Trying for a Baby Part 7

TTC40

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Hi all, newbies and lurkers included.

I have read through but my mind has turned to mush today, going to try and get an early night as have a meeting with work tomorrow at midday think 2 might be early enough. Have done the cooking for all this week and borrowed the steam cleaner from my sil so will be cleaning the next few nights.

Big ((hugs)) and sad faces to all those with BFN and AF.

Hope all goes OK with work. What do you want the outcome of the meeting to be?

Bufger wrote: »

ok so when i posted last week and said 'not trying not preventing' it turns out that secretly meant 'already 3 weeks pregnant'. That was a little sooner than i expected!!!!

The thing is its indicating 5 weeks but AF was 4 weeks ago. The level of whatchacallit hormone thingy (UHT is milk, HTC is a mobile phone... its something like that?!). Somebody told us that could mean twins? PLEASE TELL ME ITS ONLY ONE BABA!

We're telling parents on Christmas day

And we worked it out and the point we concieved was the first BD without protection in over a year. What are the chances?!

Great news. Congratulations.

Do you mean HPT?

Kitten_Pie

TTC40 wrote: »

Hope all goes OK with work. What do you want the outcome of the meeting to be?

I'm hoping it will just be a friendly catch up 'how you coping?' thing and that they won't pressure me to go back. I have the information stating that I am entitled to the full 52 weeks (I am currently on my 7th). I am also taking OH as I don't really want to travel into London on my own still. (Think I may be a little agoraphobic at the moment )

So far they have been really supportive so I hope I am worrying over nothing.

Kitten_Pie

Bufger wrote: »

The thing is its indicating 5 weeks but AF was 4 weeks ago. Somebody told us that could mean twins? PLEASE TELL ME ITS ONLY ONE BABA!!

When I was pregnant with twins I had no more symptoms including not showing early on a test than a single pregnancy would. If you do have more than one, apart from being a shock it will be a blessing and you will cope fine.

Which test did you get to get +5 weeks, i thought they only showed up to +3 weeks?

TTC40

Kitten - it will be another hurdle/ milestone to go back into the workplace. Glad they are being supportive.

As you say, you can have the year off if you need/ want. It's very early days for you.

Will you have time for your OH to treat you to a nice lunch whilst you are out?

How has he got on with his return to work this week?

Kitten_Pie

It is a meeting over lunch so we will get to eat. OH is taking a long lunch and his work are supportive of this .

Work has been going ok for him however people seem to be avoiding him which is making him feel really isolated. We know people don't know what to say but just saying 'I don't know what to say' helps make him feel less alone and forgotten.

bigzippy

Congratulations bufger! Relax, those things aren't an exact science, every lady is different and there's also the possibility that she ovulated early in her cycle and/or implanted early after ovulation.

Secrets, :(for cd1

Kitten, I hope the meeting goes well tomorrow. I get agoraphobic when I'm going through things emotionally/mentally and sometimes physically too, don't worry about it, you'll get there. Worrying about it will only worry you more, because you'll be doing the behaviour more, as your body/mind tries to help you process what's happened. You will be ok, this too shall pass, so be nice to yourself in the meantime

Emsbet, you're not allowed to beat yourself up either. What will be will be, there's very little you could do/not do that would mean a different outcome

Welcome to the newbie:wave:

I'm going to sleep now! :wave: to everyone

Kitten_Pie

Night BZ, I hope things go well with your MIL's return.

QQuaver

:j:j:jCongratulations Bufger!:j:j:j
BFP BFP BFP BFP BFP!
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QQuaver

Testing list

Thu 1st Dec - Twigglet35
Sat 3rd Dec - TeamLowe
Thu 8th Dec - mrsj28
Thu 8th Dec - Jen77
Sat 10th Dec - kittycat1977
Sun 11th Dec - walby1993
Wed 14th Dec - Definitely Blonde
Tue 20th Dec - Sa-ra-ra-ra
Sat 24th Dec - Sexymouse

December graduates- Winners of Nov BFP predictions (8) GemmaE, Twigglet35 & Squirrels:T

GemmaE (28) TTC#2 since 04/11 BFP 03/12/11:j
Bufger TTC#2 since 11/11 BFP 07/12/11:j

December BFP predictions

Birdie85 - 7
Maire1 - 8
Ikkle87 - 8
vesper - 8
MrsHappy - 9
mrsj28 - 9
Secretdebts - 9
Sexymouse - 9
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 9 (ideally incl self)
Squ1rrel5 - 10
Whattodonow - 10 (incl self)
TTC40 - 11
QQuaver - 12
Twigglet35 - 12

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD74 i luv freebies - ?DPO :cool:
CD70 teaandcakeordeath - 48DPO :cool:
CD62 Tryingforathird - 44DPO :cool:
CD60 T-sil - ?DPO :cool:
CD46 trixietoes - 32DPO :cool:
CD? Tigerlilly - 31DPO :cool:
CD41 TeamLowe - 21DPO :cool:
CD33 Birdie85 - 17DPO :cool:
CD28 twigglet35 - 16DPO :cool:
CD25 The Next Verse - 16DPO :cool:
CD25 time2deal - 15DPO :cool:
CD31 mrsj28 - 14DPO :cool:
CD34 Bigzippy* - 14DPO :cool:
CD28 emsbet - 13DPO :cool:
CD33 Jen77 - 12DPO :cool:
CD30 QQuaver* - 11DPO :cool:
CD23 mrshappy - 11DPO :cool:
CD35 walby1993 - 11DPO :cool:
CD26 skintchick - 10DPO :cool:
CD23 i love holidays - 9DPO? :cool:
CD23 tinkwings - 8DPO :cool:
CD21 Whattodonow - 8DPO :cool:
CD25 Definitely Blonde - 8DPO :cool:
CD30 Squ1rrel5 - 7DPO? :cool:
CD23 Maire1 - 7DPO:cool:
CD31 2ba3c - 6DPO? :cool:
CD50 Kitten_pie - 5DPO :cool:
CD20 Gizmodo - 5DPO :cool:
CD20 Student_Mrs - 4DPO? :cool:
CD15 Nicki - 1DPO? :cool:
CD17 Sa-ra-ra-ra - 1DPO? :cool:
CD15 TTC40 - 0DPO? :cool:
CD10 sexymouse* - High CBFM :cool:

CD78 b_girl - Awaiting ov
CD66 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov
CD62 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD53 fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD47 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov
CD40 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD36 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD31 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD28 Picklepick - Awaiting ov
CD27 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD27 kittycat1977 - Awaiting ov
CD26 2 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD22 mrsrobertson - Awaiting ov
CD22 isla_red - Awaiting ov
CD20 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD18 Maddie_s - Awaiting ov
CD16 ikkle87 - Awaiting ov
CD15 DibDabb - Awaiting ov
CD15 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD15 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD15 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD15 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD14 Secret debt girl - Awaiting ov
CD14 mishkanorman - Awaiting ov
CD14 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD14 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov
CD13 Scottishchick27 - Awaiting ov
CD11 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD9 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD8 penguin83 - Awaiting ov
CD8 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD7 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD6 scarly* - Awaiting ov
CD4 Primmer* - Awaiting ov
CD3 Elelyn - Awaiting ov
CD2 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)