Stormybay's Thread a bit of comfort in a hard world

mandymoo

Morning everyone,

hope you are all feeling fine today,the sun is out here but very cold.

Millymoomoo, all our thoughts and prayers are with you as they are with everyone.

I noticed that this thread has been removed as a sticky,so I was wondering what you all thought about it maybe being moved to the Marriages and Relationship board and if so how does that happen ?

Love and hugs to you all
mandymoo xxx

AnW'sMum

morning all, still sat in PJ's here! DD still has a slight temp and horrible cough so shan;t be going far today.

It could be a good idea to move the thread to the other voard (no idea how), I am subscribed to it anyway so I don't lose it!

Well I shall get dressed check the kids are ok and carry on trying to get the house straight.

Take care all

xxx

postingalwaysposting

hi stormbay and all... i have only read this thread properly over the last 3/4 days... this is because after reading the first few posts i couldnt read anymore due to my own emotion... i have finally read the whole thread and cryed a lot of tears... i have only lost my grandad but i lost my dad due to a split up of marraige i never see him now and sometimes i relive memories etc etc...

stormbay you are amazing they way you have coped over these last months is increadible... hugs always and forver to you and your children

anniestar

Hi guys, hope everyone is well safe and happy. Haven't been on here recently for a couple of reasons. problems with actully posting. You were never far from my thoughts and prayers. Will post tomorrow, please look after yourselves and have a nice night.

mandymoo

anniestar wrote:

Hi guys, hope everyone is well safe and happy. Haven't been on here recently for a couple of reasons. problems with actully posting. You were never far from my thoughts and prayers. Will post tomorrow, please look after yourselves and have a nice night.

Hi anniestar, For whatever your reasons it`s lovely to hear from you and know that you are well.

And it`s so nice to see so many other posters, we are all here for each other.

Love and Hugs
mandymoo xxx

twink

lots of love to everyone, if anyone wants to pm me please do, everyone needs support for a long time after so bear in mind i am always here even if i dont post everyday xx

nearlyrich

mandymoo wrote:

I noticed that this thread has been removed as a sticky,so I was wondering what you all thought about it maybe being moved to the Marriages and Relationship board and if so how does that happen ?

Sorry about that everyone there was a poll last night about too many stickies, I asked Martin to have a look at his stickies to see if any could be released and this one was unstuck ( he is the boss:rolleyes: )

If you want it moving I can move it but it might eventually end up on discussion time which is really fast moving, you might notice I have changed the thread name to hopefully make it easier to find;)

If you keep posting it will keep at the top and you can bookmark it by subscribing so it's easy to find.;)

anniestar

For what its worth I think I would like it to stay on here. Just a personal view. On another matter, I managed to get a very beautiful box and some tissue paper which I have put into the box and then put this printed thread. I will be giving it to my Aunt as soon as my DH gets better(nothing serious only a heavy cold).It is impossible to read it without a)being moved to tears; b)being humbeld by your amazing strenth and courage; c)grateful for this community and SO glad you are all here. Again thank you doesn't even come close to what I want to say but Thank you anyway. Hope we all get through tomorrow, its a difficult day for me as it would have been my closest friends birthday. I miss her so much,she was like a second mum, big sister and very best friend all rolled into one. She was so happy when I met my DH and was fantastic support when I was planning our wedding.We had great fun trying on veils headresses and all that stuff. She came into the car with me and was so proud.She made it almost ok that I didn't have my mum or sister with me. I miss her so very much.Sorry for burdening you all AGAIN but I HATE 14th Feb. Hope you all have a bearable day. You are my strenth and you are my friends and for that again , I say thank you from the bottom of my heart.

elaine373

Stormybay wrote:

Hello everyone,
A strange week for me really, very up and down with emotions all over the place. To be honest, I couldn't wait for the weekend, but now it's here, I wish it was Monday and I could be off to work!
Such is my life at the moment, just waiting, I just know what I was waiting for! To see John again? For him to come home? For this awful feeling to pass. It's difficult to think that life goes on. It's seven weeks since John died and 8 weeks today that I took him to hospital because he wasn't feeling right! I can't imagine how I've managed to survive, but I have, and that in itself is an acheivement.
On that note, I want to say a huge thanks to ALL of you lovely people on here for keeping me sane (sometimes) and words and thoughts of support and encouragement.
Every day I'm now going to think of something postive, or something I've acheived, just to prove to myself really that I WILL move forward, with John in my heart and soul. I'm sure, out there somewhere, he's watching me and helping me forward with his love.
So, today, I'm going to see Midge Ure with friends, and I've decided I will meet them earlier and go and have something to eat with them. (I find it hard to eat with other people since John died for some strange reasin) So that's my challenge for today. I suppose before that happens, I need to get out of bed!
Hope everyone is all well, and not snowed in, the snow has all but melted here down near the sea in North Wales, it still looks lovely up on the mountains though and that will stay for a while yet.
Have a lovely weekend everyone, as best you can.....and to quote AnW'sMum, stay strong,
Huggs and kisses to all those who need them, and to all that dont!
Stormy
xxxxxx

I think you are amazing and i am sure your John would be so proud at how you are coping. we all think that if so and so died that we would fall apart but such is life and the majority of us go on. I cope with the death of my mum by believing that she has gone on somewhere and god willing i will see her again.Hold onto that and keep strong.x

mandymoo

Anniestar, big love and hugs to you and I hope your DH feels better soon I`m sure with you looking after him he will.
I have re-read my post about moving this thread and I agree with you it feels right to be here and not move, and don`t be sorry no one is a burden,we are all friends and it feels good to have people who we all relate to.
Well tomorrow is my last day at work and after twelve years its will be sad as the place holds so many memories for me, I work in the local village pub and my dad loved going there as a family, as it is really a restaurant rather than a pub,and we took dad there when he was poorly (he wanted to go one last time) and today I looked at the table we sat at and thought "my dad sat there" sounds really silly now but a lot has happened over the last twelve years and the pub has been a big part of my life. There I go waffling on,
Well to echo what anniestar has said I will be thinking of you all tomorrow.
Hi Twink nice to hear you are ok

Love and hugs to you all

mandymoo xxx