Stupid embarassing question alert

jakes-mum

thanks tank girl hugs really needed, and worried now to go to bed sighhh.

Thatgirlsam, I actually lie awake after running through what i'd do to get this psycho to take my kids back home or trying to think of ways to not get to this building in the first place! I try giving him a face, making him someone I know so I can try and talk him round to let them go.

omg I sound crazy, its not real and im trying to save them! I have M.E but dont take any meds so im wondering if its something from the illness.

Last time I had a recurring nightmare I was about 7 and had the same dream for 6 months. So worrying now this is going to haunt me

delain

I often have dreams that are in places familiar to me (mostly a place we used to go walking near my childhood home) but that are somehow different, I'll be in a white room in an old cottage with OH just stood there (the building doesn't exist in reality) and suddenly realise the children aren't there and I don't know where they are and have a mad panic and start asking OH where they are and he just looks at me like I've gone mental.

Someone did suggest to me that it was funny how it coincided with my twins becoming obsessed with in the night garden (pontipines anyone?) but admitting to anyone in RL that in the night garden gave me bad dreams was too much to bear :o

Nothing like your dream though which sounds very frightening. Definitely go and see the doctor, Not that I've been helpful but thought you might like to hear about a dream with a really stupid cause

jakes-mum

Hi peachyprice, I think im asleep, if not im just at the settling in stage? but it comes in and shakes me back to conciousness.

Hi daryld, I think its just to do with DS bacuase DD is left safe in my arms? Its actually better having you all break it down into meaning something else as it was so easy to take it at face value and i started to worry it was a premonition! What am I worried about with him?

thatgirlsam

jakes-mum wrote: »

thanks tank girl hugs really needed, and worried now to go to bed sighhh.

Thatgirlsam, I actually lie awake after running through what i'd do to get this psycho to take my kids back home or trying to think of ways to not get to this building in the first place! I try giving him a face, making him someone I know so I can try and talk him round to let them go.

omg I sound crazy, its not real and im trying to save them! I have M.E but dont take any meds so im wondering if its something from the illness.

Last time I had a recurring nightmare I was about 7 and had the same dream for 6 months. So worrying now this is going to haunt me

It won't.

You have to tell yourself that now

Couldn't you have a glass of wine before bed to relax? Try not to worry, Maybe leave the radio on quietly by the bed to give yourself something else to focus on

moodydonkey

jakes-mum wrote: »

umm im worried about money, we're in a bit of cac. Im long term sick and hubbys job is agency so he's not got a guaranteed job plus he's earning half what the employees earn. He's got depression cos im ill and he hasnt got a clue. DS is 10 and DD is 3, i cant think of anything im worried about regarding them though.

Your dreams will just interpret your fears, they don't have to be direct or applicable. Don't try too hard to match them up to something. You obviously have job and money anxieties and these will present themselves in your dreams.

Trying to read your post, what is it your husband doesn't have a clue about? Just your feelings generally? :A

thatgirlsam

delain wrote: »

I often have dreams that are in places familiar to me (mostly a place we used to go walking near my childhood home) but that are somehow different, I'll be in a white room in an old cottage with OH just stood there (the building doesn't exist in reality) and suddenly realise the children aren't there and I don't know where they are and have a mad panic and start asking OH where they are and he just looks at me like I've gone mental.

Someone did suggest to me that it was funny how it coincided with my twins becoming obsessed with in the night garden (pontipines anyone?) but admitting to anyone in RL that in the night garden gave me bad dreams was too much to bear :o

Nothing like your dream though which sounds very frightening. Definitely go and see the doctor, Not that I've been helpful but thought you might like to hear about a dream with a really stupid cause

Aww delain, In the night garden gave you nightmares!

:rotfl:



Sorry

jakes-mum

Delain its emensely helpful to hear other people have dreams about their kids, i'd think its just as frightening to dream they are missing as to dream they are going to be hurt. At least ive never got to the stage where he actually got dragged from the room before I woke up

delain

Nah it's ok I can laugh at it now

The twins have got issues though and this was all when it was being assessed and I was quite worried about it as well :rotfl:

That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it!!

jakes-mum

Hi moody donkey, he doesnt have a clue about how to look after me, cooking, finances, kid stuff i.e times they need to be places.

I was always a huge control freak and I did everything, then I fell ill and he had to take over and even worse I had to let him! I still cook and do the bills but I worry that if anything happened to me what would he and the kids do? DS i a coeliac, would he learn to cook and if so remember DS's food cant be mixed with ours nor the utensils? would he remember to take meat out for dinner? stupid things but they worry me

moodydonkey

jakes-mum wrote: »

Hi moody donkey, he doesnt have a clue about how to look after me, cooking, finances, kid stuff i.e times they need to be places.

I was always a huge control freak and I did everything, then I fell ill and he had to take over and even worse I had to let him! I still cook and do the bills but I worry that if anything happened to me what would he and the kids do? DS i a coeliac, would he learn to cook and if so remember DS's food cant be mixed with ours nor the utensils? would he remember to take meat out for dinner? stupid things but they worry me

So really the dreams aren't the problem, all the things you worry about are very real and that is what you need to be addressing.