Trying for a Baby Part 7

skintchick

Oh DD just asked me Where's your baby? In case she was just playing a game I said Which baby?? and she said Your baby that died.

fannyanna

skintchick wrote: »

Oh DD just asked me Where's your baby? In case she was just playing a game I said Which baby?? and she said Your baby that died.

Oh skintchick

I'm sending you some hugs x x x

tinkwings

skintchick wrote: »

Oh DD just asked me Where's your baby? In case she was just playing a game I said Which baby?? and she said Your baby that died.

Oh honey Big Hugs xxxx

QQuaver

Whattodonow wrote: »

we have to remember how lucky we are. Good OHs, family, friends, even the roof over our heads!

So true:o

skintchick wrote: »

there was pinky brown blood. There was quite a lot, and some in my knickers, but it had clearly only just started and there is nothing today. Anyone got any ideas??

Could be old blood?

tinkwings wrote: »

So woken up to NO VOICE :mad: I think my DH christmas wish has come early :rotfl:

(((Hugs))):(

skintchick wrote: »

Oh DD just asked me Where's your baby? In case she was just playing a game I said Which baby?? and she said Your baby that died.

Ahhh.... so sad

jen77_2

Hi guys I am still lurking...not up to going on pregnancy thread just yet.
Bleeding lasted couple of days, it wasn't heavy and no clots thankfully. Went for scan on Monday .. They couldn't see anything on abdo scan so had to have internal scan. Picked up the gestational sac and a poss egg sac.. Said it looked early than dates which I expected as I ov'd late.
Got to go back for another scan in fortnight to see if it's progressing.
I've stopped googling and reading anything preg related as its stressing me out that there's something wrong... This TTC and early preg is nothing but worry lol!

jen77_2

Forgot to add... Congratulations to the bfp's I've missed
Hugs for those that need them xx

emsbet

skintchick wrote: »

I am very confused today - last night OH and I were going to DTD but when I went to the loo before bed and wiped, there was pinky brown blood. There was quite a lot, and some in my knickers, but it had clearly only just started and there is nothing today. Anyone got any ideas?? Is it old blood from my last period (which was very heavy and weird) which was dislodged by up DTD the night beofre? (and yes I know SMEP is every other but we missed CD8 so were going to do CDs9 and 10 then get back on track!).

I've had lots of weird discharge and random bits of blood since my mc including some this week. I think it's probably a combination of hormones still been up and down and your body just recovering physically from the trauma of the mc.

skintchick wrote: »

Oh DD just asked me Where's your baby? In case she was just playing a game I said Which baby?? and she said Your baby that died.

Oh sweetie that must have been so hard. Big ((hugs)). I bet it's really hard for her to understand too. How old is she?

skintchick wrote: »

I am very depressed - coming out as moderately to severely depressed on the Goldberg scale

I was having a look at the Goldberg scale yesterday as I didn't really know much about it. I answered the questions on Net Doctor and I came out severely depressed! I have been really down and struggling too since the last mc but I wouldn't have said I was severely depressed. This isn't to take anything away from how you are feeling, it's just I was surprised by the result I got.

I really hope that you start to feel better soon and I wish I could take the pain away. You know we are all here and my PM is always open.

xx

emsbet

jen77 wrote: »

Hi guys I am still lurking...not up to going on pregnancy thread just yet.
Bleeding lasted couple of days, it wasn't heavy and no clots thankfully. Went for scan on Monday .. They couldn't see anything on abdo scan so had to have internal scan. Picked up the gestational sac and a poss egg sac.. Said it looked early than dates which I expected as I ov'd late.
Got to go back for another scan in fortnight to see if it's progressing.
I've stopped googling and reading anything preg related as its stressing me out that there's something wrong... This TTC and early preg is nothing but worry lol!

I'm keeping everything crossed for you Jen.

Definitely a good idea to stop with the googling as you will tend to find more negatives than positives as people are always more likely to write about their bad experiences than their good.

xx

skintchick

emsbet wrote: »

I've had lots of weird discharge and random bits of blood since my mc including some this week. I think it's probably a combination of hormones still been up and down and your body just recovering physically from the trauma of the mc.



Oh sweetie that must have been so hard. Big ((hugs)). I bet it's really hard for her to understand too. How old is she?



I was having a look at the Goldberg scale yesterday as I didn't really know much about it. I answered the questions on Net Doctor and I came out severely depressed! I have been really down and struggling too since the last mc but I wouldn't have said I was severely depressed. This isn't to take anything away from how you are feeling, it's just I was surprised by the result I got.

I really hope that you start to feel better soon and I wish I could take the pain away. You know we are all here and my PM is always open.

xx

Thanks Emsbet.

DD is 2 and four months (well, she will be tomorrow, it's her monthday lol) and she is very bright and advanced, so I'm not surprised by the questions so much, but that she keeps asking, and at random times too.

I'm worried the random blood might stop me Oving, but I did OV last month so hopefully it is fine.

I'm not surprised I'm depressed as I have such a history of it I know what it looks like but I can understand that if you don;t have a history then it can be a real shock to know that you are depressed rather than just a bit down/blue.

I do think I'll feel a lot better (not better better, but a bit better) after Christmas. Hope thats the same for you too Emsbet.

QQuaver

jen77 wrote: »

Picked up the gestational sac and a poss egg sac.. Said it looked early than dates which I expected as I ov'd late.

Fingers crossed:o

skintchick wrote: »

DD is 2 and four months (well, she will be tomorrow, it's her monthday lol) and she is very bright and advanced, so I'm not surprised by the questions so much, but that she keeps asking, and at random times too.

Your DD is amazingly advanced:shocked:

I do think I'll feel a lot better (not better better, but a bit better) after Christmas.

(((Hugs)))