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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Work is fabulous Butti-I really landed on my feet there. I am working with a lovely Austrian woman, she is so kind and gentle and am getting one-2-one training with her. We work in a gorgeous Grade II listed building, upstairs and its great. I look forward to going to work.

    Life otherwise is 'challenging'. I thought I had secured the perfect house to let-only 2 miles from current house, 3 bedrooms, good area-then my CCJ caused it all to go t!ts up, depspite me offering a larger deposit than necessary and 6 months rent up front and XOH as guarantor. I cried (again) for about 2 hours non-stop...I really am at the end of my tether. Any suggestions greatly received.

    DD has impetigo at the minute and can't go to school so at home with her.

    On a happier note-I have lost nearly a stone from stress! (Don't get too excited, this only means I am down from the biggest I have ever been)

    *sigh*
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Hi ya Lou, how is your MIL?
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Hi ya Lou, how is your MIL?

    Unfortunately she is declining rapidly Bun, so sad to see her slip further towards not knowing who we are by the week.

    Sorry to hear about the house my friend sending you positive thoughts xx
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Thanks hunny,
    so sorry about your MIL. How is DH coping?
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • schoolrunmum
    schoolrunmum Posts: 2,689 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Hi all-good to see you again Lou!
    Sorry to hear 'bout the house Bun..why do you wanna move??? Here?? DS still in middle of GSCE's,so that's stressful,on the upside, the diet/fitness is going well, I have lost almost 1.5 stone, and the new boat is en route to Mallorca,so cinders will have a holiday this year! DH off to La Coruna on fri to sail it onwards to Gib...

    Pouring with rain here-what happened to summer??
    Debt-free...and staying that way...
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    SRM, see my post on page 1 hun...
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,697 Ambassador
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    Challanging indeed Bunny :(

    Hey Louise :wave: & SRM.
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  • schoolrunmum
    schoolrunmum Posts: 2,689 Forumite
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    Whoa-just caught up-sorry Bun,didn't know xxxx
    Debt-free...and staying that way...
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Pouring with rain here-what happened to summer??

    This is summer. When it pours sideways with rain it'll be autumn, and when it pours down with snow it'll be winter...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Butti
    Butti Posts: 5,014 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    This is summer. When it pours sideways with rain it'll be autumn, and when it pours down with snow it'll be winter...

    Someone posted a message on 21 June about how it was the longest day and now we head towards Christmas. I was tempted to post FO back!

    I was quite pleased it rained as I was due to go on a 20 mile bike ride 'unless it was !!!!ing it down'. I think they still went and it was raining lightly, but half an hour later it really was !!!!ing it down!:D

    Off to York tomorrow for a site meeting, then a trustee meeting, then a meeting with daddy to ask for a top up. How bloody humiliating!

    I don't know what to suggest Bunny. Although you have a CCJ you must by now have some years of redemption. Maybe go and talk to an agent and see what they suggest as a way round. I would have thought a gaurantaur would have swung it.

    My lodger told me he had some bad news for me yesterday. My heart was in my mouth, but it turns out he does have a sick sense of humour as the bad news was that he will be here till November!

    B
    Debt LBM (08/09) £11,641. DEBT FREE APRIL 2021.
    Diary 'Butti's journey : A matter of loaf or death'.
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    48% off mortgage

    'one day I will be rich and famous…for now I'll just have to settle for being poor and incredibly sexy'. Vimrod Member of MIKE'S :cool: MOB
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