Arghhh - any thoughts please!

Poodlecrazy

Thanks I think that's about it I'm just doing my best to ignore this now I've told him in black and white that he has my support and love I can't do anymore so he's on his own to deal with these issues now. We shall see.... I haven't heard from him since yesterday lunchtime when he got narky because it took me nearly an hour to respond to a message so will see what today brings!

FagAshLil

Poodlecrazy wrote: »

Thanks I think that's about it I'm just doing my best to ignore this now I've told him in black and white that he has my support and love I can't do anymore so he's on his own to deal with these issues now. We shall see.... I haven't heard from him since yesterday lunchtime when he got narky because it took me nearly an hour to respond to a message so will see what today brings!

It's exhausting, isn't it?

I hope he calms down and becomes more like the man you fell in love with, I really do.

xx

flutterby_lil

Just out of interest, how old are you both?

Poodlecrazy

flutterby_lil wrote: »

Just out of interest, how old are you both?

Hi I'm 31 he's 35.

Yes it is exhausting, good job I'm busy at the moment :-)

x

Bubby

Poodlecrazy wrote: »

No he isn't actually divorced and yes that is adding to the financial stress and has regular quite aggressive communications with his ex. She has also attempted to lie to me about his actions (telling me he was with her when actually he was sat with me) etc so it all adds to it.

Much as I hate it I think my only option is to back right off and leave him to it and respond to contact but not initiate it, if his feelings are genuine then he will realise he is in danger of losing me and will be back to his normal self once the stresses are reduced and will build the bridges, if not then it's already over so really there isn't much I can do.

x:cool:

You do realise that you are entering into a warzone if it is like this? plus if he has children then times that by 100!

I would walk away