Trying for a Baby Part 7

mrsj28

Hi - I've just started temping this month and using fertility friend to chart (the geek in me loves a good old spreadsheet... so this chart malarky is right up my street it turns out!!).

Could somebody explain how I can share the link to my FF page? Thanks!

Flee_2

DPO11 today and no sign of a BFP. Really feel like AF is on the way and feeling useless atm.
I am starting to hate TTCing and I am going to have a break for a couple of months.

QQ can you change my test date to 2nd March which is what FF is showing as my test date.

Flee_2

mrsj28 wrote: »

Hi - I've just started temping this month and using fertility friend to chart (the geek in me loves a good old spreadsheet... so this chart malarky is right up my street it turns out!!).

Could somebody explain how I can share the link to my FF page? Thanks!

Underneath your chart there are eight buttons, click the last one "Share" and the copy the link.

fannyanna

Sa-ra-ra-ra - really sorry to hear your news but pleased that they're able to look into things for you (although that of course doesn't make it all ok) x x x x

mrsj28

Thanks, Flee.

Here is the link to my chart (not very interesting reading at the moment!!). QQ, could you add it to my name on the first page?

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/38ff31

bigzippy

QQuaver wrote: »

Good morning:wave:
I haven't ov'd yet (no temp rise), but have ewcm.
I'm off again, will be back late Wednesday:o

Littlezee, hang in there:o I'm not sure what's happening to MIL, but she's still in the hospital.

I thought you weren't temping or anything QQ! :rotfl:

How can you cope having such little info?:huh: It would do my head in I hope she's better soon though, and that DH isn't too worried

Good luck with the SA test TTC40

Happy Birthday 2b :beer:

mrshappy wrote: »

:wave:
Good morning. apologies for being awol the last week or so, I have been lurking, but not really in the right frame of mind to post. As I was trying to get my head round the info from our FS appt my son has been diagnosed with a chronic illness, my mums cancer has more than likely returned and my gran is very ill in hospital I'm still trying to deal with the fact that we cannot get any fertility help on the nhs-if mrh was with someone who didn't already have children he would get sorted, but as I already have one we won't get anything, but like I say I was dealing with it when the other stuff just floored me.

Poor you MrsH. No wonder you're struggling! Do you mind me asking what your son's been dx with? I hope you guys are wrong about your mum's cancer and that your gran recovers quickly and that you all have a sense of peace right now.

Have you managed to look into how you might be able to investigate the fertility issue privately? Is that an option?

Sa-ra-ra-ra wrote: »

I'm back again... again. We had our 12 week scan on the 15th and it showed a missed miscarriage from about 9 weeks, so I had an ERPC and I suppose am back on the TTC list. Again. For the third time.

So sorry to hear this sa-ra I can't imagine how you guys are feeling, but I'm really hoping the mc clinic will be able to find the cause(s) and help you fix them swiftly and painlessly


AFM, not done an opk today (though I don't think they work for me tbh) but cervix higher and softer and more stretchy cm... we'll see how long this lasts for. I need to get the CD21 blood test done this cycle, if I can find the form!, so let's home I ov this time first and it shows on the test...

tea_lover

How can I get AF here when it's refusing to start? Just want this mammoth cycle over so I can start again with a new month but no luck so far. It doesn't even feel close, none of the usual pre-AF signs.

Anyone got any good tips for kicking AF up the @rse and getting things moving??

TeamLowe

Tea Lover, i've been given norithisterone (or however it's spelt) to take for five days to get a withdrawal bleed to kickstart a new cycle, don't know of any non perscribed methods though x x

zcrat41

MrsJ28 - hope you get some good new in your life soon. Sounds to me like you very much deserve some.

Sa-ra-ra-ra - I'm very sorry to hear your news. Hope they can help you guys quickly and easily.

Happy Birthday 2B Hope you are having a lovely day

Not much to report here. 4dpo and way more relaxed about things than my last 2 cyles. Because I've convinced myself it doesn't really matter this month....it doesn't! I obviously just need to book a ski holiday at the end of each one of my cycles and I'll be fine!

Helps that work is getting a bit busier for me, winter can be pretty slack and I've been out in the glorious sunshine this weekend with the sounds, sights and smells around me.

mrshappy

QQuaver wrote: »

MrsH, (((hugs))) for your son, mum & gran:(
Perhaps you could find out how much it'll cost to get fertility help for your DH?

bigzippy wrote: »

Poor you MrsH. No wonder you're struggling! Do you mind me asking what your son's been dx with? I hope you guys are wrong about your mum's cancer and that your gran recovers quickly and that you all have a sense of peace right now.

Have you managed to look into how you might be able to investigate the fertility issue privately? Is that an option?

BZ-is it okay if I Pm you? What he probably has is very unusual in young people and I'm trying not to be too identifiable!

We have looked into going private, it would be around £1000 just to see if there are any swimmers in the testes, which I imagine would be rather uncomfortable for mrh, then if there were it would be about £4000 for retrevial and storage, then around £4-5000 per IVF. The sensible part of me is really struggling with spending that (which we don't have lying around) to have huge debt and a baby, or having huge debt and nothing to show for it :eek:

Thanks all for your kind words-again:o
Happy Birthday 2b
so sorry to hear your news sa-ra-ra-ra, sending hugs

Hope everyone is having a nice Monday x