Trying for a Baby Part 7

mrsj28

ChocolateIsLife wrote: »

Happy Birthday Tinkwings :beer: Have a fantastic birthday weekend.
How did your OH get on at the hospital Lilymay?
Gorgeous dress Mrsj28, love the lace on it.

In some ways it's quite nice not knowing when / if I have ov'd this cycle and just going with the flow. Last cycle I drove myself absolutely nuts ss and was devastated when AF arrived, so I think I've learned my lesson!

Gynae called me today and they've decided on doing the operation he mentioned before, frozen section laparoscopy where they biopsy and get result during op. Not thrilled at the prospect of my second laparoscopy of 2012 but at least there's a plan in place.
Maybe a BFP will have sneeked in before though and no surgery for me!

Fingers crossed that BFP will indeed sneak in before! Sorry to hear you have to go through another lap, but as you say it's good there is a plan in place.

lilymay1 wrote: »

MrsJ - That dress is gorgeous. I Phase8 stuff, it's very me.

Are the sizes true to size? If I say I'm a 12, what size would you suggest I buy? I'm thinking about this one...

http://www.johnlewis.com/311612/Product.aspx#BVRRWidgetID

Oooh that's the other one I was considering! The size came up well - I'm usually an 8-10 (size 8 top, size 10 (or is it a 12 these days?) bum) and bought a size 8 - it's tight round my hips but I think it's meant to be.

Have a lovely weekend everybody... my new dress has just improved my Friday significantly

claretsgirl

Fingers crossed QQ and mrsj28. From my chart am I right in thinking I should be BDing around day CD13 onwards? I hope so because I have OH all to myself from next Friday to Monday (cricket allowing!). XXX

claretsgirl

Ooh! Forgot to say, gorgeous dress mrsj28. X

TTC40

QQuaver wrote: »

Hello folks:wave:

TTC40, it's a dilemma (to lap or not to lap):o
If I was you., then I'd do the lap privately and hope for the best (avoid IVF). That's if I knew for sure that lap will open up the tubes.
If it does, then it should be matter of time before you produce good eggy:cool:
It's just my opinion though, as I had 3 failed IVFs:o
Lilymay, your chart looks pretty normal to me, looks like you may be gearing up for ov:)
You should just take the first reading of the day for FF:)
Tinkwings, HAPPY BIRHTDAY!
:bdaycake:
Cupcakes looks delicious:p

The FS said there's a 90% chance of the lap being successful. I go on holiday in a couple of weeks so even privately it would be a month before I could do it - coming round to the idea.

Birdie85 wrote: »

:rotfl:

I think I'm gearing up to OV, I told OH that we're going to have to BD a couple of times this weekend and he groaned! I don't know, they moan when they don't get enough, moan when it's handed to them on a plate!

Second this. My OH said he wanted it every day - until it was on offer!

mrsj28 wrote: »

Abis got her BFP in March after she'd been pooed on by a seagull!!



Yep, going to wait until 14DPO - next Sunday. QQ could you add me to the testing list? I think I'll manage to hold out until then as I'm seeing my mum on 13DPO and if I have tested positive (probably wishful thinking...) I wouldn't be able to hide it from her.

Just had a delivery of the very nice dress I ordered for the work function next week.. it's gorgeous! [STRIKE]And obviously I wasn't pleased to note that it's quite stretchy so could accommodate a small bump[/STRIKE]... It's this one in case anybody is interested (I love showing off...)!!!

http://www.johnlewis.com/319450/Product.aspx?source=63258&sku=231498035

Not very :money: but it's an important function next week and I didn't have anything suitable!

Stunning dress

mrsj28

claretsgirl wrote: »

Fingers crossed QQ and mrsj28. From my chart am I right in thinking I should be BDing around day CD13 onwards? I hope so because I have OH all to myself from next Friday to Monday (cricket allowing!). XXX

Hi claretsgirl can you give us a link to your chart? Are you checking CM or using OPKs or anything like that to predict OV or just going on past cycle lengths?

If you are going for a more relaxed approach, you could just try to BD every 2-3 days during your cycle, and maybe a bit more often around the time you think you will ovulate.

Either way... enjoy next weekend's BDing

Thanks for all the lovely comments about my dress! Makes me feel great!

claretsgirl

Mrsj28, I'm trying to be relaxed about this whole thing but I don't think its going to happen. I just feel like time will run out for me if I don't get a move on. At the moment I'm going off past cycle lengths, but may start a less relaxed approach in a few months. I'm going to try and eat a bit better and cut down on drinking. That sounds awful - I only share a bottle of wine a couple of times a week! Every little helps, right? X

tattoo-

Happy Birthday Tink!

:bdaycake:

vesper

claretsgirl wrote: »

Fingers crossed QQ and mrsj28. From my chart am I right in thinking I should be BDing around day CD13 onwards? I hope so because I have OH all to myself from next Friday to Monday (cricket allowing!). XXX

Another cricket widow claretgirl? Mine tends to play both days at a weekend.

Another friend has just announced her pregnancy on facebook tonight, another friend that got married after us. Bit upset, but life goes on.
We were discussing palmistry tonight at work, and how you can see on your palm how many children you are going to have. I didn't dare look at mine incase I was having none.

QQuaver

Testing list

Saturday 21st April - Mrs Toast
Tuesday 24th April - Skintchick
Sunday 6th May - MrsJ28

April graduates- Winner of March BFP predictions (8) Mrs Happy:T

colli (30) TTC#1 since 12/10 (mc 06/11) BFP 02/04/12:j
mlbarrett (32) TTC#1 since 05/11 (mc 12/11) BFP 10/04/12:j
Aida (28) TTC#1 since 02/12 (1 mc) BFP 15/04/12:j
BezzyK (24) TTC#1 since 12/10 BFP 17/04/12:j


April BFP predictions

TTC40 - 8
vesper - 8
Squ1rrels - 8
tattoo - 9
mssas - 9
QQuaver - 9
lilymay - 9
mrsj28 - 10 (incl self & Tinkwings)
MrsHappy - 10
Aida - 10
Primmer - 10
maire1 - 11

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD43 skintchick - 30DPO :cool:
CD43 Mrs Toast - 22DPO :cool:
CD30 Leopardlady - 14DPO :cool:
CD26 Nicki - 11DPO :cool:
CD24 TTC40 - 10DPO :cool:
CD31 2ba3c - 10DPO :cool:
CD27 Sequeena - 10DPO :cool:
CD23 mogwai - 9DPO :cool:
CD23 Loulou123 - 8DPO :cool:
CD26 Flee - 8DPO :cool:
CD19 Primmer* - 7DPO :cool:
CD19 COMP - 7DPO :cool:
CD30 vesper - 6DPO :cool:
CD29 mrsj28 - 6DPO :cool:
CD16 Maire1 - 2DPO :cool:
CD17 i love holidays - 2DPO :cool:
CD17 Metranil Vavin - 1DPO :cool:
CD19 scarly* - 1DPO? :cool:

CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov
CD99 AbFab - Awaiting ov
CD95 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD94 Sammy_Girl - Awaiting ov
CD84 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD79 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD77 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD65 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD62 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD62 butterfly72 - Awaiting ov
CD58 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD58 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD51 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD47 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD41 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov
CD32 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD31 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD31 welshgirl - Awaiting ov
CD30 apple*pie - Awaiting ov
CD29 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD28 ChocolateIsLife - Awaiting ov
CD28 codemonkey - Awaiting ov
CD28 zcrat - Awaiting ov
CD27 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD26 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD24 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD24 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD21 babymonster2 - Awaiting ov
CD20 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD19 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD15 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD12 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD12 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD12 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov
CD11 good vibes - Awaiting ov
CD11 lilymay - Awaiting ov
CD11 time2deal - Awaiting ov
CD10 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD10 lulu75 - Awaiting ov
CD9 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD7 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov
CD7 olliesmummy - Awaiting ov
CD6 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD5 tattoo - Awaiting ov
CD3 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD3 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov
CD2 becca0417 - Awaiting ov


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart