Trying for a Baby Part 7

Primmer

Sa-ra-ra-ra huge congrats on the BFP wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy :j

sexymouse

Congratulations Sa-ra-ra-ra - have a happy and healthy pregnancy and birth! So pleased for you after the tough time you've been through recently.

Well I've got heavier spotting today, so think AF is definitely on her way! Still, New Year = new start.

Hugs for all who are depressed at the moment - make sure you do see your doctors before you feel worse - if you're going down the medication route, it can take up to 6 weeks to kick in, so better to go sooner rather than later if this is the option that is best for you. Sorry if this sounds patronising - it's meant in a kind way, and having experienced depression myself, I know how quickly you can spiral downwards.

I'm off to eat a very late lunch (went to my Nana's house this morning to give her her birthday presents - she didn't even know it was her birthday today!).

sexymouse xx

mrsj28

Congratulations Sa-ra-ra-ra!!! That's fantastic news, really pleased for you :j

So nice to hear news of a BFP, brightens up my day!

mrsj28

AbFab wrote: »

That made me well up a bit!

And me... lovely words emsbet xx

colli

massive congrats Sara-ra-ra:j

huuuuuuggggggeee hugs to those who are having a tough time at the moment. It may be worth seeing your dr again after Xmas Emsbet, just because you're not going to harm yourself doesn't necessarily mean you won't benefit from medication/treatment for depression. xxxx

Glad your hubby is being co-operative QQ:D good luck with the ivf

I've only done the one hpt and that was an ic. when I had my mc I was still getting strong positives a couple of weeks afterwards and tlp's a month later so the way I see it once you've got your bfp there's no point doing any more, just cross your fingers and hope for the best

Good luck to all, I'm looking forward to hearing about all the positives after operation cc

tinkwings

emsbet wrote: »

Thanks. That's what I'm hoping. I will never forget my lost little ones :A but I think having a forever baby will make things a lot easier and give me something positive to focus on.

Oh, forever babies please hurry up and come to all the lovely ladies here. We are all so deperate to meet you and we will love each of you so very much.

xx

Honey you like me and us other MC ladies will get our forever babies. I am proof of that. Just have to wait for my next forever one now....................:A:A:A:A:A:A:A:A:A:A:A

tinkwings

Sa-ra-ra-ra wrote: »

Well. After going to superdrug and spending £18, and peeing on EVERY stick I could lay my hands on this morning...

I think it's fairly conclusive

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WOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOO congrats honey xxxxxx

skintchick

Congrats Sa-ra-ra-ra!!! Great news

emsbet wrote: »

Awww Happy Monthday tomorrow Mini Skintchick I think children know a lot more about what's going on than people often give them credit for. Maybe she asks about it when something triggers the memory for her, like playing with her dolls or seeing a baby/pg lady in the street or on tv?
My eldest nephew, who's five said to my sister the other day "Emsbet really wants a baby. I think she'll get one next year" I hope little man's right

Was the bleeding a lot or just a small amount? I think if it's only a small amount it shouldn't affect your ov.

I know that I'm not myself at the moment but I've been trying to push it away as I feel that I should be moving on now and I know that DH thinks it's healthier for us to try and put it behind us and move forward. I'm trying, I really am but there are so many landmarks (like yesterday's should have been v day) or events (like Christmas) that keep reminding me of what we have lost.
I did speak to the doctor a few weeks ago and she asked me if I wanted to hurt myself and I tried to explain that I didn't want to die but that I just want to not be me for a while and escape from myself IYSWIM. I think those days are getting fewer now. Like you I'm hoping that it gets easier after Christmas (also hoping for a BFP in the new year)

xx

That;s how I feel, a bit 'stop the world, I want to get off' but I also do kinda want to hurt myself I know that's bad. Just, maybe some physical pain would stop the hurt in my head and heart? I know it wouldn't though.

IT was only a little bit of bleeding, and I had some sort of EWCM today, then a bit more old blood, so I think we just have to go for it and see what happens.

Q - yes DD is very advanced! It's mostly because of her talking, apparently talking and understanding develop at the same rate so because she talks way above her age, her understanding is as well. Although I did get her age wrong! She is two and five months tomorrow, so I lopped a whole month off lol.

She invented a game today - she hid in the airer being a hamster and squeaked when she wanted feeding, I had to pretend to feed her and then she'd go 'pop!' and laugh hysterically, either that or she'd 'escape' from her airer cage and then chase me round the kitchen until I let her catch me and bite me (pretend biting, our friends have a hamster that bites that's where she got it from). I have to remind myself that at least I have those moments with her even if I don;t have my second baby. I know some of you are not as lucky to even have one.

emsbet

Thanks for all the kind words. I will see how I go over Christmas and then maybe think about going to the doctors.

tinkwings wrote: »

Honey you like me and us other MC ladies will get our forever babies. I am proof of that. Just have to wait for my next forever one now....................:A:A:A:A:A:A:A:A:A:A:A

I hope so. Sometimes it feels like its never going to happen and I'm not meant to carry my own baby to term.

skintchick wrote: »

That;s how I feel, a bit 'stop the world, I want to get off' but I also do kinda want to hurt myself I know that's bad. Just, maybe some physical pain would stop the hurt in my head and heart? I know it wouldn't though.

When I she asked me that I took it more to mean hurt as in kill or seriously injure. I may have hurt myself a little about a month ago, nothing serious just a few scratches it's not something I plan on doing again though so nobody panic.

skintchick wrote: »

IT was only a little bit of bleeding, and I had some sort of EWCM today, then a bit more old blood, so I think we just have to go for it and see what happens.

That sounds similar to me last cycle. I had some old blood come out just before and with EWCM.

skintchick wrote: »

She invented a game today - she hid in the airer being a hamster and squeaked when she wanted feeding, I had to pretend to feed her and then she'd go 'pop!' and laugh hysterically, either that or she'd 'escape' from her airer cage and then chase me round the kitchen until I let her catch me and bite me (pretend biting, our friends have a hamster that bites that's where she got it from). I have to remind myself that at least I have those moments with her even if I don;t have my second baby. I know some of you are not as lucky to even have one.

Awww so cute

OPKs still negative, although I can see a faint line now so levels are hopefully increasing.....

xx

Whattodonow

Hello ladies. I'm going to leave the forum. Can you please take me off the list QQ. No offence to any of you but it seems to have changed since when I first joined. In addition, I just don't feel part of it any more.
Good luck on your journeys all.
Gemma