Depression

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Sazbo

Morning peeps :hello: Sorry I wasn't around yesterday... counselling an' all that:rolleyes:

Hope ya all doing good.

Love Sazzyxxx

Sazbo

Thanks QB! I was looking out for them:D

Sx

Sazbo

CCStar wrote:

It's my son's 19th birthday today

Going out tonight and concentrating on having happy thoughts to enjoy today:)

Happy birthday to your son CC! :bdaycake: Where you off to tonight, somewhere nice?

Sazx

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

Hiya peeps..

Thanks to QB for those wonderful hugggggggggggs!!! I look forward to them each day

Hope everyone's fine.. I'm ok.. just ordered some new wardrobes thanks to stenny, lol

struggling a bit with day 1 of me diet but I'll keep going.. I have to before my behind expands even more and ppl think there's been another solar eclipse, lol

Huggs to everyone xxxxxxxx

Hiya hun :wave: How's the dread 'D' going? Think I'll need to do something soon, that or get my doors widened :eek:

LOL what all this about Stenny's wardrobes?... :rotfl:

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Hi CCStar!
Just read your posts yesterday..may I offer the following?...

The bottom line that holds a marriage long term is respect.
From what you say, your husband clearly disrespects you. You are absolutely right to be angry about this.

He is not going to change his attitude and behaviour towards you unless you give him a compelling reason to do so. He needs to conclude for himself that he is going to lose you...unless he treats you with respect pronto.

Here's how, sister!..

1. Upgrade your appearance. Get a sassy modern haircut. Dress smart, even around the house. Wear perfume and make-up if you don't already.
2. Be generally unavailable when he might expect you to be around. You have a great life outside apart from him. If he asks, be vague about what you are up to.
3. If he persists with disrespectful behaviour, calmly tell him what the consequences will be if there is a repeat and ensure he experiences the consequences if necessary.

Using another person to meet your emotional needs ("emotional dependency") is commonly mistaken for love. Sister, you do not "need" this man...in fact he is lucky to have met a woman as wonderful as you.:j

stenny_2

CCStar wrote:

It's my son's 19th birthday today

Going out tonight and concentrating on having happy thoughts to enjoy today:)

Hope you have a gr8 time hun.
Happy birthday to your son.

:A

stenny_2

Sazbo wrote:

Morning peeps :hello: Sorry I wasn't around yesterday... counselling an' all that:rolleyes:

Hope ya all doing good.

Love Sazzyxxx

Hope it went well hun.
Have a gr8 day.

:A :A

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

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Too late, Saz's toast is burnt and the cheese ruined.......... Mmmmmmmmm Smarties

Hiya hun :wave: Sazzy's cheese on toast burnt so nothing for tea last night!

stenny_2

Sazbo wrote:

Hiya hun :wave: How's the dread 'D' going? Think I'll need to do something soon, that or get my doors widened :eek:

LOL what all this about Stenny's wardrobes?... :rotfl:

Found a bargain in argos for a triple wardrobe, i think it could be a mis-price!!
You didn't think she was coming to dismantle mines and take them away did u ? hehe!!

:A