Depression

Miroslav

kronas wrote:

hey miro, i know im saddened by the fact that she seems to have distanced herself, the samething in that respect has happened to me, i still sometimes get dreams of the girl i love, even if i dont really think about her, not as much as i used to.....

the point of my post is you need to move on, yes it hurts, it hurt me so much for a long time, life goes on, she will progress in life and so will you, you need to take opportunities to create new freinds, you will make them, but you have to control your feelings, for a while it was hard for me, so many people gave me a lot of advice but ignored them for a long time...

then i suddenly woke up and said, why am i feeling sad ? what have i lost ? nothing that i didnt have before, yes you may love someone but you will always find someone else, you just dont go looking for it or wait, you just 'be natural' in life when it comes to finding a girlfreind/ partner, you have to build bridges to make new friends and continue with existing ones.

these days there is a lot of pressure i feel on young people who want relationships, but i say this, relationships come and go, but your life also goes on too, so why sit around and mope all day and night, why have that feeling of disappointment, hurt and non-fulfiment, GET OUT AND DO THINGS, it really does help, the most important thing to remember is 'time is a great healer'

It is sad, because I know she wanted to be with me just as much. The 5 hours she relaxed with me after we got 'together' - My flatmate and I had never seen her so happy. Her worries had been put to the back of her mind and she was so so happy.

I know I need to move on, and I will, but in time.

I just feel I will never meet anyone again, not someone who liked me and not the way I look etc etc

I just need that thing called time........maybe a long time, but one day, I hope someone who wants me, will stick around.

Miroslav

Sorry for my abscence and lack of replies. I'm not strong enough right now. I can only deal with one thing (I'm a man!)

Best wishes to you all.

Miro

Tiff_2

Miro angel - I admire you so much and I'm sorry you're hurting so much. You seem to have gained an insight into the reality of what life is with s hun. Give yourself time hun and force yourself to have a little faith - you've got a great adventure in front of you miro. I know we all have times when we get tired of travelling angel, but it's part of getting better ourselves and it will be so worth it.
If nothing else from your relationship with s, from all the pain, you have been shown how strong you are and that other people really like you hun. This is your silver lining hun - don't let the darkness put it out.
I'm thinking of you miro and sending virtual Tiffy hugs.

To the rest of our family, I'm sorry for the lack of posts - I'm trying to post when I can and I do care about you ALL. Thanks for the pms qb. My mum is very, very ill in hospital and Tiff's working on emergency power right now. I hope you understand and believe I'm thinking of you. Hopefully try and post tomorrow if I can. You're wonderful people.
Now behave yourselves!:D :rolleyes:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Miroslav

Tiff wrote:

Miro angel - I admire you so much and I'm sorry you're hurting so much. You seem to have gained an insight into the reality of what life is with s hun. Give yourself time hun and force yourself to have a little faith - you've got a great adventure in front of you miro. I know we all have times when we get tired of travelling angel, but it's part of getting better ourselves and it will be so worth it.
If nothing else from your relationship with s, from all the pain, you have been shown how strong you are and that other people really like you hun. This is your silver lining hun - don't let the darkness put it out.
I'm thinking of you miro and sending virtual Tiffy hugs.

To the rest of our family, I'm sorry for the lack of posts - I'm trying to post when I can and I do care about you ALL. Thanks for the pms qb. My mum is very, very ill in hospital and Tiff's working on emergency power right now. I hope you understand and believe I'm thinking of you. Hopefully try and post tomorrow if I can. You're wonderful people.
Now behave yourselves!:D :rolleyes:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

I just don't want 'S' out of my life. I have this thing about me where I need to look after people, particuarly females, possibly because of my daughter, it's a kind of fatherly thing about me.

'S' is a pain in the backside. Bad manners, childish, frustrated, angry, selfish........and on and on. In reality, like i've been told, I could do better - but I care about 'S', I can't help that.

I've just got to move on at my own pace and hope someone likes me again, and hopefully if that happens, they will care for me equally.

Hope you Mother gets well soon

Take Care

Miro

Sazbo

Tiff wrote:

To the rest of our family, I'm sorry for the lack of posts - I'm trying to post when I can and I do care about you ALL. Thanks for the pms qb. My mum is very, very ill in hospital and Tiff's working on emergency power right now. I hope you understand and believe I'm thinking of you. Hopefully try and post tomorrow if I can. You're wonderful people.
Now behave yourselves!:D :rolleyes:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiffy love, please do not apologise. Don't worry about posting, that's the least important thing right now - my heart goes out to you. Anything I can do just shout. We all send you our love. Take care hun.

Much love,
Sazxxx

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

Sorry for my abscence and lack of replies. I'm not strong enough right now. I can only deal with one thing (I'm a man!)

Best wishes to you all.

Miro

Miro hun :hello: Don't worry about that, you need to save your energies to heal. But heal you will - even tho' you're only a man and you can't mutlitask;):)

Someone will like you and care for you. I know that's hard to see when you're hurting, but it will happen hun.

Sazxxx

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Miro hun :hello: Don't worry about that, you need to save your energies to heal. But heal you will - even tho' you're only a man and you can't mutlitask;):)

Someone will like you and care for you. I know that's hard to see when you're hurting, but it will happen hun.

Sazxxx

Well, I hope I do heal, I don't feel I will, but I just hope....

I'm not so sure it will happen. I'm not great looking, people only notice my 'muscles', which I call 'looks'.

'S' liked me for me, and look what happened here. It seems only very unwell people can like me, which is only going to lead to more disasters, sadly.

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

Well, I hope I do heal, I don't feel I will, but I just hope....

I'm not so sure it will happen. I'm not great looking, people only notice my 'muscles', which I call 'looks'.

'S' liked me for me, and look what happened here. It seems only very unwell people can like me, which is only going to lead to more disasters, sadly.

Have some faith in yourself - you're a good person with so much to give. Not everyone looks only skin deep, at superficial qualities, you'll have to trust me on that! Sx

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Have some faith in yourself - you're a good person with so much to give. Not everyone looks only skin deep, at superficial qualities, you'll have to trust me on that! Sx

Well....I have failed so much, which means my confidence is rock bottom.

I have such high standards for myself, not even Brad Pitt could reach them.

In others, I accept people for who they are, but for myself, I have to do everything perfectly.

If I do an exam with 200 questions, and I get 199, It's not good enough.

It's what was drilled into me when young, so if I don't do something perfectly, why would anyone else accept it, if I can't?

I need to re-train my brain, and 'S' was accepting of me as I am, which helped my confidence. Sadly, she can no longer do that.

learning_to_drive

Hi guys,

Sorry to hear of all your troubles, big hugs from me, I hope it gets better soon.

I'm ok today, to be absolutely honest with you, Im hating nights, hating it, my quality of life is less than it was when I was on days, my sleeping pattern is all over the place as is my eating patterns.

Plus I may sound very arrogant but I'm 21, have decent grades from school, surely Im better than putting out stuff at ASDA overnight, the entire debacle depresses me, Ive realised I dont want to do management, I thought I did, but I dont want to now, I want to live a bit, I really really do not like night shift work, its leaves me knackered and Im missing out on life.