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Weekly Flylady Thread 29th August 2011

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  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 17,841 Forumite
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    Mattress and bedroom hoovered/dewebbed before the bathroom people arrived. They are now here making mess as they are raking out all the dead grout and replacing it. So I will have to clean the bathroom and landing after they have gone :( cleaning cloths on line and mattress cover in WM.

    Have to do some paid work alongside keeoing going with sorting things out!
  • OH boy, I am late today, sorry miss!
    HAd a nasty nightmare woke up sobbing, dreamt DP left me because no 2nd child, luckily he was still asleep through it all, sorry OB I know you are going through this for real and that makes me look like a real lightweight, I am encouraged by your resolve and strength, sooo the upshot is no sleep, no energy today so far. Not done a single thing except make coffee with sugar. Sitting her admiring my most precious thing in the world DD and trying not to cry and feel sorry for myself.

    DD playing on the living room rug with Pepper Pig toys - something I thought she had grown out of but when I tried to re-organise old toys she insited she still wanted them.
    Have made arrangements to see sister and mum later today, but cant discuss becasue they dont even know we are trying - mum scolded me when I had first miscarraige saying that it was a BAD idea becuase of my health and the fact that Icouldnt walk for 1 year after with severe SPD. Long story.

    So ladies need a distraction will try 15m getting dressed shower etc will report back later
    Thanks to you all, your threads really cheer me up and make me feel motivated. x
    :)getting there slowly
  • pigpen
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    Julie .. feel free.. I have had no laundry other than the odd bit since before the weekend.. starting to build up now though so I might have enough to scrape a load together..

    GnB.. you bringing your dishes too? lol.. and in reply to your other Fred.. BOSCH BOSCH BOSCH BOSCH!!! Mine has been fabulous..

    Triker.. that is a bugler about the Argos price.. ggrrr..... Id be most peed off with that.

    MrsC.. DS1 never even got a NI card sent... then the cheeky gits wanted to charge us for a replacement.. I argued it with them.. how is it a replacement when we have never had one? Stupid people. Does anyone ever actually NEED the card anyway? Mine has never been out of the envelope.. I know my NI number and just write it on the various communicaion that requested it.

    I foresee me doing very little today... again... fat useless dollop of turd that I have become.. I have to get the bedroom sorted so I can clear the landing.. and I am moving maybe a carriers worth of stuff a day..at this rate it will take me 25 years to clear just the floor in front of the window!!

    I had a grump about OH not helping me yesterday while DS1 was here.. and he STILL hasnt suggested helping.. it isnt like I ask for anything much!

    Right... list dredging..

    Kettle on
    Squeak fed.. and dressed.. ooh.. her sleepsuit is upstairs.. best deal with that mess..
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    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
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  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    HHWeeding done, i was out the front until 3 cars of JW's turned up so i went round the back. Ds1 came and said there's someone at the door so i told him who they were and to ignore it, then Ds2 went to the door and was shouting "Mum, Mum there's someone at the door". :cool: So i just shouted no thanks through the door, i couldn't be bothered unlocking it and they went.

    HHCoffee now before jumping in the shower and getting ready for holiday club.
  • Think it may be a little far to bring my dishes Piggers!

    Have just handwashed my dishes, grrrrrr.

    Will S&S kitchen in a minute.

    Have been kind of holding off doing much cleaning this week as hubby is meant to be finishing the floor and that creates a lot of dust and dont want to have to clean twice. However he's been faffing about and not done it yet! Need to give hima kick i think. Will get some washing on and maybe do some ironing.
    The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.
    Bertrand Russell
  • pigpen
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    edited 1 September 2011 at 10:59AM
    Everydailies for Thursday

    WM
    TD
    Laundry out, folded and away.
    DW
    Finish 2nd curtain for DD2
    rehang DD2s blind

    Other stuff :s

    Hang cupboard door in girls room and glitter it
    5 binbags flung to CS..
    Measure gap for desk for boys room.. source said desk
    Draught tape doors and windows... and cat flap lol
    Sort girls clothes again.. DD3s to do.. all the rest done now
    Price up new pillows for the 7 childrens beds and duvets for the 3 girls
    Sort fabric stash under the stairs.
    Update Toots list
    Wire brush flaky paint off front door
    Mince bush
    pick weeds out of patio again
    repoint patio
    Sock basket of brotherless socks

    Tuesday ~ pick a room...
    Level One
    Declutter and vacuum/mop the floor
    Level Two
    Dust and deweb.. half done the downstairs.. I cant walk long enough to do more.. but I am trying!
    Level Three
    Wash stinky pet bedding/clean tanks etc


    Extras
    1. Get those final bits sorted for back to school/work.. just shoes to sort
    Wednesday ~ Bedroom and Landing Level One
    Strip and wash the bedding, remake bed before bedtime!.. with waterproof sheet.. just in case :eek:
    Declutter the floor and vacuum it!
    Level Two
    Dust and deweb.. I noticed a monster web earlier!

    Thursday ~ pick a room...
    Level One

    Declutter and vacuum/mop the floor
    Clear window sills
    Level Two
    Dust and deweb
    Tidy up a cupboard/drawer or other storage vessel
    Level Three
    Clean filters and door seals on relevant appliances
    Binbag dance
    Extras
    1. HHI.. or HH-something else if you do not I
    Friday ~ Study and Bathroom
    Level One

    Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! Coffee with a friend, hair appointment... whatever
    Declutter the floors!
    Level Two
    vacuum/mop floors
    scrub the fixtures! polish the mirrors and taps
    Level Three
    Clean and sort a cupboard or shelf and recycle all those empties
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • Natty68
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    [FONT=&quot]Morning everyone, can I just say thank you to all those on FB. Unfortunately I had a bit of a meltdown yesterday and took a couple of things personally hence my post on there. Also been having a hard time coming to terms with something [/FONT][FONT=&quot]–[/FONT][FONT=&quot] suffice to say it has left both DH and myself reeling with shock. Unfortunately I couldn’t put anything on FB as DH’s relatives have FB and we didn’t want them to know anything was wrong.[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Anyway I have decided that I cannot wallow in pity as what is meant to be is meant to be [/FONT][FONT=&quot]–[/FONT][FONT=&quot] ugh that’s a bit deep and gobbly gook for me..lol Plus my “flying” has slackened off and my spending has got mad!! So this is a new start for me [/FONT][FONT=&quot]–[/FONT][FONT=&quot] yep those that know me on here know it’s probably my 7th, or gods knows how many, new starts.. But I owe it to my DH and myself to get my act together, even though various things limit me [/FONT][FONT=&quot]–[/FONT][FONT=&quot] eg ME and the blooming mental health problems. But they are not going to rule my life now, although I will not beat myself up if I feel like resting after housework :D [/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Ooops sorry this has turned into a baring my soul post..lol. Gods I didn’t mean for that to happen, and to those that have got this far [/FONT][FONT=&quot]–[/FONT][FONT=&quot] well done!!! And I do apologise for it not being too much of a flying post..[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Hugs and love to everyone, especially LW, Toots, LL, Vanilla, fibromum :D[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]LW don’t worry about the psychiatric assessment, all they will do is just chat to you and ask you questions. But beware they do have a nasty habit of getting things out of you that you thought you would keep to yourself. I am forever having these assessments as part of my ongoing treatment I think I could do them with my eyes closed now..lol. *Hugs*[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Vanilla sweetie, did you get my PM’s from a couple of weeks ago? As I am starting to think they didn’t get through to you, or it’s me being my usual paranoid self..lol[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Anyway without further ado, onto flying :D[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Monday ~ Bank Holiday..[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    Cos I am SOOOOOOOOOO nice!

    Do your dailies
    tackle a frog or 5

    and spend the rest of the day doing nice things with your family!


    Tuesday ~ pick a room...
    Level One
    Declutter and vacuum/mop the floor
    pile up all the hotspot into one mountain and pend 15 minutes sorting through it!
    Level Two
    Dust and deweb
    Wash soft furnishings that need doing.. throws, curtains, blinds, nets.. whatevers..
    Tidy up a cupboard/drawer or other storage vessel
    Level Three
    Wash stinky pet bedding/clean tanks etc
    Wipe doors and skirtings and paintwork
    Binbag dance

    Extras[/FONT]
    1. [FONT=&quot]Wash windows[/FONT]
    2. [FONT=&quot]HHI.. or HH-something else if you do not I[/FONT]
    3. [FONT=&quot]Tidy up your lists.. Toots, Frog, Christmas etc[/FONT]
    4. [FONT=&quot]Get those final bits sorted for back to school/work[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Wednesday ~ Bedroom and Landing[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    Level One
    Strip and wash the bedding, remake bed before bedtime!
    Declutter the floor and vacuum it! See if you can find a bit of floor you've not seen in a while!
    Level Two
    binbag dance
    Sort a box of junk/cupboard/drawer
    Dust and deweb
    Level Three
    Wash any curtains/nets/pillows etc that are in need
    Tidy up the shoes and clothes that are scattered about
    Tidy the linen cupboard

    Extras[/FONT]
    1. [FONT=&quot]HHI[/FONT]
    2. [FONT=&quot]wash windows[/FONT]
    3. [FONT=&quot]wipe paintwork[/FONT]
    4. [FONT=&quot]Catch up on a job you've been putting off... phonecalls, filing etc..[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Thursday ~ pick a room...[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Level One[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Declutter and vacuum/mop the floor[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Clear window sills[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Level Two[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Dust and deweb[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Scrub down kitchen units/table[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Tidy up a cupboard/drawer or other storage vessel[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Level Three[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Clean filters and door seals on relevant appliances[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Wipe doors and skirtings and paintwork [/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Binbag dance[/FONT][FONT=&quot]

    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Extras[/FONT]
    1. [FONT=&quot]Wash windows [/FONT]
    2. [FONT=&quot]Sort out having chimneys swept/boilers serviced etc ready for winter[/FONT]
    3. [FONT=&quot]Organise car tax/MOT/insurance papers, household insurances extended warrantie.. make sure everything is up to date and filed appropriately![/FONT]
    4. [FONT=&quot]HHI.. or HH-something else if you do not I[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Friday ~ Study and Bathroom
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Level One[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! Coffee with a friend, hair appointment... whatever
    Declutter the floors!
    Level Two
    vacuum/mop floors
    wash the bathmats/shower curtains or anything else that needs it
    scrub the fixtures! polish the mirrors and taps
    Level Three
    Clean and sort a cupboard or shelf and recycle all hose empties
    dust and defrag the pc and declutter 50 unwanted emails and 5 links from your favourites.
    Wipe over the desk and any chairs that are in these rooms
    Extras [/FONT]
    1. [FONT=&quot]empty and wash out bins[/FONT]
    2. [FONT=&quot]wash windows[/FONT]
    3. [FONT=&quot]wipe doors and paintwork[/FONT]
    4. [FONT=&quot]wash any stinky pet beds.. or the pets themselves if you wish[/FONT]


    [FONT=&quot]Natty’s list:[/FONT]

    · [FONT=&quot]Shower/dress[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Breakfast[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Wash up[/FONT]
    · Meds

    · [FONT=&quot]Make bed[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Write birthday card for C[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Post birthday card[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Write letter to L [/FONT][FONT=&quot]–[/FONT][FONT=&quot] ongoing![/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Write letter to N [/FONT][FONT=&quot]–[/FONT][FONT=&quot] ongoing![/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Text A[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Update budget book[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Pay bills online[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Check emails[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Hotspot corner in Kitchen[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Hotspot living room[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Cull magazines in living room[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Blue wash load[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Wash dog fleeces/covers[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Update Yankee candle list[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]MSE list[/FONT]
    · [FONT=&quot]Leave feedback on Ebay for Yankee items.[/FONT]
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  • Just saw your facebook Natty, have a big hug:A You're not allowed to disappear, we will all get on the flylady wagon and hunt you down....
    The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.
    Bertrand Russell
  • Natty - I am not on facebook but much love to you it sounds like you need extra hugs and a few more spoons

    checking in
    Hair washed, showered and swiped shower room, swished 2 toilets.
    Dressed to flip flops
    weighed myself, as Ithought cos clothes are feeling a bit tight, need to get rid of 5lbs for a start

    eaten a banana, drank orange juice (hey thats 2 of my 5 a day already) :)

    Frogs:
    ebay sell stuff
    childminding application
    pick backberries get apples from dads tree and make a&B crumble
    order trampoline pad - sounds easy but cannot return so need to find long tape measure to get exact measurements
    sew up hems on winter trousers
    disassemble temporary plastic greenhouse and clean up patio

    dailies:
    DW
    WM
    post
    ironing
    :)getting there slowly
  • MrsChaos
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    Natty and Fibromum - sending you gentle (((hugs))). Hope things look up for you soon. I admire the way you pick yourself up again.

    Re National Insurance card - DS1 took it to a college he originally wanted to go to (but then didn't) and left it there. A year later, he still hasn't collected it and I don't think he's kept a record of the number (or knows where the letter is it came with). Now that he's looking for work (in the losest sense of the word), he'll need it. Silly boy.

    bully DS1 into applying for jobs
    laundry - WIP
    [STRIKE]1 more e-bay parcel to post
    [/STRIKE]more e-bay stuff to NN's son
    re-advertise stuff in free ads mag
    research home insurance before bank phones back on Fri
    buy slippers for myself
    set up calendar
    de-flea cat
    forms for OH (DVLA and permitted work)
    nag DS1 to look for card wallets for Disney cards
    school to-do list
    data work - WIP, almost done
    phone friend again re car as I've not had a reply to my text (unusual)
    check uniform for DS2
    check my clothes for Monday
    contact DS2’s TA/childminder
    collect DS1’s national insurance card (don’t ask)
    child benefit/tax credit phone calls
    sort folder for DS1’s certificates
    cancel two insurances (not needed)
    haircut Thursday
    [STRIKE]need to go back for bloodtests[/STRIKE]
    check that DS1's tickets for Monday are ok
    [STRIKE]collect OH's prescription [/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]collect OH’s meds (and mine)[/STRIKE]
    sort OH’s prepayment cert for meds
    Euros for DS1
    Top-up shop
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