Mis-Sold? Shared Ownership Property

[Deleted User]

Thats a No for that one and not my decision :-(

Scully38

Did you get anything in writing from them regarding breaks from paying rent/mortgage, if you have got it in writing then it's a good start. Have you though about selling it? Putting it on the market as is if you're that unhappy that option is available to you.

PasturesNew

I bought one when I was about 30 .... and when I sold it 7 years later I was still in negative equity (had to write a cheque to settle the mortgage to be able to sell it).

You saw something shiny, you bought it. You weren't mis-sold, you chose it and now you're learning that life lesson about lying in the bed you made.

Things get better.... and you're still so young! You've plenty of time to just kick back, relax and not worry about this. Just keep paying and saving and getting 2-3 jobs and saving .... and one day you'll be able to sell it.

mildred1978

assj wrote: »

Thats a No for that one and not my decision :-(

Perhaps you need to start charging rent

[Deleted User]

mildred1978 wrote: »

Perhaps you need to start charging rent

Excuse me i think i earn my keep by looking after our daughter!!!!!!
i have already put off my education for 5 years already i think its my turn to get my life sorted!
thanks keep you nose out!

"his partner"
xxx

[Deleted User]

Sorry about the last post, I know it was a joke, thanks for your continued advice.

geoffky

You really need to look at this as a team effort and you the wife really need to think how you can help out for all your futures...Your husband will end up ill if you do not play your part.

mildred1978

assj wrote: »

Excuse me i think i earn my keep by looking after our daughter!!!!!!
i have already put off my education for 5 years already i think its my turn to get my life sorted!
thanks keep you nose out!

"his partner"
xxx

Not a great contribution when you're struggling financially, is it?

Millions of people go without what they want to keep a roof over their child's head. Lots of people would study but have financial commitments that mean they have to work, not f*nny about at uni.

Welcome to the world of grown ups

Svenena

No reason your partner can't work part-time while she's at uni anyway. If she has free time during the day, the child will be at school, or she could get an evening job and you can look after your daughter. I had part-time jobs throughout uni, as do many people, and it sounds like you could really use the money.

[Deleted User]

Svenena wrote: »

No reason your partner can't work part-time while she's at uni anyway. If she has free time during the day, the child will be at school, or she could get an evening job and you can look after your daughter. I had part-time jobs throughout uni, as do many people, and it sounds like you could really use the money.

thanks, i do already have a part time job though, and i actually have put off my education for 5 years so that my partner could buy this house and so that he could get qualifications through work and get higher in his job, i think you are treating me quite unfairly.