Trying for a Baby Part 7

codemonkey

Thanks lemonmelon but I have AF type pains and a weird shooting pain in the right side of my belly so think I'm out. Kind of feeling the same as you.

Stupid biology .

Flee_2

Hugs Lemonmelon for having a blue day.
Cd33 for me and still left wondering when af is going to arrive. Typically I am going on holiday next week and could do with af arriving before the weekend.

claire16c

Congratulations 2b!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

atton83

Congratulations 2b and sequeena. May you have happy, healthy, easy pregnancies.

atton83

Well today i went for my appointment at the job centre, i nearly had a seizure as i walked through the door i was slurring my words at my officer and the security wanted my oh to wait outside !!!!!!!! i really started to panic but oh was like no i cant wait outside and the security guard was like why not so oh answered the same snotty way the guard did by saying im her carer :O made me titter which is weird

my appointment was about my course, when it starts and have i thought about volunteering and getting back into the workforce that way so thats a load of volunteering jobs applied for too

i just hope the seizures don't put people off fingers crossed

i start the opk testing tomorrow do oh and i still bd every other day while were testing so we dont miss or do we wait till we get a positive?

im gonna be testing at 6 in the evening to make sure things get caught
and thursday is my tattoo im so excited.

Definitely_blonde

Huge ((hugs)) JoJo, take care

2ba3c – congratulations :j, wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy

QQ – fingers crossed for Thursday

Lilymay I hope the results are better than the receptionist made out

Not much for me to update on, CD11 and no cm yet.

lilymay1

I've just been doing a bit of reading on Soy. Can anyone give me any more info on it?

I've picked up that in can induce ovulation, but most of the stories I've found have been people with really long cycles. Do you think it might help me ov earlier than CD21?

I'm not going to do anything until I've spoken to the GP tomorrow, but any information on SI would be much appreciated

abis21

lemonmelon wrote: »

I'm feeling pretty blue today I want to believe that everything will work out for the best in its own time I just wish it wasn't so hard getting there. I don't want to wish time away, I want to enjoy it all but it sucks a bit just now sorry for not havinga happy post today

I'm having a blue few days too Where did my PMA go to :huh: I contacted the molar nurse about counselling tho and shes got back to me today and asked my GP to refer me somewhere local. I can get counselling with the molar unit, but it would mean me travelling to Sheffield via public transport which would be a pita. So thats a positive step hopefully Results due tomorrow - but don't think they will be back to normal like I want them to be as its the 8 week 'deadline' now.

I think its normal for it to suck. The molar nurse, Annie said this today: One thing that is much easier from the outside is to know that you will recover, you will never be exactly the same again, you won’t forget what has happened but you will be able to think about it without being overwhelmed by sadness and feelings of loss. Altho it kind of upset me that I'll never be the same again - it kind of helped in a wierd way to know that its normal to not feel 'normal' again.

Its a part of our life and history now, going thru these losses. I know myself that I am now a much more compassionate and understanding person for having gone through it. I've never understood grief before, as thankfully I had never been through it. So I can now empathise and maybe even help people who are going thru grief or bad times. And its helping me with my control freak-ness as this is something sooooo out of m control there is nothing I can do in the slightest about it.

I'm hoping that at the end of the journey, when I am cuddling my new born baby, that it will all make more sense. I'm closer to DH because of the experience, and I appreciate DD so much more. I understand that pregnancy and babies are miracles, and when its my turn for my forever baby - oh my gosh am I gonna enjoy it and cherish it (all the more). And I will also be more mindful of other peoples feelings and thoughts in the process too.

But at the start / mid-way through the journey - it still sucks Bad days are normal. Take is day by day or hour by hour if you need to.

lemonmelon_2

Thank you abis, that actually makes me feel better to know I don't need to feel normal again. You're really good at saying the right thing.

I hope your results are brilliant tomorrow, but even if they're not you've come so far in the last 8 weeks, I know it feels so rubbish when you're not where you want to be or wished to be but being healthy and having time with your husband and daughter are more important at the moment. I'll be thinking of you.

vesper

wow this is my longest cycle for a while. Bored of it now... zzzz. I must have been very wrong about when I ov'd as there is no way my lp can be 20 days, it's a very regular 13days. Which annoys me even more as we could have dtd this month if it was a week after when i thought it was. Will be glad when AF arrives and I can use the cbfm again.

Feeling stuck in a rut, we live in a small 2 bedroomed house, which really isn't ideal for a child, as the spare room is teenie. But if we move to a 3 bedroom (we rent) it'll cost much much more than getting a mortgage. We have a nice deposit for a house, and are viewing one next week, but as OH has been very silly financially in the past (pre-me) he has a terrible credit rating, and as we have been refused a mortgage several times before, I can't see this being the route either for us.
OH was in tears earlier as he feels it's all his fault for blowing all of his money and getting in huge debt when he was younger. He doesn't seem to understand he's not the same man as he was. He just said he's a failure and he can't do anything for us,- no house, no children, a job with very unsociable hours so we never see each other and when we do he falls asleep.