Trying for a Baby Part 7

mrsj28

zcrat41 wrote: »

MrsJ28 - hope you get some good new in your life soon. Sounds to me like you very much deserve some.

Think these nice words are for mrshappy, not for me

mrs_dave

Very long time missing in action poster, must be months since I last was here although I lurk everyday to catch everyone's news. We said at the beginning of our journey that we would give it a year and for various reasons nothing has happened which to be honest I expected so for me, my journey has now ended. QQ, please can you remove me from your lists

I wish that I could turn back the clock and have tried ttc much earlier in life but hey, things never turn out how we would like. I will still lurk and be cheering everyone on but a tiny part of me will be sad that I'll never know the joy of my own little one.

Anyway, I have a brand CBFM with sticks that I have hardly used, I think I turned it on once :eek::o that I would love to send to a good home so if anyone is interested send me a PM. At the moment it's just gathering dust and I would hope someone can make good use of it.

Good wishes to everyone that your dreams WILL come true :j

mrshappy

mrs_dave-I hope you are okay It is horrible when your dreams don't come true, sending you big hugs-I am still in the denial stage even though deep down I'm sure I know we won't ever have our baby thinking of you xx

Candlewax

Sa-ra-ra-ra so sorry for your loss. I have had a mc and ectopic pregnancy and it is devastating, sending you hugs x

mrs_dave I am so sorry that your journey has come to an end x

AFM I am on CD 34 today and no AF. I'm not pregnant. the surgery for the ectopic pregnancy has eriously messed up my cycle. i'm not even convinced i oved this month.

Two of our family members have also announced they are pregnant and a couple of people at work are ttc so they probably won't be long. I know its PMT but i'm feeling so sad and angry today that others find it so bloomin easy to not only get pregnant but stay pregnant. When for us it is far from easy. I am happy for them, but a small (terrible) part of me is also so envious it hurts!

Sorry to bring such a downer, rant over. Sorry x

Secretdebts

time2deal wrote: »

Has anyone seen secrets around recently? Good to see BZ back, but secrets seems to have disappeared...

mrsj28 wrote: »

Also wondering where secrets has got to? Hope everything is ok.

bigzippy wrote: »

Btw, To the folks asking about secrets, she did say she was stepping back from this thread for a little while...

:wave: love you guys!!! Nothing to report here - I'm trying to take things slowly & waiting for ov.

Congrats to Lemonmelon & hugs to those who need them xxx

Flee_2

Hi Secrets glad to see you are still lurking and still with a sense of humour.

zcrat41

mrsj28 wrote: »

Think these nice words are for mrshappy, not for me

Sorry! Too many mrs on these forums:o

claire16c

Sa-ra-ra-ra I just saw your post and sort of gasped when I saw it. I feel so sad for you and I almost feel pathetic saying that because I dont even know you, and I cant even begin to imagine how you feel, but I was so happy for you when you got pg again on here after your 2nd mc, and I cant believe you are back on here. I really wish you didnt have to be. Huge hugs, I really wish it works out for you next time.

bigzippy

mrshappy wrote: »

BZ-is it okay if I Pm you? What he probably has is very unusual in young people and I'm trying not to be too identifiable!

We have looked into going private, it would be around £1000 just to see if there are any swimmers in the testes, which I imagine would be rather uncomfortable for mrh, then if there were it would be about £4000 for retrevial and storage, then around £4-5000 per IVF. The sensible part of me is really struggling with spending that (which we don't have lying around) to have huge debt and a baby, or having huge debt and nothing to show for it :eek:

of course it's ok!

I can understand the conundrum...tough choices...can't believe it's so expensive

mrs_dave wrote: »

Very long time missing in action poster, must be months since I last was here although I lurk everyday to catch everyone's news. We said at the beginning of our journey that we would give it a year and for various reasons nothing has happened which to be honest I expected so for me, my journey has now ended. QQ, please can you remove me from your lists

I wish that I could turn back the clock and have tried ttc much earlier in life but hey, things never turn out how we would like. I will still lurk and be cheering everyone on but a tiny part of me will be sad that I'll never know the joy of my own little one.

Anyway, I have a brand CBFM with sticks that I have hardly used, I think I turned it on once :eek::o that I would love to send to a good home so if anyone is interested send me a PM. At the moment it's just gathering dust and I would hope someone can make good use of it.

Good wishes to everyone that your dreams WILL come true :j

Sorry to hear this mrs dave. I can't remember your reasons for the time frame, but I'm sorry to hear you didn't get what you wanted from this year

I'll pm you about the cbfm

Candlewax, I wondered where you'd got to... Hope you're feeling more positive soon. I can't pretend to know how you feel, but we're here for you

Secretdebts wrote: »

:wave: love you guys!!!

:wave:

carolan0_0

Hi everyone,

Thank you for your reassuring responses last week - I just wanted to keep you updated.

I've continued doing the cheap internet tests over the weekend and they have continued getting darker and this evening I have done another clear blue digital with conception one and it now says 2-3 weeks, I've also spoken to the doctor again today and he is arranging for a scan next week when I will possibly **hopefully** be around 6 weeks.

I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much, but fingers crossed, it is looking good at the moment. I did speak to the doctor about having bloods taken but as I'm only a week or so away from having an early scan, it was decided not to, mainly because over the past few years for various reasons I've had lots of blood taken, they can never get my veins, I always serious bruise and swell up.

Thanks again.

Carolan xxx