Trying for a Baby Part 7

Kitten_Pie

bigzippy wrote: »

I ask also hopping that you get your bfp before then I know they said you'd struggle to conceive naturally previously, what have they said since? I can't remember why that was now either...?

I've just taken out a medicash scheme, which means we've only get the birth of a baby payout after 12 months...hoping I'll have to miss out on that one

I have to go to see the consultant in 3 months if AF hasn't arrived and we will be sent for further intervention if we haven't got a BFP in 6 months. I am hoping that we are more likely to get pregnant now as the thought of not being able to is unbearable.

I also hope that you don't get the baby payout, even better if it was within the 5 months Lets all poke fate with the big stick.

Trying to think what else I could do, perhaps book a ridiculously expensive camping holiday for June

Kitten_Pie

bigzippy wrote: »

Not fancying my chances for this cycle though. I've got cm with red flecks in today, same as I did 6 days before real af past cycle...:cool:

I wouldn't give up yet although I can convince myself that I am pregnant even when full flow AF.

bigzippy

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

I have to go to see the consultant in 3 months if AF hasn't arrived and we will be sent for further intervention if we haven't got a BFP in 6 months. I am hoping that we are more likely to get pregnant now as the thought of not being able to is unbearable.

I also hope that you don't get the baby payout, even better if it was within the 5 months Lets all poke fate with the big stick.

Trying to think what else I could do, perhaps book a ridiculously expensive camping holiday for June

I can imagine. More so for you cos you got so close I think about it randomly (your situation I mean) and can't get my head around it, so goodness knows what your head must be like

Within 3 months woulda be even better, then I wouldn't need the HSG dh booked his SA appointment today for 20th dec...

Maybe we could buy some really expensive tight tailored clothes or something

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

I wouldn't give up yet although I can convince myself that I am pregnant even when full flow AF.

Me too sometimes I blame those ridiculous "i didn't know I was pregnant" programmes. I mean I understand it must happen, but they make you feel like it's far more possible than it really is

I'm in severe danger of ss.ing though atm...

Kitten_Pie

My Aunt didn't realise she was pregnant until she was over 5 months (and it was her 3rd) A friend of a friend didn't find out until labour started (I think everyone has one of those) Still had AF and everything.

It stories like these that make me think perhaps....

At least with the SA booked you are looking forward.

bigzippy

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

My Aunt didn't realise she was pregnant until she was over 5 months (and it was her 3rd) A friend of a friend didn't find out until labour started (I think everyone has one of those) Still had AF and everything.

It stories like these that make me think perhaps....

At least with the SA booked you are looking forward.

It's stories like this that make me go crazy lol. Especially when I have an anovulatory cycle bleed and think "maybe I'm pregnant" ...um you need an egg for that, zippy dear.

I really hope the SA comes back a-ok... Mainly because I don't know what they can do if it's not

Thinking about sleep now, if my body will stop overheating and let me... Feeling a bit lousy so sleep would be good! If I disappear, I hope you get some good quality kip in

Kitten_Pie

I should probably think about sleep, Its getting close to me buying rather than listing on ebay.

I am sure there are things that can be done if it isn't great. someone mentioned on here a few days ago but can't remember who or when (not much help)

Kitten_Pie

oops... bought stuff from ebay.

It was opks so think that's ok. I bought 25 as I was hoping to SMEP which uses 10 but have already used 23 so needed to invest in more. Now for bed before I spend more.

squ1rrel5

Thanks for the hugs yesterday everyone

QQuaver wrote: »

Don't worry about temps, some fertility doctors totally dismiss temp charts:o

(((Hugs))), but relax, you've only been trying for 3 months

Thank you for putting it into perspective QQ...We had a couple of months of NTNP so it seems much longer to me but I know that's nothing!
Feel silly as I know there are lots of ladies on here waiting much longer

It's not helped by the fact that all but one of the ladies I know who have babies/are pg, it happened in month 1 or 2.
Saying that though, its not always good... I went to see my friend last night (the one with the life/baby plan that worked out almost to the day!) - her baby is adorable but she's currently suing the hospital where she had her! Apparently the staff bodged her lady bits after the birth :eek:
Her GP was completely shocked that the hospital staff had let her out in the state she was and she was very lucky that it didn't lead to anything more nasty like infection. Since it happened she's had to have 2 rounds of reconstructive surgery to make it look.normal again.:eek:

Strangely not enough info to put me off but did gross me out when she told me!

TTC40

QQuaver wrote: »

Done my sales pitch and it's a go for IVF!:j:j:j
(Fingers crossed he doesn't change his mind:o)

I need to go to the clinic within the 1st 3 days of AF if I want to do IVF that cycle. It's set in stone:o

I think I'm 4DPO (could be 5), so I still have time:)
My LP varies from 12-14days.

Yey - great news that you have a joint approach - but let's hope it's irrelevant & you get a BFP from your well timed BD this month.

QQuaver

Testing list

Thu 1st Dec - Twigglet35
Fri 2nd Dec - Primmer
Sat 3rd Dec - TeamLowe
Sat 3rd Dec - Elelyn
Fri 9th Dec - Secretdebts
Sat 17th Dec - walby1993
Sat 24th Dec - Sexymouse

December graduates- Winners of Nov BFP predictions (8) GemmaE, Twigglet35 & Squirrels:T

December BFP predictions

Sexymouse - 9
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 9 (ideally incl self)
Squ1rrel5 - 10
Whattodonow - 10 (incl self)
QQuaver - 12
Twigglet35 - 12