Trying for a Baby Part 7

mintedby30?

Claire, I read the article about Beyonce, it's so true that you don't know what someone has gone through in their journey to have a baby. I remember at a friends wedding in 2009 asking a couple if hey had children. A few months later the friend who's wedding it was told some of us that this couple had just had a failed round of IVF, they're in their late 20's and that the wife had gone through the menopause at 22!

Since then I've completely stopped idly asking people if they have family, when they're going to try for family etc. I figure if they want you to know they'll tell you. I've also been with my best friend (who had a stillborn baby girl) when she's met someone she hasn't seen for a while and they're full of questions rather than just saying they are sorry to hear what happened and letting her tell them as much as she feels able to/ wants to on that particular day.

I know some people are very open when they suffer a loss and I suppose with miscarriage etc that's good in a way as it highlights the issue and doesn't shut it away which can be the hardest thing for those who have suffered a loss.

Anyway, am chuffed for Beyonce and her family. Has anyone else listened to the song on YouTube? It's fab but if you're hormonal or just a wimp like me you may need tissues!!

Just got kicked off net and when I signed back on and refreshed I can see a BFP congrats!!

Congratulations Kittycat 1977!!

Don't want to be too premature or presumptuous but I have a feeling I am going to get a phone call later telling me my big sis is preg!! Too long/ boring a story to go into if she's not but will report back!

mintedby30?

Candy- grrr at the self important snooty receptionist who clearly has to patronise patients to put a bit of excitement in her day!!

It was an important question, I'd have checked!!

I'll try and let my anger on your behalf override my jealousy at your amazing sounding holiday!!!

Xx

QQuaver

Testing list

Mon 9th Jan - Kavics
Tue 10th Jan - cmills16
Thu 12th Jan - Sirish1979
Friday 13th Jan - mishkanorman
Tuesday 24th Jan - Candycane

January graduates- Winner of Dec BFP predictions (10) Squirrels:T

The Next Verse (28) TTC#2 since 06/11 BFP 03/01/12:j
Elelyn (33) TTC#1 since 08/11 BFP 06/01/12:j
emsbet (31) TTC#1 since 04/11 (2mcs) BFP 07/01/12:j
kittycat1977 (34) TTC#1 since 10/11 BFP 09/01/12:j
Kitten_pie TTC#1 since 12/11 (mc 10/11) BFP 10/01/12:j


January BFP predictions

Snowy - 7
QQuaver - 8
Squ1rrels - 8
TTC40 - 9
Maire - 9
GorkyPark - 9
Birdie - 9
Vesper - 10
DefinitelyBlonde - 11 (ideally incl self)
Kavics - 11
Secretdebts - 12
MrsJ28 - 12
AbFab - all

Kitten_Pie

Possible Hypothetical question.
If someone was to have a tlp or dark eval line how soon can they do a clearblue? would it have to be fmu the next day or can it be done later and still be accurate?

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD96 Tryingforathird - 78DPO :cool:
CD80 trixietoes - 66DPO :cool:
CD? Tigerlilly - 65DPO :cool:
CD64 Squ1rrel5 - 41DPO? :cool:
CD31 skintchick - 17DPO :cool:
CD34 kavics17 - 15DPO :cool:
CD27 Maire1 - 12DPO :cool:
CD32 QQuaver* - 12DPO (no egg)
CD30 i love holidays - 12DPO :cool:
CD24 Snowy - 11DPO :cool:
CD25 cleofish - 10DPO :cool:
CD40 scarly* - 9DPO :cool:
CD23 Nicki - 8DPO :cool:
CD41 claire16c - 8DPO :cool:
CD21 TTC40 - 7DPO :cool:
CD19 sexymouse* - 6DPO :cool:
CD24 Mintedby30 - 6DPO :cool:
CD19 GorkyPark - 4DPO :cool:
CD43 Nephthys - 2DPO :cool:
CD? Borokat - 2DPO :cool:
CD30 candycane - 2DPO? :cool:
CD18 AbFab - 2DPO? :cool:
CD14 Primmer* - 2DPO :cool:
CD23 TeamLowe - 1DPO :cool:

CD96 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD74 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD65 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD62 Picklepick - Awaiting ov
CD60 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD56 isla_red - Awaiting ov
CD49 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD48 Secret debt girl - Awaiting ov
CD48 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD45 alamaya - Awaiting ov
CD32 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD28 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD27 2ba3c - Awaiting ov
CD25 cmills - Awaiting ov
CD23 mishkanorman - Awaiting ov
CD20 Scottishchick27 - Awaiting ov
CD19 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD19 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov
CD18 penguin83 - Awaiting ov
CD18 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD17 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD17 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD17 Birdie85 - Awaiting ov
CD14 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD14 ikkle87 - Awaiting ov
CD14 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD13 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD12 Athina - Awaiting ov
CD7 Bigzippy* - Awaiting ov
CD6 time2deal - Awaiting ov
CD6 mrshappy - Awaiting ov
CD6 moneypuddle - Awaiting ov
CD5 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD4 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov
CD4 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD3 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD3 LittleMoog - Awaiting ov
CD2 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)

QQuaver

Hello everyone:wave:
Sorry for being MIA yesterday, had to go to the hospital for MIL, she is still undecided whether to do the heart op or not:o

Sexymouse, thank you for the lists:wave:
:rotfl:at the sperm donor volunteering:D
Mishka, how are you?
Gorky, how is your cross stitch going? What does it look like?
I did one of our parents house once, it was very enjoyable, but haven't done any more since:o
cleofish, African dance or not, no SSing
Kittycat, congratulations!!!
I think operation CC has gone well, and we are on schedule for a bumper month:)
Birdie, DH had an hernia op when he was very young, and seems that was the cause for his very low count and high number of abnormal sperm:( Seems something went amiss (tied some important tube?) when they did the op, but we didn't find out until he had the tests.

No cure, only ICSI (like IVF, but injecting the sperm directly to the egg) is the only course for us. Although miracles do happen so it's not zero % for natural conception:o

If you are concerned, your OH should have a Sperm Analysis to see if everything is OK down there.
Secretdebts, massive hugs for CD1:(

I think you are supposed to take folic acid throughout the pregnancy;)
Well done for the PMA list, the AF room looks great:T
Twigglets, massive hugs to you too:(

Good luck at your blood test:o
borokat, which CD are you?:) Are you 2DPO?
Candycane, welcome:wave:
I've added you to the first page, let me know if you'd like it changed:)
DibDabb, so sorry to see you back:(
Hope you'll get your forever baby very soon.
Skintchick, some say embryos that grows slower (late implantation) tends to be not as strong as faster growing ones, but it's not a rule.
Flee, mad hormones does not necessarily mean menopause:o
MERFE, welcome back:wave:
Kitten_pie, hypothetically, I'd save the next day's FMU, and do a normal test, and if tlp, do a digi:cool:

Kitten_Pie

I tried to wait honest but then thought what would secretdebts do. And well:



Question now is, how do I tell OH? Considering sending an email with the picture attached.

LittleMoog

Eeeek! :j congratulations KittenPie! that's brilliant news

Birdie85

Ahhhh fab news KittenPie! :j

Secretdebts

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

I tried to wait honest but then thought what would secretdebts do. And well:



Question now is, how do I tell OH? Considering sending an email with the picture attached.

Was just about to reply to your last post with the answer 7 mins. You must have had a psychic moment. HUUGGHHH mahussive congrats!!!!!!!!!!! So happy for you xxxx