How much sex is ok for you?

j19842

dark_lady wrote: »

This proves the points i made on the thread "Getting married and the sex life isnt great.
See what i mean about society being more comfortable with assuming that its the woman who doesnt want sex and not the man.
See how its ok to make jokes about when the woman doesnt want it but when the subject is broached about men not wanting it as i did on that other thread. (and i did it without turning it into a joke) me and another poster got accused of taking over the thread.

This "joke" by techspec is done to permeate the myth that women dont like sex very much and therefore must "lie back and think of England" therefore its ok when the man doesnt want sex and withholds intimacy because women dont like it anyway right???!!!
I rest my case.

Totally agree...

Lotus-eater

dark_lady wrote: »

This proves the points i made on the thread "Getting married and the sex life isnt great.
See what i mean about society being more comfortable with assuming that its the woman who doesnt want sex and not the man.
See how its ok to make jokes about when the woman doesnt want it but when the subject is broached about men not wanting it as i did on that other thread. (and i did it without turning it into a joke) me and another poster got accused of taking over the thread.

This "joke" by techspec is done to permeate the myth that women dont like sex very much and therefore must "lie back and think of England" therefore its ok when the man doesnt want sex and withholds intimacy because women dont like it anyway right???!!!
I rest my case.

Oh give over, it's a traditional joke.

You make a mountain out of a molehill.

I don't know why you are so bitter, but you maybe better off working at that, rather than trying to start a war between the sexes about who is right and wrong.

Miss_Orangey_Goodness

About 2 (3 at a push) times a week....im really amazed by the time and energy people have on here to have it more than this....maybe this was my downfall in my last relationship

gratefulforhelp_2

Alisha2008 wrote: »

Condoms and all contraception are free if you go to a family plan clinic...

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Lotus-eater wrote: »

Oh give over, it's a traditional joke.

You make a mountain out of a molehill.

I don't know why you are so bitter, but you maybe better off working at that, rather than trying to start a war between the sexes about who is right and wrong.

Not your best post.

I do totally agree, though, that the comparing oneself against others is unhelpful.

Steel_2

Once a week to twice a day depending on hormones, schedule, workload and other things.

Steel_2

dark_lady wrote: »

This proves the points i made on the thread "Getting married and the sex life isnt great.
See what i mean about society being more comfortable with assuming that its the woman who doesnt want sex and not the man.
See how its ok to make jokes about when the woman doesnt want it but when the subject is broached about men not wanting it as i did on that other thread. (and i did it without turning it into a joke) me and another poster got accused of taking over the thread.

This "joke" by techspec is done to permeate the myth that women dont like sex very much and therefore must "lie back and think of England" therefore its ok when the man doesnt want sex and withholds intimacy because women dont like it anyway right???!!!
I rest my case.

Rant alert.

ash28

Mid 50s and 3 or 4 times a week and occasionally less - OH would be every night if he could - but it's too often for me now.

When we were younger I remember many a Sunday afternoon telling the kids we were going for a lie down and weren't to be disturbed - now if I go for a lie down it's because I want a lie down!

fannyanna

Oh my God - I clearly have a very, very, very, very, very, very low libido. Poor Hubs

Although we are trying for a baby at the moment so I obviously have to make a real big effort which Hubby is clearly very happy about lol.

missyp123

I am on th epill and when i go to the nurse i ask for a load of condoms too! (not taking any chances!!!!!):p

have to say iv only just begun to get my sex life back and my little one is 5!
i think its also beena about other stress's too!

Hubby did get stressed allot but if i aint in the mood then i aint in the mood!

now i would sat twice a week is average but when we do i try to make up for lost time

Owain_Moneysaver

Lotus-eater wrote: »

You make a mountain out of a molehill.

Could have been phrased better given the topic under discussion :eek: :eek: