How much sex is ok for you?

candygirl

LandyAndy wrote: »

For teenagers about 1 minute.

For me.....rather more.;)

6 months?:D:D:D;););)

merlot123

LandyAndy wrote: »

Probably no more than half a dozen times this year.

I suspect that is the case for plenty of middle aged people like me who have been married for many years and live busy lives. Many would perhaps feel reluctant to say it amongst the generally priapic posts on this thread.:)

Doesn't mean I'm unhappy with that. Relationships have many facets.

Thank you for your honesty.

I'm just 40, and married for 15 years, together 17, perhaps 10 times in the last twelve months, i'm happy with that, the DH would like more, but doesn't nag me.

I'm still the same weight (slim) as I was when I got married, children are 14 and 12 and both have ipods:D, don't suffer from depression etc, no excuses other than I don't like my own body, and to some degree that stops me, how can someone else like my body when I don't like what I see.

CH27

LandyAndy wrote: »

For teenagers about 1 minute.

For me.....rather more.;)

Are your timings the same as men measurements?:p

Gloomendoom

halibut2209 wrote: »

Have you tried using the back door?

Reminded me of this...

MessyMare

Once per season. And I'm in my mid twenties! (haha I just realised I've made myself sound like a dog- watch out, she's in season!) I'm always tired (chronic fatigue) and go to bed early. OH doesn't hit the sack until midnight at least usually, by which time I'm sparko. I actively encourage him to take care of himself though, so it doesn't tend to affect our relationship. We're still very affectionate together.

LandyAndy

CH27 wrote: »

Are your timings the same as men measurements?:p

As in 'the reason why women can't park cars is because men have spent their entire lives misleading them about what six inches looks like'?:p

candygirl

Omg this thread has made me feel like a raging nympho.................:o:o:o:o;)

CH27

LandyAndy wrote: »

As in 'the reason why women can't park cars is because men have spent their entire lives misleading them about what six inches looks like'?:p

Yes :rotfl:

LandyAndy

merlot123 wrote: »

Thank you for your honesty.

I'm just 40, and married for 15 years, together 17, perhaps 10 times in the last twelve months, i'm happy with that, the DH would like more, but doesn't nag me.

I'm still the same weight (slim) as I was when I got married, children are 14 and 12 and both have ipods:D, don't suffer from depression etc, no excuses other than I don't like my own body, and to some degree that stops me, how can someone else like my body when I don't like what I see.

Is that the fundamental difference between men and women? Women look in the mirror and think how awful they look and men look in the mirror and think 'Looking good'.:rotfl:

Nobody looks the same as they did years ago. :cool:

halibut2209

to answer the OP, I'm 35, Mrs H is 32

Anything from 3 times a week to once a fortnight. Most nights, we like to snuggle in bed with a film or TV show.