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2nd hearing at court, contact case childrens

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  • DUTR wrote: »
    I didn't say all Mothers though did I? There are many many females that can split from the father of their children without starting to throw aperstions about the ex, don't you think the courts would have the experience to identify the false accusations? As we don't know the full story, we do not know if the OP is just protect 1 or 2 7ths of CS monies , lets not pretend none of these 'tricks' do not occur as you full well know they do :p

    I do know I would worry about leaving a child with someone who has as many issues as you. Is money all you care about, I get no CSA so couldn;t care less. The courts are clogged up with NRP who come in and out of childrens lives blaming everyone but themselves.
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  • DUTR wrote: »
    That part I fully agree with, I have friends who have been through the access game, similar sort of false accusations levied against them, they both represented themselves against solicitors and both won their case which can only be good for the children :)


    Unless of course they show their true colour later and are as the mothers said, too many children die each year at the hands of violent NRP who beat the court system. Too many children suffer being dragged through courts when the father has no interest in seeing them because all they wanted was to keep punishing the RP or controlling them.
    mortgage free by christmas 2014 owed £5,000, jan 2014 £4,170, £4,060, feb £3,818 march £3,399 30% of the way there woohoo
    If you don't think you can go on look back and see how far you've come
  • DUTR
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    I do know I would worry about leaving a child with someone who has as many issues as you. Is money all you care about, I get no CSA so couldn;t care less. The courts are clogged up with NRP who come in and out of childrens lives blaming everyone but themselves.

    What are you on about now? !!!
    You may be an OK Mum, not every woman is , you know that too, your post do suggest it is you that has issues, neither you or I will be the judge in the OP's case and as mentioned they will quickly see through any lies or false accusations and that is where her case will soon crumble if the accusations are false, in your post though you mention CSA, I pay mine regularly thank you very much :D thankfully the Mother of the child would not stoop so low as to make false claims against me , should I choose to go for access :p
  • Unless of course they show their true colour later and are as the mothers said, too many children die each year at the hands of violent NRP who beat the court system. Too many children suffer being dragged through courts when the father has no interest in seeing them because all they wanted was to keep punishing the RP or controlling them.
    I would be interested to see that info. How many more children are killed a year by NRPM or Ds VS RPM or Ds?
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  • DUTR
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    edited 24 September 2011 at 8:38PM
    Unless of course they show their true colour later and are as the mothers said, too many children die each year at the hands of violent NRP who beat the court system. Too many children suffer being dragged through courts when the father has no interest in seeing them because all they wanted was to keep punishing the RP or controlling them.

    They demonstrated their true colours in court, that is why the Mothers in their case left with their tales between their legs, Remember baby P was with his mother not the father during that terrible terrible episode we have all read about, that poor girl that was killed by her Mum's lorry driver BF , perhaps she accused her daughters child of being abusive controlling etc, not all blokes are bad and not all women are good, get real !
  • DUTR wrote: »
    They demonstrated their true colours in court, that is why the Mothers in their case left with their tales between their legs, Remember baby P was with HIS mother not the father during that terrible terrible episode we have all read about, that poor boy that was killed by his Mum's BF , perhaps she accused her Sons Dad of being abusive controlling etc, not all blokes are bad and not all women are good, get real !
    Agree with the rest.:)
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  • DUTR
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    Agree with the rest.:)

    it was thi story I was reffering to :o

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/8536788.stm
  • DUTR wrote: »
    it was thi story I was reffering to :o

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/8536788.stm
    That was an awful case. :(
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  • DUTR
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    edited 24 September 2011 at 9:09PM
    That was an awful case. :(

    They are all awful cases (you already know that) perhaps princessdreamer should stop dreaming and accept what can and does happen on rare occasion :o (in that some folk come on here canvassing to assist their own insincere gains)

    http://uk.news.yahoo.com/mother-guilty-smothering-kids-hurt-ex-151113498.html
  • oh honey if courts are as good at telling who is telling the truth then i'd love to see my ex there. Yeah there are good and bad people in the world.


    PS without my very nasty abusive ex I am free to live / dream and be a princess
    mortgage free by christmas 2014 owed £5,000, jan 2014 £4,170, £4,060, feb £3,818 march £3,399 30% of the way there woohoo
    If you don't think you can go on look back and see how far you've come
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