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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • gizmodo_2
    gizmodo_2 Posts: 1,859 Forumite
    I wonder why i(luv)freebies is censored out above?

    (hugs) sexymouse
    Baby Giz born 6/2/11
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Woke up with awful headache and struggling at work already so hope the day goes quickly. I do suffer from headaches which can last for weeks and do have medication but I have been cutting down in them due to ttc but think I might need to start taking the full amount for a few days to see if that helps. Don't think it helped that I read through all the print outs the doctor gave me last night and it said that couples who have been trying for 2 years without success are classed as infertile which really upset me and all I could think about last night was that I am classed as infertile which just seems a massive failure :(
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Hugs Sexymouse for the spotting, hope it isn't af, but if it is you can drink over Christmas and then there will be new year conception to plan.
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    ((hugs)) Sexymouse
    Primmer wrote: »
    Woke up with awful headache and struggling at work already so hope the day goes quickly. I do suffer from headaches which can last for weeks and do have medication but I have been cutting down in them due to ttc but think I might need to start taking the full amount for a few days to see if that helps. Don't think it helped that I read through all the print outs the doctor gave me last night and it said that couples who have been trying for 2 years without success are classed as infertile which really upset me and all I could think about last night was that I am classed as infertile which just seems a massive failure :(

    Big ((hugs)). You are not a failure! Sometimes people need a little extra help with things, that doesn't make them failures. Sometimes our bodies do things that they aren't supposed to or don't do things we want them to but at the end of the day it's out of our control. You have taken a big step on your way to getting your forever baby by going to the doctors and getting the ball rolling. You never know the problem could be something that's eaily fixed and you'll get there before you know it. As someone (Fannyanna, I think) said a while ago, this is one of those things where the end result is what's important, not how you got there.

    We are all here for you.

    xx
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  • sexymouse
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    Hugs Primmer - as emsbet has said, you're not a failure! I know it's hard not to feel that way sometimes, and I have days when I feel like that myself. I think you are a strong and supportive lady with lots of love to give, and you'll make a great Mum one day. I know it sounds like a cliche, but sometimes the things in life that are worth having, sometimes are the hardest to reach, but the struggle to get there will hopefully all be worth it when you hold your child for the first time.
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Big thanks to Emsbet and Sexymouse, your posts made me cry but in a good way. I am going to get my pma back and try to take the pressure off myself as I know that will help. I also know that getting tests for me and DH is a positive step and one which should help us achieve our goal.

    Thank you to all the ladies on here who are so supportive to all, it is great to have this thread as no one in RL knows we are even ttc and so it is great to share experiences on here.
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Hugs primmer, you are not a failure. Sometimes things take longer than expected. Fingers crossed that doctors can help you or it happens naturally.
    How can any specialist say that if someone is infertile after 2 years of trying for a baby. There may not be any reason why it takes years to conceive.

    It is such a fluke getting pregnant anyway with the efforts a female body does to kill off sperm.

    Fingers crossed that it is implantation sexymouse. Welcome to the implantation guessing game! Still waiting for my test on saturday.
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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    :j:j:jCongratulations i luv freebies!:j:j:j
    BFP BFP BFP BFP BFP!
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  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Huge Hugs Primmer :A

    You are an amazing lady bug :D
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    WOW - Congrats I Luv Freebies wishing u a happy & healthy PG xxx
    If you can think it........it will happen
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