before christmas so he will be out of work again.

    He has got no chance of ever getting a deposit together for a home of his own because he is always in and out of work plus rents for a one bed place around here are around £400 then all bills on top plus running a van so he cant do that.

    He has got his name down on the housing list but as he is a single working man he is last on the list. He was offered a temporary room in a hostel when he got divorced but decided against this and chose the garage instead.

    The situation above is just the same as all the other peoples situation really, lots of people live with their parents because they dont earn enough to buy or rent, he lives in the garage at his sons.


    Im presuming your imaginary friends earn a better wage than my imaginary friends do.
  • rictus123
    rictus123 Posts: 2,560 Forumite
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    18-25
    Well im 21 in the summer and looking at buying not long after. I dont go out near as much as alot of people my age, i think its overrated and theres too many sheep....im sure the amount of nights out i have will come down once i have my own place. Cant wait for the stress of a mortgage.
    Work in progress...Update coming July 2012.
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