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I seriously don't know what to feed my OH to fill him up.
Today he's had, bowl of frosties, and a cereal bar, a sausage bap, chicken breast with 2 yorkshire puddings, mash, 2 croquettes, a mars bar, 2 x milky bar yoghurt dessert things, 2 x packets of hula hoops, 1 muller light and has just made himself spaghetti hoops and 4 slice of toast :eek:
Apparently that's a normal reasonable amount, how can that be?!?! His diet is full of crap, which is probably why he's hungry but how am I supposed to raise a child to eat normally with that around?!?!The frontier is never somewhere else. And no stockades can keep the midnight out.0 -
I seriously don't know what to feed my OH to fill him up.
Today he's had, bowl of frosties, and a cereal bar, a sausage bap, chicken breast with 2 yorkshire puddings, mash, 2 croquettes, a mars bar, 2 x milky bar yoghurt dessert things, 2 x packets of hula hoops, 1 muller light and has just made himself spaghetti hoops and 4 slice of toast :eek:
Apparently that's a normal reasonable amount, how can that be?!?! His diet is full of crap, which is probably why he's hungry but how am I supposed to raise a child to eat normally with that around?!?!
It must be a man thing. My OH will have a Subway on the way to work, get to work and eat a full breakfast, finish and grab a snack on the way home, eat something like eggy bread when he gets in, then have a snack, then have dinner, then have a massive pack of cookies with a cup of coffee.
Back in the day, we used to eat lunch together on Fridays. He'd eat pie and chips at work, then meet me at the pub, eat a starter and follow it down with a steak.
Fat gits aren't they?
And if your OH is anything like mine, I bet he never puts on an ounce!0 -
Mines isn't tall or anything and lost loads of weight a few years ago, but he's gradually putting it all back on, and I know how much it gets to him, it doesn't bother me, I'm not a skinny minnie but I don't want him to feel like crap either. I've tried joking about how much he eats but I don't think he takes much notice.
He'l sometimes say "oh I'm putting on some amount of weight I have to cut back" but he never does, but I know how depressed he was last time.The frontier is never somewhere else. And no stockades can keep the midnight out.0 -
gilly my OH is exactly the same, he eats like a horse and is a right skinny thing, so annoying! My dad and brother are the same. Although Gilly that is an awful lot of food you listed!!!!
Ok think i spoke too soon have quite a substantial pain under my rib again!!!!
Am actually rather hungry, dont know what i fancy though and I know full well anything I need now will turn into terrible heart burn!0 -
am confused, OH has been showing as being on line on skype since half 9 but is yet to speak to me??? bit cross as I've stayed awake and on line for him. he's probably had to sort out a problem at work but itd be nice to know
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am in tears, just feel really upset for somer reason, i guess I feel a bit alone as OH is away
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I just need a hug really and theres no one to give me one
god these hormones whilst pregnant are terrible, I never cry! 0 -
Oh Missymoo

It's not as good as the real thing, but *hugs*! x0 -
aw thanks mamamoo, i guess sometimes i do find it hard with OH working away so much and being so pregnant.0
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I really feel for you. My OH is an a*s a lot, but even so, I know I'm lucky he's here.
Just remember that you've got a beautiful little baba growing inside you, and your OH will be home in a few weeks, and then you'll have OH and mommy cuddles
xxx 0
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