Depression

Tiff_2

Sazbo wrote:

We'll have to have a wardrobe christening party!:D
Sxx

Hi ethel & saz!
Wardrobe christening party?! :j

Is Tiffy invited?

Err, do you have to bring your own wardrobe?


Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

Sazbo wrote:

That's understandable Miro. But I think when you find a counsellor you feel comfortable with, that won't seem such an issue. It hurts bringing painful things to the surface again, but unless we do that, we can't move on. Isn't nice to go through it all again, but I do think it will help you move on with you life. Sxxx

Hi miro!:hello:
Saz is right hun. Counselling is not the easy option at all as you say but it can have an amazing effect for some people miro.
Fear is what haunts us about facing the past, imho. It does hurt to revisit all that pain hun, but a good counsellor does it at your pace and they would never take you back to something unless they can help you back at the end of it.
I buried my stuff for years angel - it does no good to keep it as a guarded secret - that's what does the harm! Once you've faced your fear, your grief, found ways to help you cope, it helps towards setting you free hun. I think you should give it a really good go angel. Even though you are having to repeat it to another counsellor, that is good. The more you get your problems out, the less scarey they will get.
Thinking of you hun.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

CarolnMalky wrote:

I just got my mail and my biopsy results are in it!! (for those of you who remember I had a gyn op 3 weeks ago!) Nothing to worry about but I have to go and see my gyn in 2 weeks for a follow up :eek: I have, of course, got myself worried sick!!!

Hi cm!
That's brilliant news angel!
I hope you're feeling better hun.
Thank you so very much for your hugs too cm.:A Try not to worry hun (says Tiff shaking in her fur!:rolleyes: ) - you'll be exhausted by the time 2 weeks is over! Don't worry until it's time to worry. Thinking of you angel.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

EthelBloggs

Tiff wrote:

Hi ethel & saz!
Wardrobe christening party?! :j

Is Tiffy invited?

Err, do you have to bring your own wardrobe?


Much Love,
Tiff xxx

of course you're invited.. and you can bring your own or make do with one of mine.. choice is yours

Glad to see you up n about a bit more tiffy and really hoping that all goes well after such a horrendous procedure xxxxxxx

Pumpkin_Pie_5

Hi all

Bad Day

Sorry

Pumpkin

EthelBloggs

Tiff wrote:

Hi ethel hun!:hello:



STOP BRAGGING!!!:D
Just jealous hun.:rolleyes:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

It's such a rare event I have to brag!! I dunno if it's the ADs or the depression itself but I don't get those urges very often anymore.. so we have to take advantage when I do, lol

EthelBloggs

Pumpkin_Pie wrote:

Hi all

Bad Day

Sorry

Pumpkin

Hiya Pumpkin..

you know what.. it's not the afternoon yet.. there's time for the day to improve. Try having a lovely bubbly bath and doing stuff that you really enjoy doing or failing that.. snuggle up on the sofa with some dvds and a big mug of hot choccy xxx

here if you fancy a chat xxxxx

Tiff_2

EthelBloggs wrote:

Mornin tiffy... how are you feeling? *huggs*

Hi ethel!:hello:
How are you hun? How's the weekend going for you?
Thanks for your hugs angel.
I thought saz would be up by now with her cup of tea!:D

I was posting earlier but the forums went down - I could have hand -delivered my posts, it was so slow.:rolleyes: Soooo, Tiffy had had enough and I went back to bed!;)
I hope all is well hun - can't believe I'm on page 84 already!:j:rolleyes:
I'm glad you got your deferment ethel. At least you've got some breathing space for a while angel.:T Take care hun!
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

EthelBloggs

hey you

weekend has been.. ok - bit tense at times cos now daughter is being as noisy as she can be.. and she had so many ppl here yesterday and they wouldn't go into another room so the poor guy trying to fix my washing machine was pulling his hair out and agghhh

She went and stayed at a friend's last night so at least we all got to relax a bit.. son is upset cos daughter is interfering in his relationship with his g/f and g/f is too nice to tell her to butt out.. so we shall see what happens later today. I've warned them that i don't want a houseful of brats n beasties today.. i want some peace n quiet, else they'll see what a grumpy cow I can be

other than that.. I've got to get my smart gear ready for tomorrow, we;ve got some delegation from the EU coming to see how our TMO is run and they want a tour of the area so muggins has been nominated to take them round :mad:

Tiff_2

learning_to_drive wrote:

Thank you, it was only ever going to be a short term thing was nights, Im actively seeking other jobs now as we speak, have applied for two others since T cook didnt come off, Im going to do business studies in all likelihood, however once i receive notification of what specific offers i have i will then make a decision, all of my choices were business related.

Hi l-t-d!:hello:
Good luck with all your plans, bless you.
It's good to see some of those numbers crossed off your list angel.
Now please forgive the ol' Tiffster hun (the memory's always the 1st thing to go!:D ), but just one question - which plan are you on now?:o

You're like a little firecracker jumping everywhere bless you.;) It's great that you're giving yourself choices and also planning ahead (teaching?), just be careful not to jump from the frying pan into the fire hun.
Call centres are mega-stressful, but that's great if you can cope.

I just remember that you'd switched jobs and had gotten really low just a little while ago angel. You were upset about not belonging anywhere and having no security amongst other things. I just don't want you to end up like that again hun. Plans are great if they are the right ones sweetie. Too many plans can be like too many cooks.
I'm sorry hun - I'm not trying to be a party-pooper. Onlythinking of your stress angel.Just take 105 deep breaths before you make any decisions hun.;)
Hope you're well angel - take care.:T
Much Love,
Tiff xxx