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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    Still stuck in limbo...

    DH seems to be still undecided, so will go to the CD3 blood test/scan anyway tomorrow. It'll be a waste of money if we are not going ahead with IVF this cycle, but it is always good to know how one's doing:o

    Massive temp drop and full force AF is here today. Normally that is CD1.
    If the doctor/nurse confirms this, then I'll just come back again on Tuesday:o Better early than late:cool:

    Oh no that must be hard not knowing what's going on. What do you think the chances are that he'll come back for the tests?
    QQuaver wrote: »
    Good luck!:j

    Thanks :)

    xx
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  • Morning all. Thanks for your messages about BIL's MIL. I feel fine this morning and ready to be as supportive as they need us to be.

    Jen, congrats on BFP!

    QQ, fingers crossed re: IVF and I hope you and DH find the right way forward for you both, whatever that may be.

    Well, do you all want to hear something weird. I have a BFN, no sign of AF but looks like I am ov'ing again!!! :eek: Apparently its not unheard of. But if I am right that means either I will start AF or get a BFP on Christmas Day! :eek:
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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    emsbet wrote: »
    Oh no that must be hard not knowing what's going on. What do you think the chances are that he'll come back for the tests?
    Slim? I'm just forever optimistic:o
    walby1993 wrote: »
    Morning all. Thanks for your messages about BIL's MIL. I feel fine this morning and ready to be as supportive as they need us to be.
    (((hugs)))
    QQ, fingers crossed re: IVF and I hope you and DH find the right way forward for you both, whatever that may be.
    I know what the right way forward is, but there's always the old fashioned way:p
    Well, do you all want to hear something weird. I have a BFN, no sign of AF but looks like I am ov'ing again!!! :eek: Apparently its not unheard of. But if I am right that means either I will start AF or get a BFP on Christmas Day! :eek:
    How do you know you are oving again? Opks? cm?
    I've ov'd at CD40 once:p
  • At the moment I am just guessing when I am ov'ing by cm so I could be wrong. I am definately temping next month so I can work out whats going on!
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  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    emsbet wrote: »
    Hang in there sweetie. Hopefully you are just testing too early. I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

    xx

    Thanks Honey. xxxx :A
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • QQuaver
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    walby1993 wrote: »
    At the moment I am just guessing when I am ov'ing by cm so I could be wrong. I am definately temping next month so I can work out whats going on!
    One can get ewcm like cm just prior to AF too;)
    But good luck!:j
  • QQuaver wrote: »
    One can get ewcm like cm just prior to AF too;)
    But good luck!:j

    Ah, that would make more sense :rotfl:
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  • Congratulations Jen.

    I have my fingers crossed for you QQ.

    BZ I hope you are feeling better soon.

    I think that is everybody but sorry if I have missed anyone.

    I tested this morning and got a BFN but still have no sign of AF so obviously my hormones haven't quite sorted themselves out after I came off the pill.

    We are still staying relaxed about TTC and to be honest I wasn't that disappointed when I got the negative, I think this is mainly because my temporary contract ends at the end of the month so I will be out of work in January.

    My job at the moment though is not helping with the broodiness, I work for a well known chemist at a well known shopping centre and it is full of pregnant women and cute babies of various ages.
  • Kitten_Pie
    Kitten_Pie Posts: 1,961 Forumite
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    bigzippy wrote: »
    tongue.gif You can't use me against me!! :rotfl:

    FYI, I've been nowhere but bed and couch and bed again today :D;)

    I can and I will tongue.gif
    glad you took yesterday out.
    tinkwings wrote: »
    Another bfn here this morning :(:mad::(:o

    I would wait a few days and test again, your not out yet :)
    walby1993 wrote: »
    Well, do you all want to hear something weird. I have a BFN, no sign of AF but looks like I am ov'ing again!!! :eek: Apparently its not unheard of. But if I am right that means either I will start AF or get a BFP on Christmas Day! :eek:

    That would be a fab Christmas present :D
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  • Kitten_Pie
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    :beer:
    CONGRATULATIONS JEN
    :j:j:j:j
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    :D Naomi Lily born 28th August 2012 :D Lachlan Georg born 4th October 2013 :D
    :D Rowena Hazel born 5th October 2015 :D
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