Trying for a Baby Part 7

ikkle87

Sorry if I've not responded to anyone, I have only skim read. Trying to make arrangements for SIL to come up from Gosport (sp) so she can say goodbye.

Thank you for your well wishes and thoughts.

2ba3c

QQuaver wrote: »

CBFM stick has two sides, non absorbent shiny side and absorbent fabric looking side.
Some pee on the shiny side and gets no line, and CBFM confuses it with High:o

Can you see the lines? Is the usual control line looking one lighter than usual? Then that means High:)

High = when the line furthest from the pee end is lighter (high estrogen).
Peak = when the pee end line is dark (high LH).

Huh?!!!!????!!!!

I dip my sticks, as per the instructions - I didnt see anything about 2 sides?!

2ba3c

(((Ikkle)))
QQ - Greast news re your LH!
Nicki - agree re Amanda Holden, I am so suprised it didnt' leak out how critical she was.

I am SO impatient to get going again, having a month off.

DW is still away for work, I've done a full day at the job I thought I would love, but now hate (makes me so sad to type that), fed and bathed DS, and 2 dogs (not together) as he is doing a show and tell tomorrow, with the dogs and they are STINKY! Sorry, WERE stinky!

I am lounging on the sofa with no plan to move from here for at least 3 hours, catching up on Got to Dance (my fave show at the moment, and have a MAD crush on Ashley Banjo, which is odd considering I am gay!)

countrybum

oh, ikkle, I am so sorry, it must be so difficult for you. Its obviously for your dh too, sometimes men find it so difficult to deal with their emotions. Be strong for each other xxxx

Definitely_blonde

Just caught up on the last few days!

Congraulations Borokat :jand Canycane :j- that means that I am currently winning the predictions (jointly with kavics) however I would be delighted if I lost as it would mean more BFP in the next week. I can't believe how quickly I have become addicted to this thread, although I don't know any of you IRL (that I know of anyway ) I can honestly say the level of support is fantastic.


Hugs Ikkle – thinking about you and your family

Hugs for CD1 Merfe and countrybum

Good luck for Friday QQ

countrybum

bigz - yea, I'm the one on clomid! I'm finding it ok, no side effects to speak of, just 'feel' ov more (bit like period pains). Just not having the desired end result!!!

Primmer

Ickle - ((hugs)) so sorry for you and DH, men do react differently and all you can do is be there for him. Sorry about your work too, that is all you need.

Watching OBEM and crying my eyes out, when they say at the beginning that the midwifes cry you know it's going to be a bad one! X

bigzippy

ikkle87 wrote: »

She was awake when he first turned up, and then as she was struggling to hear he said shall I talk to Danielle and she said who is that and then went to sleep. I've tried to explain that she needs to fight and try and eat and drink the Complan we got her but she just drifts off into nowhere or asleep.

Oh asked why I was upset and I said do you not understand what they just said and he said yeah and i said it's the end babe they can't make her better and he came home and played xbox.

Have since spoken to the gp and it's a matter of weeks now he's recommended she doesn't have the liver biopsy as he says it is just putting her through more and won't make a difference.

And work are sending me to disciplinary for time off because i can't take it as unpaid dependancy leave as i am not a blood relative.

Sounds grim I deeply suspect this is how OH will deal with it. My DH explained that when his dad died he spent all his energy just keeping going, blocking it out or bottling it up, until a while down the line, when the crisis has passed and things have settled and things feel safe enough, that's when he confronted/dealt with/felt his feelings about it at that point. Nicki may be right... It might be weeks for your MIL, unfortunately, but for you guys the fallout will stretch into a very tough few months

As for work, I would consider asking your doctor to sign you off sick with stress as a result of all of this - get it back dated to whenever you started with time off... that could get work off your case. If you leave it as it is, unless you have previous marks on your record, I doubt they would do more than a formal/written warning?

skintchick

QQuaver wrote: »

Nephthys (36) TTC#2 since 09/11 (1mc) BFP 23/01/12:j
borokat TTC#1 since 12/11 BFP 24/01/12:j
candycane (32) TTC#1 since 10/11 BFP 25/01/12:j

Congratulations you guys!!


Hugs for Countrybum and Merfe for CD1

Good luck for Friday QQ

Vesper, IMO CD12 is too early to test reliably, I never get a result till much later than that (although I am a bit odd, I have more of a 3ww). If I were you, I'd try to wait till monday.

Ikkle, I am so sorry to hear that, it sounds horrendously tough for you, especially as your OH is dealing with it in his own unique way. Try not to bear everyone else's grief on your shoulders, just focus on yourself and let everyone else deal with it in their own way. I know it's hard, but maybe your OH needs to xBox his way through this for now.

AFM, I have a lot of CM today although not EW, so I am assuming I am OVing and we are going to DTD every night till my spa weekend. I will definitely start temping after this, just finding life so hard right now making myself do even that little thing feels way too much to cope with.

QQ, please put me as OVing today on the list, thank you.

mishkanorman

2ba3c wrote: »

(((Ikkle)))
QQ - Greast news re your LH!
Nicki - agree re Amanda Holden, I am so suprised it didnt' leak out how critical she was.

I am SO impatient to get going again, having a month off.

DW is still away for work, I've done a full day at the job I thought I would love, but now hate (makes me so sad to type that), fed and bathed DS, and 2 dogs (not together) as he is doing a show and tell tomorrow, with the dogs and they are STINKY! Sorry, WERE stinky!

I am lounging on the sofa with no plan to move from here for at least 3 hours, catching up on Got to Dance (my fave show at the moment, and have a MAD crush on Ashley Banjo, which is odd considering I am gay!)

just sneaking in to say omg that man is fit as :rotfl: cannot blame you for having him on your 'would do' list


congrats to the recent bfp's :T