Depression

beer2006

Why are all the women so good looking on here? :rotfl:

Morning. A lovely sunny cold morning, lets hope its better than last night.

flis21

beer2006 wrote:

Why are all the women so good looking on here? :rotfl:

Morning. A lovely sunny cold morning, lets hope its better than last night.

Maybe there is some link between being depressed and very attractive!:rotfl:

Morning.

Pink_butterfly_3

Flis - We are starting our settling in sessions next week. My DH has taken the day off work to come with us for the first one! They said we can do one a week until they start which is beginning of April. I'm not so worried about my DD as she is an independent little love, and she just gets on with things without batting an eyelid most of the time! My DS is a different story - hes a big mummies boy (my fault mostly) and hes quite clingy!

I went on the weightwatchers diet. Its definately the best one out there. The thing i always hated about dieting was that you felt constantly hungry - which meant you were always thinking about food! With the weightwatchers diet, you can eat pretty much anything, you just have to keep within the daily points balance. I didn't much like the idea of going to the meetings so i did it online. You can also buy the books off ebay for a fiver and that saves you having to spend 30 odd quid joining!

I think the most important thing is excersising though. Having two babies under 2 keeps me active almost non-stop but I find when i'm not doing anything, its almost impossible to shift more than the odd pound.

We had awful eating habits after having the kids as we didn;t have the time (or couldn't be bothered) to eat properly and ended up having takeaways every night! With the weightwatchers diet you can combine ready meals and cooking from scratch depending on what your lifestyle is like! In fact - i'm pretty sure i've got the books somewhere, i could dig them out and send hem to you if you wanted, saves you having to spend any money!

Horasio

Hi Ethel, I hope things are better today, sending (((big hugs))) to you.

Hi to everyone else, I won't list as I am likely to miss someone out and you are all special.

Horasio

I am posting this seperately as I know others are going thro a REALLY tough time just now.

Update on what is happening to me.

I spent ages making our meal from scratch yesterday and our son sneered at it. After all the bad treatment I have had this weekend by people, and him, I went nuts.

My OH is a chocolate teapot, basically, if he deems me 'unreasonable' he won't support me if anyone offends me, I am his partner, I would support him and boy he can be unreasonable but loyalty means a lot to me. He also accused me of poisoning him as he has become so big over the years. I eat far more than he does, yet he has ballooned up to 22 stone and 5ft 10in tall from 14 stone in 1998 when he gave up smoking.

Neither of us can lose weight, I'm a reasonable 10st 7lb ish and 5ft 6/7in but I used to be 8 stone before I was pregnant. Our son is around 12 stone and 6 ft 2in, so really skinny.

Anyway, I was upset with our son and then my OH started on me, as he judges me to be unreasonable and any loyalty goes out of the window. We don't get to eat our tea until 9.30pm. Our son gets bladdered and for the first time in age opens up and talks to us about his problems, mostly girlfriend ones. We advise him and he was in good spirits.

I went onto the landing at 2am as I couldnt sleep after feeling so upset with my OH and son is still awake and we have another hour's chat and he was all huggy. I eventually got to sleep at 5am and woke at 7am then 9am. I feel pretty rough just now and wonder what I am married to. Our son needs to learn more consideration for others, given that he and his g/f has split due to him feeling neglected and unwanted by her.

Our son is out and he took OH to work. He will goto uni to revise, then come home for tea, I told them what was tea and they seemed OK with it. OH should be getting a courtesy car till the car is repaired.

Nothing to report on the house. A person offered an amount, way below what he wanted and not seen the place. I am feeling there is some foul play going on somewhere with all these oddballs and nasty no shows.

I feel I will be free when this place is sold but of course it has to put me through 50 types of torture before then:(

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Good morning all! I've just been catching up on all the new posts.

I hope your appointment goes well today Tiff.

Ethel, I hope that your daughter is OK. Good luck with things today.

Flis21 you are so beautiful. I hope you enjoy yourself at the salon. It's nice to treat ourselves every now and again.

(((HUGS))) to you all

xxx

Sazbo

Good morning my lovlies :hello: Just a quickie - am a bizzy sazzy at work at the mo

Big hugs to all of you, especially ethel and DD. Flissy - you look absolutely gorgeous, just like you sound hun, so I'm not surprised

Will try and check in with you all later.

Much love,
Sazzyxxxxxxxxxx

Sazbo

beer2006 wrote:

Why are all the women so good looking on here? :rotfl:

Morning. A lovely sunny cold morning, lets hope its better than last night.

The guys are pretty hot too!

Szx

elona

Hi Tiff

Just a quick "Hello" and to say I hope that things get better for Ethel's daughter.

DH and I are still trying to find out what is happening to his best friend who died in October and has still not been buried or cremated. It feels as if we are in the middle of a black comedy - except it is not funny! Either a wrong message at the funeral director or the body has gone missing.

Hugs to everyone.

stenny_2

CCStar wrote:

Nothing to report on the house. A person offered an amount, way below what he wanted and not seen the place. I am feeling there is some foul play going on somewhere with all these oddballs and nasty no shows.QUOTE]

You always get this when selling a house hun,
They put in a cheeky offer to start with, it always happens up here, it's a game plan.

We had this done to us, first it was an offer of the asking price but we refused,
then he raised it by a further £10k , again we refused, they then upped to an extra £25k over asking price and still we refused him because he was so arrogant and still hadn't met our price.

We told him before he put an offer in what we wer expecting to get for the property and not to bother with a survey unless he was willing to meet the figure we wanted.

He went ahead anyway and got a full survey done, thats when he came in with the cheeky offers (as above), he came no wer near the figure we had asked for, so in the end he lost £500 on getting the place surveyed.

I have everything crossed for you.


Hope everyone is well,
Must run and catch PO,
Speak soon.

XXX