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Benbenandme's Next Installment ...
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To every single one of you who has read my diaries over the last 12 months, posted or supported me in any way, thank you all so so so so much .... you have no idea how much I have appreciated the support ....
HE PLEADED GUILTY TODAYMortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
Mortgage Overpayments Pot £15870 -
Hi Benben, I often read but rarely post. Just wanted to send my thoughts your way. It must be a day of massive mixed emotions for you. Let's hope the end is in sight now. SVB xLBM 27/12/14.
January Ebay and Amazon aim: £500. £22/£500 January weight loss aim 10lb. 0/10.
1 debt vs 100 days challenge £22/£500 by 7th April.
Nsd January aim 20. PAD starting 29/12/14 £20 -
Had to pop over after I saw your post on FB!
I bet you're full of emotional wirrliness right now, bitter sweet emotions at that.
What happens now?"Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.0 -
Sentencing in September (probably prison) .... am meeting him tomorrow to discuss stuff ... and he's already said he's going to fight for more access to ds
Mortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
Mortgage Overpayments Pot £15870 -
More access from prison? How does that work?
Hope he doesn't trouble you too much and it's not too bad for DS. xMortgage OP 2025 £7050/7000Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000
Mortgage balance: £34,965
Money making challenge £78/400
”Do what others won’t early in life so you can do what others can’t later in life” (stolen from Gally Girl)0 -
He reckons he'll only get 3 mths at worst ... says he's made mistakes but its in the past now, wants to spend more time with ds, says I have blocked that up to now and he's not having it anymore ....
Just as one problem finishes ....Mortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
Mortgage Overpayments Pot £15870 -
I've heard the fight for more access story before, just ask him to put it all through his solicitor. He's bound to say things tomorrow to get your back up, just stay calm and polite, don't agree to anything until you've thought it over."Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.0
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Every day reader, rare poster. You are a brilliant Mum and daughter, look after yourself and your son. If at all possible keep the high ground. The threat of more access sounds like someone who has made a dreadful mistake fighting back with the one thing that will stop you asking about and analysing what will happen in the current situation. Good luck to you and yours, what a very difficult time for you.
On the other hand two whole days on a bus your son must be in 7th heaven!0 -
All I can say is Blimey! Any ideas why he has pleaded guilty today? As Pooky said, stay calm and polite tomorrow - I will be thinking of you.
Oh, and I did as Pooky did - saw your post on f/b and dived straight on over here to find out what was going on.0 -
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