Trying for a Baby Part 7

bigzippy

Colli, yep, I know that feeling too. It's coming up a year for us now too, with nothing but irritating pcos cycles and bfns to show for it. I don't even know if I can get pg, so my mind wanders into fertility treatments and adoption processes and all sorts, quite regularly.:o

Sorry ladies, this is why I've been awol.:o I've been finding it hard to be on fb cos of all the scan/baby pics and posts, and even if you hide that person from your feed of updates, if they comment on mine/someone else's that I know, I still have to see their pic etc :cool: I've (being brutally honest, but not being nasty) also started to struggle to see newbie bfps, when some of us have been ttc for much longer. That's not to say I don't wish the newbies well, genuinely, I just wish more of us were joining them in celebrating our own

Anyway, my point was that my pma sucks (i swore vehemently in front of MIL when I found out about tracy having steve's twins after an isolated one night stand, on Corrie! ), and I'm struggling to be online full stop, so that's why I'm a smidge MIA lately. I've been immersing myself in making rag rugs for Christmas presents, whilst recycling old clothes etc that we were going to throw out, instead

BB1984

welshpolarbear wrote: »

Our little one should have been born last week, we lost her at 20 weeks, and it's just heartbreaking to see others I know with their babies arriving safely. Though I'm happy for them it just tears me up inside Hopefully it will be our turn soon though.

I can't imagine how hard that must be, wpb. It will be your turn soon, keep up the PMA Sounds like you DTD in the "window of opportunity" so hopefully this month will be your month.

emsbet wrote: »

Hello,

I just wanted to say to all you wonderful, amazing ladies who have been there for me recently.......


xx

The thing is, emsbet, we all know that you'd do the same for all of us! :kisses3:

bigzippy wrote: »

Colli, yep, I know that feeling too. It's coming up a year for us now too, with nothing but irritating pcos cycles and bfns to show for it. I don't even know if I can get pg, so my mind wanders into fertility treatments and adoption processes and all sorts, quite regularly.:o

Sorry ladies, this is why I've been awol.:o I've been finding it hard to be on fb cos of all the scan/baby pics and posts, and even if you hide that person from your feed of updates, if they comment on mine/someone else's that I know, I still have to see their pic etc :cool: I've (being brutally honest, but not being nasty) also started to struggle to see newbie bfps, when some of us have been ttc for much longer. That's not to say I don't wish the newbies well, genuinely, I just wish more of us were joining them in celebrating our own

Anyway, my point was that my pma sucks (i swore vehemently in front of MIL when I found out about tracy having steve's twins after an isolated one night stand, on Corrie! ), and I'm struggling to be online full stop, so that's why I'm a smidge MIA lately. I've been immersing myself in making rag rugs for Christmas presents, whilst recycling old clothes etc that we were going to throw out, instead

I know how you feel, bigzippy (apart from the added spanner in the works of your various medical conditions!)

It will be your turn soon - it's about time my dear

Rag rugs = very "eco" and MSE! :money:

Hugs to everyone on CD1/2/3, boooooo. :mad:

Hope everyone has a good day - be warned though - it's freeeeeezing out this morning!

BB x

Primmer

Morning ladies, hugs to Emsbet, Nicki, welshpolarbear and to all who need them.

I have been suffering with a really bad cold and spend all day yesterday in bed. Had a low reading on cbfm yesterday and before so not been bding as felt so rough and then this morning I poas and cbfm goes straight to peak without any highs!!! Couldn't bd this morning as was running late and so going to try to bd tonight and tomorrow and hope it's not too late!!!

TTC40

How long does high usually last on CBFM?

I have been high now for 9 days with no peak. Haven't BD'd since Monday.

welshpolarbear

emsbet wrote: »

Last week must have been so hard for you, that's a landmark I'm already dreading
I hope you get your forever baby soon.

xx

Thank you. I hope you do too. Our little ones will always be with us and be remembered. Just try and stay strong and if u need a chat feel free to pm me. I know s lot of people in the 'real' world avoided talking to me about it when really I could have done with more people to talk to. So just shout if u need to xx

emsbet

welshpolarbear wrote: »

Thank you. I hope you do too. Our little ones will always be with us and be remembered. Just try and stay strong and if u need a chat feel free to pm me. I know s lot of people in the 'real' world avoided talking to me about it when really I could have done with more people to talk to. So just shout if u need to xx

Thank you very much.

xx

welshpolarbear

BB1984 wrote: »

I can't imagine how hard that must be, wpb. It will be your turn soon, keep up the PMA Sounds like you DTD in the "window of opportunity" so hopefully this month will be your month

Thanks BB. Hope you are doing ok and that we all get our forever baby soon.(To use Emsbet's term - I like that) xx

sexymouse

TTC40 I've had a lot of highs (10 I think) on CBFM one month - it was my third month of using it if I remember correctly, and I think it's cos I took evening primrose oil, which lengthened my cycle and delayed my ovulation. I would keep BDing every other day, as it sounds like you're due your peak fairly soon.

Lots of people with colds on here at the moment - hope you all feel better soon!

for emsbet, welshpolarbear, bigzippy, mrshappy, flee and anyone else who would like one.

Moon and I DTD yesterday when he got home from work, and we're going to do the same today (he said he's less tired then so it's better). Fingers crossed.

sexymouse xx

colli

bigzippy wrote: »

Anyway, my point was that my pma sucks (i swore vehemently in front of MIL when I found out about tracy having steve's twins after an isolated one night stand, on Corrie! ), and I'm struggling to be online full stop, so that's why I'm a smidge MIA lately. I've been immersing myself in making rag rugs for Christmas presents, whilst recycling old clothes etc that we were going to throw out, instead

It does feel like my pma is running out sometimes and sometimes I'm not sure how much longer I can keep it up . rag rugs and recycling old clothes sounds like a good diversion. I've started writing a book, I don't know if it will ever be any good but I've always wanted to write and if you don't try, you don't know .

Without wanting to be too personal, how's your BMI now? Would you feel happy to take clomid yet? Even if you aren't quite at where you want to be if your dr's happy to perscribe it maybe give it a go for one cycle? Obviously I don't know you in real life and I really hope you get pregnant but from a couple of things you've said I've thought you and your hubby would do brilliantly if you adopted. I imagine you both being able to take any baby and love it to bits regardless of where it came from

colli

Hello WPB, nice to see you back . You sound as though you are coping very well, I'm already panicking inside about getting to what would have been my due date. I thought it would be ok if I was pregnant by then but I don't think that's going to happen . I agree with how horrible it is when people avoid talking about your loss, I don't think I've ever felt so lonely. I know it's because people don't know what to see and feel awkward but COME ON, if one of your friends is going through something horrible make the effort, it will be appreciated. :mad: Oops, got a bit ranty there! I think I go a bit mental when AF's in town :)