Trying for a Baby Part 7

tattoo-

it's shocking how much IVF costs :eek: especially if you have to have a few goes at it

tea_lover

Just had a bit of a shock in the toilet (sorry - that sounds wrong!:eek:)

When I wiped there was sort of very pale brown-ish CM. I wouldn't describe it as spotting, but it's the sort of thing I usually get a day or so before AF turns up. Am only 8DPO at the most, maybe only 7. Also feel sort of crampy/rumbly.

Not looking good. Last thing I need is a LP defect to add to my list of [EMAIL="!!!!ness"]!!!!ness[/EMAIL].

tattoo-

tea lover - implantation bleed maybe?

blacksta

tattoo- wrote: »

tea lover - implantation bleed maybe?

sigh

what is implantation bleed :eek:

rumfeeble

Where are all the May BFPS???? I thought we were due a bumper month

Hugs for AF lilymay and time2deal
Hugs for tooth surgery tinks
Secretdebts and morocha - I hope the 2ww speeds up a bit for you

I am feeling a bit deflated today I am not even sure if I have ov'ed or not. I dont seem to get any EWCM (white stuff yes but never clear or strechy). I think I used to get some, (not loads, but some) but have not found any the last few months at all. Also I dont seem to get positives on OPK's (they are ic's) I think I got positives the first couple of months I used them, now they just never get that dark (but I only do one a day at around 6pm - and its often not that concentrated despite not drinking for a couple of hours) But I do have very regular 28 or 29 day cycles and only a little AF cramping (but not mega uncomfortable). I dont suppose theres any way of knowing without blood tests or temping.......

I've never tried temping, but DH works shifts and I usually wake up when his alarm goes off, sometimes as early at 4.00am! but I can be sleeping till 7.30am when mine goes off. Plus when we both have a day off together DH likes to have a lie in and wouldnt be impressed if an alarm woke him up really early. Do you think I should give it a go even if Im going to be waking up at different times between 4.00am and 7.30am??

blacksta

Please guys have a look at my wife's chart

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3ce271


FF indicator say fertile - I thought you are suppose to be fertile before ovulation.

or do we need to do more BD ing -:)

Thanks

skintchick

Hello ladies sorry I've not been around. I find it easier to stay same if I'm not reading and posting about tTC every day.

I'm 14 dpo today and CD 31. Not testing till next week as usually AF comes at 18 dpo so it's too early.

Hope everyone is OK I've not been lurking so don't know who has graduated. Hope it's lots of people!

Birdie85

Argh my OH is driving me mad at the minute! :mad: I have 'Highly Functional' ASD/Aspergers (Docs haven't bothered to give an official diagnosis) and I tend to go through phases when I'm worse than usual, being quite inward facing and obsessive about little things. Not a big deal, just let me get on with it and I'll be back to 'normal' (for me) soon, but OH chooses to get oversensitive and sulks because I'm acting 'weird'. We're just going around in a circle ATM because I'm being a little odd then all he does (or so it feels) is criticise me then when I have a go saying that I don't want to listen to his critiques all the time and it might be nice if he'd say something complimentary he gets in a big sulk because I'm being 'funny' which then makes me mad because I'm the bad guy which just makes him even sulkier because I'm mad! I end up having to apologise for essentially having to deal with my disorder without any support from him which just makes it even more difficult to deal with! :mad: He's one of those people who are never ever in the wrong either. In his mind he's the victim and I've been completely unreasonable, snapping at him for 'no reason'. It's not fair! I wish we had hidden cameras so he could see/hear himself and the sheer number of negative comments that come out of his mouth, he'd be shocked I'm sure.

tea_lover

blacksta - AFAIC you can't BD too much.... if in doubt, give it another go .

tattoo - I did wonder about implantation bleeding but it didn't seem to fit what I was reading about. Plus I thought QQ would really tell me off for ss then!:rotfl:

Stomach feels weird - like a mix between AF cramps, that sort of washing-machine feeling you get with an upset stomach and stitch.

tattoo-

blacksta wrote: »

sigh

what is implantation bleed :eek:

http://www.askbaby.com/implantation-bleeding.htm