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Weekly Flylady Thread 13th June 2011

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  • cyclingyorkie
    cyclingyorkie Posts: 4,234 Forumite
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    I have spoken to my mum tonight. It is not good news :( The chemo & radiotherepy haven't worked on the throat tumour, and now it has spread to his liver. They are sending him home, because that is what he wants. We are talking months :(

    My sister called aswell. She has started the 2nd part of her chemo, so had to have an injection today which may make her feel rough tomorrow (to do with white blood count) She still sounds very chipper :) But it is hard to tell, as we haven't actually seen her (we live in Essex & she lives near Bradford)

    Haven't done any flying this evening. We have even had a chippy tea! :( i am such a failure! DD did clean the bathroom eventually. Her friend has just turned up (it's bedtime!! :eek:) and they are off out. Oh, to be young!

    DH called from the top of Ben Nevis earlier! Hopefully he is at (or near the bottom now)

    I am going to bed, and hoping for a better day tomorrow.

    another flylady here saying 'cut yourself some slack!'

    You are under enormous pressure - and a chippy tea does not= failure - if it did we would all be failures! To me the chippy is an occasional treat/lifesaver on rare occasions! (Well not for me - slimming world and the chippy are not compatible if i want to lose weight - but my family still get their occasional treat!)

    We lost my f-i-l to cancer last year - we are in York, he was near Romford. It was absolute hell - and other things had to take a back seat. You just have to do what you can cope with - and s*d the rest!

    I'm rushing around today because youngest and i are off to London tomorrow to see Much Ado about Nothing - our second attempt to see the divine Mr Tennant on stage ( he'd done his back last time!)

    Thankfully the dentist has glued my bridge back on and given me antibiotics for the infection ( it tasted like something had died in there!) and I feel 100% better!

    Hope everyone is well - spoons to those who need them...


    CY
    :jFlylady and proud of it:j
  • toochoosey
    toochoosey Posts: 7,371 Forumite
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    edited 17 June 2011 at 9:15AM
    Monday ~ Living Room, Hall and Stairs
    Level 1
    Clean the fire and surround.
    Extras
    1. Clean light shades/fittings and lamps
    Tuesday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level Two
    mop floors

    Wednesday - Master bedroom & landing

    Level Two
    Vacuum floors
    Level Three
    Dust and deweb

    Extras
    1. Sort through a box of junk fom the landing
    2. Binbag dance
    3. HHI
    Thursday ~ Bathroom, Study and Stairs!
    Level One
    Vacuum/mop all these floors
    Level Two
    Wipe keyboard/monitor etc.. bath, basins, bog.. the works!!
    scrub the tiles.. paying particular attention to yellowed grout.
    Level Three
    Clear and wipe the desk. do relevant filing/shredding etc




    Extras
    1. HHI
    Friday ~ Childrens Rooms, Spare rooms Or just neglected spaces!
    Level One
    Declutter and vacuum the floor!
    Make half an hour for YOURSELF!!!
    Level Two
    Sort through a cupboard of clothing
    Sort through a box of toys/junk
    Binbag dance
    Level Three
    Tidy/straighten a bookcase/shelf unit
    Dust and deweb




    Extras
    1. Make a list of 5 things you want done by the end of term (Frog list)
    2. HHI #
    Good Morning all, I'm off to finish the ironing I started this morning....oh, MrT been and shopping all put away.... xx
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
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    Morning all :hello:

    Before school I managed to:

    Put away the dry dishes
    fill up the sink again and so some more dishes
    empty the WM and hang it up
    put another load on
    wipe the kitchen surfaces again
    tidy up some toys from the LR

    Have made myself a cup of tea and am going to enjoy peace and quiet for a few minutes then do another HHC from 9.30 - 10.00............ any joiners??

    Love n hugs to Toots and LL - hope your both ok xx
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • ubamother
    ubamother Posts: 1,190 Forumite
    Morning all. I've been away for a while .. (in a virtual sense) .... now I'm back. Still flying - or at least flapping hard and wobbling along inches from the ground! Been keeping up a minimal amount of flying but after treatment am hopefully able to soar - off to the kitchen!
  • Goodintentions
    Goodintentions Posts: 1,962 Forumite
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    Good morning :D

    DD1 & friend woke me up when they got in at 3.30am. they weren't that noisy, but i think i heard the taxi pull up (window open all night). I love my sleep, so i don't usually hear the dawn chorus - noisy little b*g**rs!! I txt Dh to see how was getting on, but they are running about 3 hours over schedule 'cos someone slipped on the way down Ben Nevis & hurt their leg, so had to be taken to hospital :( I think they set off up Scarfell Pike at about 6ish this morning. I am shattered now! (because of disturbed sleep, not just thinking about mountain climbing :rotfl:)

    I have taken DS & friend to school, had breakfast & off to Toddler group in a mo with Little Miss Sunshine :) Then I need to take DD2 to school for her last exam. Hopefully DD1 will take the dog out before the rain comes (if she gets up in time!)

    Flying will have to wait 'til later. And something cooked for dinner - my diet is suffering this week :(

    Hugs & spoons to those that need them :A
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    nails prettied... :D
    Baby fed and changed.. she was gross!!

    Having a cuppa then off to tesco for some juice!!!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • outofmoney
    outofmoney Posts: 936 Forumite
    Good Intentions I agree with the others, you are no failure. In fact, you fed your family, which considering everything going on was pretty amazing.

    I was hoping for an early night but youngest was complaining of stomach pains. In fact he was crying and at times heaving. Never quite sure with him how much is genuine but he opted for his bedroom floor as it hurt in his bed apparently. I didn't get to bed till late in the end and then couldn't sleep. Woken early by the phone today (Withheld, no message...Grrr!) so not a good start.
    OH has kept DS3 off school (he is easily persuaded) so no hope of much flying today. Got OH to phone Drs, and DS3 has an appointment late this afternoon.

    Hope everyone has a good day, hugs and spoons to all.
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    I've been working on the Pc since 8.45 and my eyes are going funny so i'm going to do a QHC at 10.20 if anyone wants to join me?
  • cat_smith
    cat_smith Posts: 1,258 Forumite
    3 work frogs eaten this morning. Great weight off my shoulders

    Really annoyed with Dr Surgery though. Normal Dr is on leave until 29th. First appt I could get with the other (wicked witch) is next Thursday. This is despite me not being able to eat much more than eggs at the moment. Grrrr.

    OK. Rant over. Must take beast for a walk - but its pouring with rain. Ick. Then work out what I'm feeeding DH tonight.
    GC Mar 13 £47.36/£150
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    Hi,

    In my QHC i

    Collected laundry from downstairs
    Wm x 1
    Loaded dw
    Sorted recycling
    Cleared drainer
    Handwashed
    S&S Kitchen

    I'd better get back to work now, i'll be back later.
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