Trying for a Baby Part 7

fannyanna

Birdie85 – thanks for that. I’ve just done this for a few people on FB now. It’s not a great start to the day when all I read are status updates about pregnancies, birth and general baby stuff.

QQ – I don’t check for ov as it’s a waste of time. It wont have happened

Squ1rrel5 – good luck for Friday x

Codemonkey – I hate those week by week updates. Ok, I’m going to do that when I’m pregnant but for now (whilst I’m a green eyed monster) I absolutely hate them :rotfl:

Zippy – hope you’re well.


Abis21 - Hugs :grouphug:


I’m seeing my best friend tomorrow. She’s halfway through her pregnancy (after trying for a month or two) and I haven’t seen her since she announced the pregnancy. When she text me to tell me I was really, really upset so I’m a bit anxious about seeing her. Especially as she’ll have a bump and there’ll be no ignoring the fact that she’s pregnant and I’m not. I kinda feel like a failure. I told her that we were trying when we first started and 15 months later I still don’t ovulate so technically I’m not even “trying”. I just feel like she’s superior to me and I’m nothing.

becca0417

((fannyanna)) I really hope it goes ok for you tomorrow. I can only imagine how hard it is. Life is unfair

Wow Birdie, that is definitely tempting fate. We only have 18 days now until our trip, can't wait! Our Disney pack was delivered yesterday so that was exciting too. Just need to get travel insurance and a suitcase then I can start packing

Birdie85

What's in a Disney pack?! Where are you staying?

Hope tomorrow isn't too hard for you Fanny. Make your excuses as soon as you sit down that you can't stay long in case you feel like you need to make a quick exit if she's upsetting you.

atton83

This month i have the opks but dont know if i should use them as oh doesnt want to go for his sa till after the wedding
Which we were looking at cancelling two days ago as something came up. Ive put my foot down saying everyone is allowed there day and this one is mine

I had to remove myself off of fb full stop n my first maid of honour is pregnant so she instantly said no to bein mh maid of honour and our friendship has since gone cold. Shes alright to my face but then sits on fb n sticks a status up about her always contacting certain friends. Its always me that contacts her and then she is v stand offish in her texts

My friend has made me a godmother to her daughter and i have been there from the start so she feels like mine n i get happy hugs when i see

I know my mother n aunt had probs i just want to win at something as im failing at everything else no job. No way of getting one as i suffer with grand marl seizures. No baby. N all i do all day is stress n try to clean i dont want to give up but people make u feel like you should. My dad even told me as a child that i would be a failure and im proving him right

becca0417

Birdie85 wrote: »

What's in a Disney pack?! Where are you staying?

Our tickets, accomodation voucher, voucher booklet and $150 gift card We are staying at Saratoga Springs. All of our dining and preferential fireworks viewings are booked. Just need to finalise plans for our road trip down the coast!

We looked at staying at Hard Rock for our last 3 days but decided that we would be better staying at a cheaper Universal hotel as we won't be there much anyway! So we are staying at the Royal Pacific :T

amus

vesper wrote: »

Agree defintely on the facebook thing.
1) one person constantly moaned through her entire pregnancy about being pregnant and the symptoms that go with it. Has a baby now and has never said a good thing about him.
2) one person constantly moans how crap her life is, and how she has nothing good in it. she's 24 weeks pregnant.
3) Friend today has literally put, I quote "Really really really hates being pregnant". Why get pregnant then????

I am so tempted to put on there tonight, "some people should be grateful, because they can't see what they have, unless they can't have it".

Do we have the same FB friend? Dear God everyday there was a new pregnancy moan, the midwifes were all !!!!, the baby didnt arrive on exact due date, and now the babys been born! Hes only about 2 weeks old and already he seems to have had 5 colds, colic, too hungry, not hungry enough!

To be fair I did get the impression she had had trouble conceiving but honestly STOP MOANING ALL OVER FB nobody wants to hear it!

lilymay1

You ladies are a bad Omen. I just had an almighty facebook argument with a scrubber 'friend' of mine (who is 30 weeks) after she made a comment about me being bitter, jealous and resentful. Apparently I need to stop dwelling on my daughters death and shut up because I 'keep banging on about it'.

Angry is not the word.

niknok_2

Afternoon ladies :-)

Well this will be tmi but when I just wiped I had like a consistency like EWCM but it was streaked with brown?!?

Does anybody know what this could be?!? I am now in my 6th week off the pill

Confused :-s

amus

lilymay1 wrote: »

You ladies are a bad Omen. I just had an almighty facebook argument with a scrubber 'friend' of mine (who is 30 weeks) after she made a comment about me being bitter, jealous and resentful. Apparently I need to stop dwelling on my daughters death and shut up because I 'keep banging on about it'.

Angry is not the word.

The only advice I can give is to block her and ignore her, she is obviously a very nasty person.

There's no point getting yourself worked up (even though it is difficult) over people like that.

amus

Sorry I havnt introduced myself!

Hello :wave:

I have just suffered a miscarriage at 9 weeks and have been advised it is OK to start trying as soon as I feel up to it, which will hopefully not be too long.

I dont know how I feel about trying so soon after though, almost like it would be disrespectful to the baby I've lost.