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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Testing list

    Sat 10th Dec - kittycat1977
    Sat 24st Dec - Flee
    24th or 25th Dec - vesper

    December graduates- Winners of Nov BFP predictions (8) GemmaE, Twigglet35 & Squirrels:T

    GemmaE (28) TTC#2 since 04/11 BFP 03/12/11:j
    Bufger TTC#2 since 11/11 BFP 07/12/11:j
    jen77 (34) TTC#1 since 11/11 BFP 11/12/11:j
    Student_Mrs (22) TTC#1 since 10/11 BFP 18/12/11:j
    i luv freebies TTC#1 since 08/11 (stillborn 07/11) BFP 19/12/11:j
    Sa-ra-ra-ra (26) TTC#1 since 05/11 (mc 09/11) BFP 21/12/11:j
    WPB (32) TTC#1 since 06/10 (1 mc 06/11) BFP 28/11/11:j
    Maddie_s (26) TTC#1 since 07/11 BFP 24/12/11:j



    December BFP predictions

    Birdie85 - 7
    Maire1 - 8
    Ikkle87 - 8
    vesper - 8
    MrsHappy - 9
    mrsj28 - 9
    Secretdebts - 9
    Sexymouse - 9
    Sa-ra-ra-ra - 9 (ideally incl self)
    Squ1rrel5 - 10
    TTC40 - 11
    QQuaver - 12
    Twigglet35 - 12
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Team Sticky!

    CD82 Tryingforathird - 64DPO :cool:
    CD80 T-sil - ?DPO :cool:
    CD66 trixietoes - 52DPO :cool:
    CD? Tigerlilly - 51DPO :cool:
    CD53 Birdie85 - 37DPO :cool:
    CD50 Squ1rrel5 - 27DPO? :cool:
    CD98 b_girl - 24DPO :cool:
    CD34 vesper - 17DPO :cool:
    CD34 GorkyPark - 16DPO :cool:
    CD35 Flee - 16DPO :cool:
    CD28 Bezzyk - 15DPO :cool:
    CD24 Primmer* - 14DPO :cool:
    CD20 twigglet35 - 8DPO :cool:
    CD17 mrshappy - 7DPO :cool:
    CD19 time2deal - 6DPO :cool:
    CD20 mrsj28 - 4DPO :cool:
    CD23 Elelyn - 4DPO :cool:
    CD17 skintchick - 3DPO :cool:
    CD20 emsbet - 2DPO? :cool:
    CD27 claire16c - 2DPO? :cool:
    CD14 tinkwings - 0DPO :cool:
    CD18 QQuaver* - +OPK :cool:

    CD86 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov :o
    CD82 countrybum - Awaiting ov :o
    CD73 fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD67 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov :o
    CD60 Candlewax - Awaiting ov :o
    CD56 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD54 teaandcakeordeath - Awaiting ov :o
    CD51 morocha - Awaiting ov :o
    CD48 Picklepick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD47 kittycat1977 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD46 2 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD42 isla_red - Awaiting ov :o
    CD40 Tea lover - Awaiting ov :o
    CD36 ikkle87 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD35 DibDabb - Awaiting ov :o
    CD35 mssas - Awaiting ov :o
    CD35 pokey128 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD34 Secret debt girl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD34 Derby2 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD31 alamaya - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 Nephthys - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 scarly* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 The Next Verse - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 kavics17 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 Kitten_pie - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 Bigzippy* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 i love holidays - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 Maire1 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 2ba3c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Snowy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 mishkanorman - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Nicki - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8TTC40 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Scottishchick27 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 sexymouse* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 AbFab - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 penguin83 - Awaiting ov :o

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Hello everyone:wave:

    I did a CBFM this morning and no hint of a LH line, but the blood test few hours later at the clinic said I've surged:shocked: I mentioned -OPK, and they said it takes time for LH to reach to the urine, and blood test catches it earlier.

    So off to get the egg out tomorrow:shocked: Fingers crossed they can reach it, and get it out in time & it's good enough:o

    I was told it takes 36hrs after the surge to ov, so with OPK, it may be earlier;)

    Penguin, hugs for AF during Christmas:o
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    Hope 2012 is the year for all of us:)
    sexymouse, hope Moon's man flu is better. LOL about Irish cream and charade skills:D
    Mrsj28, hope you caught the eggy:)
    Gizmodo & Scottishchick27, hugs for AF too:(
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    Let's make 2012 Olympic baby:beer:
    emsbet, hope you'll have a great forever Super baby:j
    Hope your cold won't stay though, unless it's SS:D
    Nicki, :shocked: at your MIL & FIL:mad:
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    QQ - fingers crossed for tomorrow, I really hope it is successful for you.

    Emsbet - hugs hope cold symptoms disappear

    Nicki - hugs for insensitive fil :mad: that is an awful thing to say.

    14 dpo here but no sign of af, hopefully it won't be too late as need to book first blood test between cd2 to cd5

    Hugs to all who need them, good luck for everyone planning occ or onyc
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    Good luck tomorrow QQ. I am off to catch a flight in a few hours and may not get much chance to check the thread for a few days though will have my phone with me. Will be thinking of you though and keeping my fingers crossed.
  • Elelyn
    Elelyn Posts: 338 Forumite
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    Just wanted to say good luck for tomorrow QQ.
  • Kitten_Pie
    Kitten_Pie Posts: 1,961 Forumite
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    Elelyn wrote: »
    Just wanted to say good luck for tomorrow QQ.

    Good Luck, Hope it all goes well.
    Overdraft = £1000 Emergency fund = £2500
    Competition wins 2015 = £1400
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    :D Naomi Lily born 28th August 2012 :D Lachlan Georg born 4th October 2013 :D
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  • fannyanna
    fannyanna Posts: 2,622 Forumite
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    Well I didn’t get round to posting about my appointment before Christmas – which is probably a good thing for you ladies as I would have gone on and on.

    In short he’s blamed the sudden non stop bleeding on my weight which is a bit odd as my weight hasn’t changed and the bleeding started following the removal of the cells from my cervix. He’s convinced that’s what it is but took a biopsy of my womb to check the cells (I think to make me feel as though he has considered other possibilities). He then basically went on to lecture me about my weight and said I wouldn’t conceive, if I did I would miscarry, if I didn’t I’d have an awful pregnancy and labour (obviously he didn’t come out and say it quite like that but it was clear that in his opinion I am being irresponsible in trying for a baby). I wouldn’t mind but the purpose of my appointment wasn’t about my fertility but about the non stop bleeding. So I have spent the Christmas period very emotional and keep breaking down into tears.

    I’m also getting really, really fed up with people telling me that I shouldn’t be upset about struggling to conceive as I’m only young. If one more person tells me that I’m likely to tell them to take a run and jump (but with swear words involved lol).

    We have a family gathering today and one of my cousins has been trying for a baby for a while and has unfortunately suffered a few miscarriages. In a way I was kind of dreading seeing her but I’ve just been told that she’s pregnant. Now on the one hand I’m delighted for her (as she really has been though the mill and certainly deserves a bit of happiness) but I’ve still ended up in tears. I’m just glad that I found out now rather than later (with a house full of people).

    Anyway, I’m seriously considering giving up the whole TTC idea for a while. I feel as though I’m slowly driving myself mental, I cry all the time and in reality it quite simply is not going to happen in the short term. My Husband needs to have his operation re-done before we can even BD and I have absolutely no idea what is going on with my bits and bobs (and I don’t feel as if I’m going to find out anytime soon). I think it’s likely that I’m going to end up back on the contraceptive pill just to control the bleeding. So I don’t know!
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    HUgs Fannyanna

    Good Luck Tomorrow QQ

    Operation CC is on it's last day here lots of action !!!!!
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    NICKI - Hugs can't believe your FIL said that. xxxxxx Families ...................
    If you can think it........it will happen
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