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would you want to know if your bridesmaid didnt think you should be getting married?

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  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    id tell he how you feel if shes a true freind she would understand
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  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    If you don't think they should be getting married, it's a no brainer isn't it?

    You can't be bridesmaid if that's the way you feel.

    I'd let her know that you don't approve so can't accept the role, or accept them as a couple (as after all, it's her life and her choice) and accept.
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