Trying for a Baby Part 7

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD85 isla_red - 72DPO :cool:
CD71 Sammy_Girl - 58DPO :cool:
CD67 TeamLowe - 42DPO :cool:
CD? dibdabb - 36DPO :cool:
CD98 Athina - 15DPO :cool:
CD? Loulou123 - 14DPO :cool:
CD28 mogwai - 14DPO :cool:
CD29 TTC40 - 13DPO :cool:
CD37 mlbarret - 12DPO :cool:
CD33 COMP - 11DPO :cool:
CD21 Primmer* - 9DPO :cool:
CD22 dundeediva - 9DPO :cool:
CD23 Maire1 - 8DPO :cool:
CD23 i love holidays - 8DPO :cool:
CD20 skintchick - 7DPO :cool:
CD24 scarly* - 6DPO :cool:
CD15 mrshappy - 4DPO :cool:
CD19 Gizmodo - 4DPO :cool:
CD21 Aida - 3DPO :cool:
CD20 QQuaver* - 3DPO No eggs:cool:
CD14 time2deal - 2DPO :cool:
CD30 claire16c - 2DPO :cool:

CD88 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD84 BargainPrincess - Awaiting ov
CD76 AbFab - Awaiting ov
CD72 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD61 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD56 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD54 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD51 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD42 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD39 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD39 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD39 butterfly72 - Awaiting ov
CD35 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD35 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD32 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD29 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD28 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD28 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD26 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD24 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD22 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD21 Mrs Toast - Awaiting ov
CD18 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov
CD15 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD14 tattoo - Awaiting ov
CD13 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD12 lulu75 - Awaiting ov
CD9 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD8 2ba3c - Awaiting ov
CD8 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD8 welshgirl - Awaiting ov
CD7 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD7 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD6 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov
CD6 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD6 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD5 ChocolateIsLife - Awaiting ov
CD5 codemonkey - Awaiting ov
CD5 zcrat - Awaiting ov
CD4 Morocha - Awaiting ov
CD4 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD3 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD3 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD3 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD1 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

QQuaver

Good morning girls:wave:

mrsj28, ' Wobbly legs = poor clutch control...' :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Lilymay, (((hugs))).
Can't imagine giving birth then losing a baby at 3 days old:(
TTC40, whether it works or not, I love acupuncture:happyhear
Relaxing must play a role somehow for ttc:cool:
It's cheaper than IVF anyway:money:
vesper, I didn't know about giving up ttc for adoption. It's not like you are going to love the adopted child less if you have a baby of your own? Strange rules:huh:

fluffnutter

vesper wrote: »

Sorry I've been such a moaning !!!!!! recently. I just think it's the realisation that I've now been off the birth control (and by that I mean all birth control) for 9 years. And apart from one pregnancy (miscarriage) nothing has happened, and even that was 6 years ago now. The doctor will only count the time that we have been officially trying with opk's, timing and everything, not the time I've been ntnp. I know 6 months (of opks/ cbfm) isn't very long in ttc terms, but I still can't ignore in my head the ntnp times.

That's because they count! What a weird and unhelpful doctor you have. When I first went to see the quack, I just said we've been trying for about three years, most of which was simply having sex without contraception. I've never temped or checked my mucus or used opks.

No questions were asked about what 'trying' meant although we did speak about ovulation and fertile periods of the month. It was a great consultation and I was referred for fertility investigations immediately.

Subsequent tries of IVF eventually diagnosed the problem (poor egg quality) and it became clear that I'd have been incredibly unlikely to fall pregnant naturally. Six years is a long time, vesper. I know you're thinking about the adoption route at the moment, but even so, I don't think you've had very good support from your GP in terms of your own fertility.

And don't worry about moaning. That's what we're here for.

skintchick

lilymay1 you didn't upset me with your question Hun it's just that when I'm on my iPod like now it drives me mad to write too much!

[colli] congratulations! That's fantastic news

Sorry not to do loads of personals but see above! But I do have to say...seahorses?!?!?!

Afm I have very sore nipples but I think that is now normal for me as I've had it the last few months. One week down one to go.

Hugs to anyone who needs them x x

tea_lover

morning ladies,

vesper - I don't know what I'd do without having this place to moan in lately! Is there a different GP you can see? Surely they should be taking into account the whole time you've been having unprotected sex?

lilymay - am so sorry to hear about your daughter. Don't really know what else to say but am sending you lots of love.

mrsj28 - hugs for the post office trip. I do the same about imagining telling people, I have the parents and work scenarios word-perfect in my head.:o

QQuaver - hope your MIL's operation went/is going well.

AFM, feeling a bit low again today. Still no sign of ov or AF. Seems to be a struggle to get OH to DTD this week, and am really worried about work.

Have to decide whether to move to another site 50+ miles away (along the M6 around Birmingham, so not a great journey, would probably be a 3hr trip each day). Or I can wait and take redundancy in a few months (but really won't get much). Or I can start applying for other things now.

Just wish I had a crystal ball to see if I was going to be pg in that time (or ever!) If I knew I would be pg this year I'd hold on here and just take the mat leave then decide what to do later. But if it's not going to happen, or not for ages, I might as well apply for other jobs. Really don't want to get a new job and then get pg straight away. We're starting the individual consultations soon and I'm dreading it as I can't tell my boss and HR the reasons why I can't decide what to do. My poor head is spinning atm.

We've got our first appt with the FS on 1st May so hopefully that will shed some light on things.

fannyanna

Instead of posting to have a moan I’m posting to share some good news today (no, it’s not BFP good news – I wish ).

I got my hospital results last night and everything has come back clear :T. So I have another check-up in 6 months and then every year for the next 10 years.

Primmer

Fannyanna - that is great news you must be so pleased. I am on yearly smears due to treatment few years ago so know how great it feels to get clear results.

Tealover - no wonder your head is spinning, it would be great to have a crystal ball and look into the future - hugs

Did anyone watch OBEM last night, there were a couple on there that had been ttc for over 5 years and got their BFP naturally - not that I want to wait that long but it gave me hope.

mssas

Hi ladies hope ur all ok

Had a hospital appoint yesterday had to see the specialist regarding my hs and basically he doesn't know what to do with me now as long term antibiotics never worked and neither has two ops an he said also that without removing the whole of both armpits breasts thighs an below!! it will never go away but in the next breath he said I'm not prepared to do such extensive surgery so now he's flumaxed! Also got rushed straight upto the breast ward for a scan and they found that the hs is now in my right breast so got to go in in 2 weeks time for op to remove the lump but the rest of the scan was clear so some good news
He also said to go and get tested for pcos as the hs can cause that so will b going to my docs after the bank hol. And then he said oh in my opinion the disease usually burns itself out when ppl are 50!! Wow only another 25 yrs to go then lol

Hugs to all who need them
Oh and have realised hobby n I have been ttc since our wedding in 2009 and in 3 years I've managed to fall pg twice both ending in mc so hopefully the docs will shed some light

Sorry for such a long post

mssas

Should say hubby not hobby!! stupid phone

Birdie85

That's great news Fannyanna!

Sorry that your news isn't great Mssas, hope they figure out what to do with you.

I saw OBEM Primmer, it was lovely that after so many years trying they got their baby. The young girl was really sweet too, getting upset because she wasn't being brave enough! Bless her The 'One Year On' show should be interesting

Hugs for TeaLover and Vesper, sounds like you both need them